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I don't know what to say, but I want you to know that everything you have said I will remember it always!
ConnieC
San Antonio, TX - Saturday, May 28, 2005 10:46 PM CDT
I hope you are all well! And STAY AWAY RAIN!!!
Mur, Brandon sounds like a strong little man! You will be in my thoughts! {{{HUGS}}
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Saturday, May 28, 2005 6:00 PM CDT
Hi Guys
Good luck with the walk a thon tomorrow. I will be thinking about you and I am sorry I won't be there.
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, May 28, 2005 1:14 PM CDT
Hello Deb, thanks so much for stopping by Hannah's site. I clicked on your link and feel priveledged to have gotten to know your sweet angel. How strong your family is.
I wonder, maybe we did pass each other in the main concourse. Thanks so much for allowing me to glimpse into your family. Jamie and Princess Hannah Banana
Jamie www.caringbridge.org/ky/hannah <jamie_kyle@sympatico.ca>
Sault Ste. Marie, On, Canada - Saturday, May 28, 2005 8:55 AM CDT
Morning everyone!
M <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, May 28, 2005 5:22 AM CDT
I just dropped by to see how you were that picture in the guestbook with the other baby is so cute.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Saturday, May 28, 2005 1:46 AM CDT
Hello from South dakota. I came across your website tonight and wanted to say hello. i am so sorry for the loss of your daughter - she is so beautiful. She is 28 days older than my daughter, Ashlyn. Your website is beautiful....many blessings.......
Becky and Ashlyn www.caringbridge.org/sd/ashlyn <beckjo70@hotmail.com>
Mitchell, SD USA - Saturday, May 28, 2005 0:00 AM CDT
Since i won't be here for the weekend i best do a memory.
It's of ELMO. Rockin Elmo to be exact.. One of the Squirts favotites.(ok mine also)
Every time I went over there Elmo had to rock.Katelyn would get her tush a movin and smile that wonderful smile.
I can remember when Elmo would shake and his arm that played the guitar would be moving back & forth & hitting her and the more it moved the more she would laugh ,The crazy nut HAHAHA.She knew how to make people laugh !!
"Shake Rattle & Roll" was my favorite,she didnt care as long as it moved and sang.
Katelyns Aunt Bonnie & I knew how much she liked it so we had it put in the funeral flowers so we could play Elmo for her.
Thinking of you Squirt with warm memories.
Luv Aunt Coco
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Friday, May 27, 2005 9:27 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian! Good Luck Deb on Sunday! Hope the walk goes smoothly. Hope they are gentle with you when they 'scrape' you off the pavement. Do you have some chiropractic care or a massage booked for the next day? LOL!!! I will be thinking of you as I sit down to a relaxing brunch with family. I think I would still rather be there with you and chatting... but we will get to catch up soon! Have a great weekend!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Friday, May 27, 2005 2:26 PM CDT
Hi there,
OK get out there Deb & Brian and do us proud!! Have a great time on Sunday and give Kelly a big hug for me!!
Thought I'd let you know that unfortunately Brandon is being admitted to hospital on Sunday, very emotional..Deb what am I going to do without you and my little Katelyn??? I so dreaded this day although I knew it would come I am just not prepared to be there without boo. We had CF clinic today and they weren't too impressed so they decided to admit him. Deal was they have to do it on Sunday afternoon/evening because Brandon REFUSES to miss the CF walk at the zoo. What a little go getter!! I'll be there right beside him walking with him. He is just the inspiration that keeps me going. What precious gifts all children are...too bad some don't realize it for many years.
I will update you all and will look for updates about the mighty Mito march!!!!!
xooxoxoxoox / Mur
Muriel/Brandon Gibson <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Friday, May 27, 2005 12:47 AM CDT
Good morning! I hope everyone is enjoying this beautiful day!
Deb and Brian, you are always in our thoughts!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Friday, May 27, 2005 8:49 AM CDT
To My Katelyn
My memory my Grammie already put in.
It was of us being on the Harley & you where holding on awfully tight (Hey I was'nt that bad of a driver)!!!! Im really good at driving now,wish you were here so we could go really really fast and you could feel the wind on your face.Which was one of your favorite things>
You will always be my BABY. I will never forget you.
Love always your Meegin
Katelyns Meegin <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
LEAMINGTON, - Friday, May 27, 2005 7:53 AM CDT
Hi Deb,
Thank you so much for stopping in to visit Kari. We just love meeting new people.
Katelyn is just the most beautiful child. Her cheeks, how cute. Truly, she must be the most beautiful Angel. Your family was so blessed to have her. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Again, thank you for visiting, come back soon.
Have a great weekend.
Lisa and Kari
Kari's Page <Lisa@iamtheshoe.com>
Langley AFB, VA - Friday, May 27, 2005 7:23 AM CDT
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Friday, May 27, 2005 5:54 AM CDT
I remember when Katelyn was in London hospital and not long after she first went there Doug and I went to see Deb and Katelyn when this Dr came in to talk to Deb regarding her health. Doug went out but when I asked Deb if she wanted me to stay the Dr said yes and shut the door. I can’t ever forget the things she told Deb, she told her she was metabolically dismorphic (ears were low etc) and she would never get better, wouldn’t see her first birthday, she would more than likely be a vegetable and if they didn’t know what was wrong with her yet they probably never would know or be able to help her. She told Deb she should just go home and forget her and get on with her life. I went and got Doug and we all sat and cried while talking to Deb. It was such a helpless feeling when we went home and had to leave them, it just broke our hearts. Thank God that Dr was a mile off and that none of us ever gave up as she gave us so much love and so many precious memories. Memories are something death cannot take from us. I miss Katelyn and her Grandpa so much and I know my heart will never heal over the loss of two very special people. Thank God Grandpa was there waiting for Katelyn in Heaven because that would be what he would have wanted, to hold her and look after her.
Love and kisses,
Grandma Tootsie
- Thursday, May 26, 2005 10:57 PM CDT
I don’t have any pics on the computer of the episode Vicki was talking about in the guestbook but I do have these pics of the two munchkins.
When Katelyn got home in January the family got together for christmas. Makyla wanted Katelyn’s soother and wouldn’t give up until she got it. As you can see from the pic she didn't care though, she just used the thumb instead. Those two played so great together and always got along.
Also on that day, Makyla taught Katelyn how to say no in a matter of seconds and then we couldn’t get her to stop, everything was no, no, no. It was quite comical, needless to say they provided the entertainment for the entire night.
Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, May 26, 2005 10:54 PM CDT
hi its Brandon just writing to say i had a great time in
Florida.I wish i could see u guys to tell u all about it
i have some photos and my mom will send them to u so thats
it and thanx for caring u guys really are (special)
Brandon <brandongibson11@hotmail.com>
Toronto, On Canada - Thursday, May 26, 2005 8:55 PM CDT
Hi!
Just checking in...hope you have a
great weekend!
~Tabby’s Page~
Karen & Tabby <karenpuddn@comcast.net>
- Thursday, May 26, 2005 6:58 PM CDT
Hi Deb,
Hope the walk goes well on Sunday. Thinking of you always.
Love, Winnie (Angel Caillin's Memere)
Winnie <jfairs0527@rogers.com>
Oshawa, ON - Thursday, May 26, 2005 6:55 PM CDT
I had to leave town unexpectedly and only got home a few minutes ago, I sure did miss visiting the site. This site absolutely amazes me more an more each day. Even though I have never met any of you I feel like I know you better than my neighbours. Take care of yourself, you are never far from my thoughts everyday.
Coreen
Leamington, Ontario Canada - Thursday, May 26, 2005 6:46 PM CDT
Just stoped in to say hi also hope you have a good weekend bye
Justina And Donna Warren <justina_1010@hotmail.com>
Windsor, Canada - Thursday, May 26, 2005 2:19 PM CDT
Yeah!!! More sunshine!!! Someone is smilin' down on me and telling me to get working on my garden! Hi Everyone!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Thursday, May 26, 2005 12:37 AM CDT
Good Morning all. Hope all you walkers are getting rest for Sunday,really wish I could go with you. Got lots of work to do today since it is my only day off and beautiful at that. I came across this poem which I thought would be good for all of you who read but DON'T SIGN IN please sign in it is important.
THE FRIEND WHO STANDS BY
WHEN TROUBLES COME YOUR SOUL TO TRY
YOU LOVE THE FRIEND WHO JUST STANDS BY.
PERHAPS THERE'S NOTHING SHE CAN DO
THE THING IS STRICTLY UP TO YOU.
FOR THERE ARE TROUBLES ALL YOUR OWN
AND PATHS THE SOUL MUST TREAD ALONE.
TIMES WHEN LOVE CAN'T SMOOTH THE ROAD
NOR FRIENDSHIP LIFT THE HEAVY LOAD.
BUT JUST TO FEEL YOU HAVE A FRIEND
WHO WILL STAND BY UNTIL THE END.
WHOSE SYMPATHY THROUGH ALL ENDURES
WHOSE WARM HANDCLASP IS ALWAYS YOURS.
IT HELPS SOMEHOW TO PULL YOU THROUGH
ALTHOUGH THERE'S NOTHING SHE CAN DO.
AND SO WITH FERVENT HEART WE CRY
GOD BLESS THE FRIEND WHO JUST STANDS BY.
Michelle <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Thursday, May 26, 2005 8:26 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian,
Guess who was on your site today. Tayler and myself. Tayler's class is swimming today so we are here watching as Tayler can't swim. We have to tag along though. He has bad hiccups right now...the ones that hurt. He is right here besdie me checking out Katelyns site and pics. Talk to you soon.
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, May 26, 2005 8:25 AM CDT
Wow, Karen, thanks for asking for more sun, it worked! What an amazing day it is outthere already! sign.. but I guess that means I have to PLAY outside! WAHOO!!
Have a great day all!!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Thursday, May 26, 2005 8:01 AM CDT
GOOD MORNING
HOPE ALL IS WELL WITH EVERYONE!!I CHECKED IN TWICE YESTERDAY BUT GOT SO BUSY I DIDN'T SIGN IN WHEN I GOT HOME.SHAME ON ME!!!
I WENT FOR A BIKE RIDE TO GET THESE LEGS IN GOOD WORKING ORDER FOR THE WALK.DID IT WORK?? "NO" BUT IF DEB CAN MAKE IT SO WILL I!! HEAR THAT LITTLE SISTER?
KEEP SAYING ""WE CAN DO IT.WE CAN DO IT"LOL
TAKE CARE
LUV CONN
CONNIE <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Thursday, May 26, 2005 7:28 AM CDT
IS IT TRUE?
Somebody didn't sign the guestbook!
ELMO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Thursday, May 26, 2005 6:19 AM CDT
Katelyn always layed on the floor and when she learned how to roll over, you never knew where she was going to end up. She may not have been able to crawl at that age but she could move quick enough by rolling over and over until she got where she was going. If you walked out of the room she would be off the blanket and under the coffee table or wherever she wanted to go.
Brian said she would make a good lawn roller!(What was he thinking?)
Katelyn had so many different tests for so many different things, and it seemed that she was always getting poked for some reason or another. Her parents thought that if they hooked up the garden hose to her that she would make a excellent lawn sprinkler.
I'm sure people wondered why they always needed Katelyn to do thier yard work but she makes the happiest lawn roller anyone could ever have and the cutest lawn sprinkler.
If people didn't know Debbie and Brian's sense of humour, I hate to imagine what they were thinking!!!!!!!
Aunt Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Thursday, May 26, 2005 5:48 AM CDT
Good morning, Hope everyone has been doing okay. Had four days of beautiful weather canoeing, but came home with a cold. Its going to take a couple hours to read back to when I wrote last. Have fun on your walk this weekend. And don't worry I am sure they won't have to peel you off of the pavement. You have way to much energy to stop you....
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, Ont - Thursday, May 26, 2005 5:11 AM CDT
Hi Aunt Debbie and Uncle Brian. Sorry that I've never signed in before. I don't get on the computer much. I didn't really have very much time with Katelyn because it seemed that me or Makyla were always sick when she was home but the few that I have I'll never forget.
When I found out that I was prenant it was like a week before Aunt Debbies baby shower. Everyone wondered why I didn't have any drinks well.... everyone was so happy for Debbie and Brian and I was so scared to tell everyone. Aunt Debbie was so excited that we were going to be mothers together. It made me feel better about telling everyone else. Then the days of labour she went through really scared me. Then Katelyn was here and everyone was so happy. I went to see Katelyn in NOvember and I was a whale. It was the first time I saw Katelyn since she got sick and from the pictures i was nervous about going. When I got there she wasn't the little girl from the pictures. She was this beautiful happy little girl without a care in the world. The next thing I remember was around July and Makyla and Katelyn were big enough to know each other. Makyla was in Katelyns walker and Katelyn wanted in on the fun, so they shared it. There are these pictures of them together and they look like they are about to get into trouble but the last picture they both fall over and its funny because neither of them could go anywhere. I hope Aunt Debbie has these pictures so she knows what I'm talking about.
Katelyn was Makylas best buddy even though they didn't see much of each other. Makyla will always know Katelyn and how she touched everyone.
Miss you lots
XOXOXO
Vicki and MAkyla
Vicki and Makyla <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, May 26, 2005 3:23 AM CDT
Hi Guys!
Just checking in. Deb, you almost got yourself an ofice job the day of the walk but another volunteer stepped up to the plate. I knew how relieved you'd be to be able to get out there and get some exercise! LOL
Haven't had a lot of time to do anything-between the mito march and Kirk's bad sleep habits! I'm a walking zombie lately. But don't worry, I'll liven up for the weekend. Don't be doing anymore of those rain dances down there. The threat of rain on Sunday is pretty nerve-wracking.
See you soon.
love ya,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Thursday, May 26, 2005 0:23 AM CDT
And now I am saying GOOD NIGHT and thanks Katelyn for the sunny day! I tried to make the best of it... can I please have a little bit more tomorrow??? :-)
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 9:15 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian, sorry it has been so long since I last visited. Been busy getting ready for Kirkie's walk. I am looking so forward to meeting you both. I hope you are both well. May God watch over you both. Love, Robin xoxo
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 7:23 PM CDT
Not only am I thankful my daughters let me use their computers to put memories in but............
I am so thankful that Katelyn was home for her first birthday so we could all be together as a family. We missed so many holidays with all of you. We are thankful we at least have that memory and last Thanksgiving together.
These are some pics of Katelyn’s first birthday.
Since she was never able to eat anything cake wouldn't have been much fun so she got her own Jello cake to play with but she didn’t know what she was supposed to do with it!
Love Grandma Newman
- Wednesday, May 25, 2005 5:21 PM CDT
Good Morning! Wahoo Sun! You's must be getting so excited to see Kelly and kirkland and all! I can't wait to see the pictures! I'm sure you'll take some right?!
Brandon and Mur, I am so glad you and your family had a great time! Brandon, how was it being boss for a week?
Have a good one!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 7:53 AM CDT
Morning everyone!
Hope you're gearing up for your trek Deb....new running shoes LOL! Don't worry I still luv ya! xo
Katelyn precious Katelyn...miss you tons, the halls of sick kids just aren't as entertaining without your sunshine smile and giggle. You & Caillin have fun and don't get your Grandpa in too much trouble...you two don't have me fooled ya know...I've seen the two of you in action together :)
Have a great day everyone!
Luv / M
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, May 25, 2005 7:49 AM CDT
Good Morning! Katelyn is sending us some much needed sunshine today! Thank you Katelyn! Hope you all have a wonderful day... get out in that garden if you aren't already... I hope to get out a bit on my lunch hour!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 6:42 AM CDT
Hi Deb
Are you ready for your walk this weekend?
Just do the same exercises that Katelyn use to do with her legs and you will be ready for anything( maybe the chiropractor). Try the ballerina pose, that will loosen up the muscles.
Bonnie
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 5:35 AM CDT
I remember being at Katelyn’s house and having such a good time with her. When I went to leave Brian was holding her and I told her she was a monkey, every time I said it she would laugh even harder. What sweet memories she gave to Grandpa and I.
Katelyn touched more lives in her 20 months than we will ever touch in our lifetime. She is and always will be a special Angel.
Grandma Tootsie
- Tuesday, May 24, 2005 11:51 PM CDT
I always thought Katelyn had a bit of Italian blood in her. She always did the cutest things with her hands , one of them was this MAMA-MIA pose.
Boy she is cute and we sure miss the little things the most.
Aunt Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, May 24, 2005 11:47 PM CDT
I just wanted to say Thank you for sharing your
daughter with me. This is the first time that I
have been to her page and it is beautiful. She will
forever be in my heart. Thank you!
BIG HUGS,
Julie and Collin
www2.caringbridge.org/ca/collinpresley/
julie presley <collinpresley@aol.com>
long beach, ca usa - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 10:25 PM CDT
Melanie:: That was a very beautiful poem.Makes you stop and think.Thank you for putting that in.
Mur & Brandon::i'm so happy you's and the family had a wonderful time.Can't wait for the pictures.
Debbie & Brian:: What have you's been up to since its been raining? Hope you's are relaxing and gathering energy for the walk this weekend??
I'm ready ,are you's???
Luv Conn
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Tuesday, May 24, 2005 8:56 PM CDT
Hi there, stopping in to say hi, beautiful job Deb on the website, and Brian beautiful memory, and I think it is Bonnie, very nice about the son and his dad, really makes you take a look at your kids and think no problem, 5 more minutes.
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, May 24, 2005 8:05 PM CDT
I just can't get enough of this page! Katelynn's pictures bring tears to my eyes & I never even had the pleasure of meeting her! I guess it's just that I feel like I knew by visiting here. I think about you everyday.
~Tabby’s Page~
Karen & Tabitha West <karenpuddn@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, May 24, 2005 6:48 PM CDT
Hi,
You don't know us, but we found your site through our "travels" in caring bridge land. I want you to know that you are in our prayers. God will give you the peace and the strength you need now, just ask him to.
Erika (Alyssa's God Loving Mommy) Sweet~Sweet Alyssa <TheKeyOhana@gmail.com>
Gunter AFB, AL USA - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 4:31 PM CDT
My name is Melanie and i have found this poem. I have been visiting your website everyday.
Daddy, please don't look so sad,
Mama please don't cry~"cause i'm in the arms of Jesus and he sings me lullabies."
You see, i am a special child, and i'm needed up above I'm the special gift you gave him, the product if your love.
I'll always be there with you and watch the sky at night, Find the brightest star thats gleaming, Thats's my halo's brilliant light.
You'll see me in the morning frost, that mists your windowpane.
Thats me in the summer showers, I'll be dancing in the rain.
When you feel a little breeze, from a gentle wind that blows That's me, I'll be there, planting a kiss on your nose. When you see a child playing, and your heart feels a little tug, That's me, I'll be there giving your heart a hug.
So daddy, please don't look so sad, Mama don't cry. I'm in the arms of Jesus and He sings me lullabies.
Melanie
Lindsay, On Canada - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 3:12 PM CDT
Thinking of you today.
Tina & Lance <lneonkia@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, May 24, 2005 10:34 AM CDT
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 0:35 AM CDT
Katelyn,Debbie & Brian came by for a visit last summer it was July 2004.
We got my granddaughters battery operated motorcycle out.And as you see here the Squirt was in her glory .I'm not sure who had more fun.Us or Katelyn.
Just look at these pictures.....What a ham she is.
Sure miss you squirt. & think of you alot.
LUV AUNT COCO <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Monday, May 23, 2005 11:00 PM CDT
I think about the day before Katelyn went to London the last time, I was at Brian and Deb’s house helping them with Katelyn. I got her to sleep for awhile and when she got up she was so fussy and I remember praying in tongues over her and she settled down everytime I did this. It always seemed like she knew when you talked to God on her behalf. Her Grandpa had this happen when he prayed over Katelyn also. God just needed a special Angel and someday we will know why it was Katelyn.
Hugs and kisses,
Grandma Tootsie
- Monday, May 23, 2005 10:33 PM CDT
What a great memory!
Hope to talk to you soon Deb...hope you're having
a good day!
~Tabby’s Page~
Karen & Tabby <karenpuddn@comcast.net>
- Monday, May 23, 2005 8:59 PM CDT
Hi guys - just checking in as it has been a while. The memories are beautiful. Deb, thanks so much for visiting Jason's site and for all of your support. Love and hugs, Sharon
Sharon (Jason's Mom) <mag5jas2@rogers.com; http://www2.caringbridge.org/canada/jason>
Gormley, ON Canada - Monday, May 23, 2005 8:58 PM CDT
Muriel & Brandon: So glad you and the family had a good time. I think about you all the time. You're never far from our thoughts. Love always. Granny. XXXXXXOOOOOOO
Brian, you did an excellant job putting into words your memories of Katelyn's last smile & raspberry. I know it wasn't easy for you. Debbie, as always you are doing an awesome job of keeping the website. The pictures, the words, the memories are all beautiful. Thanks to the both of you.
Well, as promised, in case you haven't seen them yet, for Katelyn's garden. we dropped off rocks of varied shapes and sizes and colours from Hyatt's "mountain". LOL. Ross & Shirley want you to know that there are lots more for the taking, if you need them.
Memories: Katelyn had only been home a short time. Brian was still at work & Debbie needed to get a few groceries but she thought she would stop in for a few moments. The sky looked pretty grey, they had been forecasting thunderstorms. We talked Debbie into leaving Katelyn with us while she went shopping. (Grandpa & I figured she wouldn't get wet this way if it started to rain) Katelyn was on her back in the centre of the kitchen table. Grandpa was on one side and Granny on the other. We were having fun singing silly songs. Katelyn hadn't been turning over much yet at this point in her life but she must have gotten bored with the songs, because before long she turned toward Grandpa from her back to her tummy, raised her head off the table and just cracked up laughing. That wasn't good enough, she rolled toward Granny this time from her tummy to her back. We were so excited, we couldn't wait for Deb to get back from shopping so we could tell her. It was a big accomplishment for Katelyn that day. We love you Kate and we miss you so much. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Granny <kitlarry@netrover.com>
Tilbury, On - Monday, May 23, 2005 1:38 PM CDT
I'll admit it!
I have been on the website at least 10 times today.
I have been printing out the journal history and had to keep jumping back on the website.
Your daughter sure has a interesting baby book (about 2 inches thick)
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Monday, May 23, 2005 12:53 AM CDT
I love reading everyone's memories! Thnak you for sharing them with us! I hope you all are staying dry!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Monday, May 23, 2005 12:12 AM CDT
I have to add something about the commercial's, I hope you don't mind Bonnie.
Katelyn loved the milk commercial, "the big bad Bessy with the M-i-l-k, we be chillin". I would sing this to her all the time and one of the nurses didn't know it was actually a commercial, she just thought I was being me again. I had to tape the commercial to prove it to her but that was ok with Katelyn because then we could play it over, and over, and over. The nurse moved back to Winnipeg and everytime she would hear the commercial she thought of Katelyn boogying to it.
The other one was a cleaning commercial and it had Alice from Brady Bunch, Flo from Jefferson's etc and the song was "call me irresistable, call me irrresponsible too" (something like that anyways) and she would boogie to it and make everyone laugh. We had so much fun with the commercials but what else do you do sitting in a room, I had to humour us. I need anexcuse for singing it in the hallways though....
Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
- Monday, May 23, 2005 10:36 AM CDT
Hi Everyone!
Brian, it was so touching to read about Katelyn's last smile and raspberry. Didn't she know how to pick just the right time?! I'm so glad that your last moments were so special and Katelyn has left all of our hearts so warm. What a little sweetie you have for a daughter!
Muriel and Brandon- I'm so thrilled that your trip was good. You deserved to enjoy yourselves. Can't wait to see the pics and hear more about it. I thought of 'you's'every day while you were away!
Have a good Victoria Day everyone! I hope the rain clouds soon turn into sunshine.
Love from Kelly and Kirkie xoxoxoxox
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Monday, May 23, 2005 9:32 AM CDT
Morning all,
I have to download my pictures but will send some along to each of you via your email is that OK with everyone? Gee, didn't think we'd need a vacation from our vacation but I do. Brandon (and all of us) were treated like royality from the moment the limo arrived to the moment we arrived back in Toronto. The things that they think of and do just aren't believable. They think of everything and trust me I mean everything. It was hard to fit everything in during the 7 days but we seemed be able to do it all. Brandon had the honour of wearing a special pin and the pin means he's the boss for the week. We ALL had to do what Brandon told us. After the girls stopped whining about Brandon being the boss it was a blast LOL. Actually thank god it was Brandon because if it was his older sister Krystyna we all would have had a long week lol. Brandon made a great boss (as if there was a doubt) and took great care of all of us.
Will check in later today as usual. Hope everyone has a good one.
xoxoxoxoxo
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Monday, May 23, 2005 7:58 AM CDT
Oh my goodness!!! I haven't said HI since Tuesday!!! I have been preoccupied with serious spring cleaning and the anticipation of a parental visit!!! This is serious stuff for me. I did take three days off to go on a mini vacation too (Ottawa Tulip Festival and there were garden beds of purple tulips!!!). The time off was great but a tad stressful knowing that I still had a mess at home to clean up... know any good gardeners??? LOL!!! So I am getting ready to attack the flower boxes and the veggie garden. I will see if I can find some purple flowers in memory of Katelyn! Nice to see a memory here, Brian!!! Good job! That mito-walk is fast approaching.. have you been working out Deb? Don't worry... it will be a relaxing stroll that will pass just like that! Glad to see that the web page is keeping its popularity. You are doing a terrific job on it. You will have to start thinking of having a website reunion once a year so everyone can put faces to each other... or else you will have to teach us all how to add those little photos to our commments!!! I will be back soon!
Karen McPherson :-) <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Monday, May 23, 2005 6:45 AM CDT
Ok Brandon and Mur!
We are all waiting patiently for details about the trip to Disney World.
Hope things settle down enough that you can fill us in soon!
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Monday, May 23, 2005 6:40 AM CDT
Another memory I have is how Katelyn loved to hear people sing to her. She would laugh and giggle at any song you sang to her no matter how bad of a singer you were.
Katelyn's mommy used to sing the craziest songs to her and after being in the hospital so much, Debbie, Brian and Katelyn knew the words to every commercial there was.
I use to tell them to "Get a Life". This was their life and they always made the best out of it, even if it was in a hospital room.
It never took much to make Katelyn smile from ear to ear. Even the word MUSHROOM would make her laugh, maybe it was just her nutty mother!
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont Canada - Monday, May 23, 2005 6:36 AM CDT
Ok thanks to the rain I have a break in the action. Besides which it is about time that I add a memory or two,so here I go.First I would like to thank Bonnie for her kind words but it was just one of those things I had to do.
Well I guess I start at the begining Katelyn was always the center of attention , she kept Debbie in labour for 65 hours and the moment she was born I knew I was in trouble.Without knowing it she had me wrapped around all her little fingers. My next memory as I recall was the end of my world,that was the day when they flew her to london from windsor. When I got to the hospital and met with the doctor and he told me that he didn't know what the outcome would be.I was terrified. But we got through that, just like we got through everything. No matter what was going on we just knew we would get through it.
My next memory really tugs at my heart from time to time so bear with me,it comes at a time when deb and I made the best of it at probably our worst time.It was monday morning and Katelyn was really struggling,fighting to keep going but she was just to tired to keep going,and just before she passed away she looked up at Debbie and managed a smile and blew some raspberries, and then just like that she was gone. Debbie and I spent so much time caring for her, or should I say katelyn caring for us that we would not let Katelyn be taken away by some stranger,it was at this time I along with Debbie carried her down to the morgue. I have many many great memories of our journey as well as some not so good memories. I will be sure to share more great times with you later. Thanks deb for doing such a great job on the website. I miss you boo.Love Daddy
Daddy <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 22, 2005 10:30 PM CDT
Here are the 2 pigeon watchers.
not from Rian and beac, thats for sure <park bench@bluemoose lodge hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 22, 2005 9:08 PM CDT
I have to tell you something about what Grandma Jean wrote in below, what made it even more special.
We drove over to her house at 10pm to cheer her up right after dad passed away. Katelyn was sitting on her lap and Katelyn said 'Grandma", that was the first time she had ever said that and she never said it again after that night.
She ALWAYS knew just what to say and at the perfect time too.
Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 22, 2005 8:59 PM CDT
Hey there!!! We're back!!! God, what a great time. Just have to run out and get some groceries but I will email you shortly with some news of our trip. A great time was had by all!!! Missed my daily check ins with you all...seemed like I hadn't talked to family! Deb, you'd be very proud of how many memories I captured on film.... will send just a couple out soon.
Missed you all and talk to you soon...Gee what a great time..did I say that already? lol.
love to everyone
Mur
- Sunday, May 22, 2005 12:08 AM CDT
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 22, 2005 8:36 PM CDT
We finally sign in and somehow pictures end up on the screen???
We didn't want to be the only ones in the family that hasn't signed in.
Our memories of Katelyn are limited because those two women we are married to always kept her to themselves and didn't SHARE.
Even when we drove 4 hours to visit Katelyn , we got stuck sitting on the bench watching pigeons!
We still love and miss you Katelyn, you could sure make our women happy, and that isn't easy!
Love Always Uncle Beac and Uncle Rian
Uncle Beac and Uncle Rian
bench, @ blue moose lodge - Sunday, May 22, 2005 8:23 PM CDT
ANOTHER YARD SALE FINDING FOR KATELYN WAS...
MY GRANDDAUGHTER & I FOUND THIS SMALL KEYBOARD FOR A $1 AND WE TOOK IT TO KATELYN.WELL IT HAD SOME TUNES PRE SET IN THE BUTTONS,WHICH HAD SOME SNAPPY BEATS TO IT.
THE SQUIRTS FAVORITE WAS ""DASHING THRU THE SNOW"".
SHE WOULD JUST WIGGLE HER BUM AND SMILE.THAT GIRL HAD THE BEAT.SO KNOW MATTER WHAT THE WEATHER OR SEASON WAS IT WAS CHRISTMAS ALL YEAR LONG.
SO THIS CHRISTMAS WHEN YOU HEAR "DASHING THRU THE SNOW" SMILE AND PICTURE THE BOO GROVIN WITH THE TUNE.LOL
THERES THIS LONG STANDING FAMILY JOKE ABOUT MY SON DOUG AND HIS DANCING (Y0U HAVE TO SEE IT TO KNOW) WELL I REALLY THINK IF KATELYN HAD SHE BEEN WITH US LONGER SHE WOULD HAVE GIVEN HIM A RUN FOR HIS MONEY CAUSE THAT GIRL SURE DID LIKE HER MUSIC.
LUV AUNT COCO
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Sunday, May 22, 2005 12:58 AM CDT
These are some pics of Katelyn with Tootsie's glasses
Brian and Deb, I hope you are enjoying the weather! I kow we spent all day outside yesterday and plan too today! Brian I was thinking maybe we could get a group plan at the chiropractors though! I told Rob, whoever said Gardening is fun, relaxing and painless, didn't start from scratch!! Just keep repeating "it's worth it, it's worth it" lol
Hope you all have a great day!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Sunday, May 22, 2005 7:15 AM CDT
Deb you are doing a great job on the website. Hope everything is going well. Take care.
dewael family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
chatham, ont canada - Sunday, May 22, 2005 6:42 AM CDT
Think aboutit!
While at the park one day, a woman sat down next to a man on a bench near a playground. "That's my son over there," she said, pointing to a little boy in a red sweater who was gliding down the slide.
"He's a fine looking boy," the man said. "That's my son on the swing in the blue sweater." Then, looking at his watch, he called to his son. "What do you say we go, Todd?"
Todd pleaded, "Just five more minutes, Dad. Please? Just five more minutes." The man nodded and Todd continued to swing to his heart's content.
Minutes passed and the father stood and called again to his son. "Time to go now?"
Again Todd pleaded, "Five more minutes, Dad. Just five more minutes." The man smiled and said, "Okay."
"My, you certainly are a patient father," the woman responded.
The man smiled and then said, "My older son Tommy was killed by a drunk driver last year while he was riding his bike near here. I never spent much time with Tommy and now I'd give anything for just five more minutes with him. I've vowed not to make the same mistake with Todd.
"He thinks he has five more minutes to swing. The truth is . . . I get five more minutes to watch him play."
This is how Debbie and Brian spent their time with Katelyn. They treasured every moment with their sweet little daughter.
Take 5 more minutes with your chidren.
This is something everbody could do as a favour to Debbie and Brian.
You won't regret it!
aunt bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Sunday, May 22, 2005 6:11 AM CDT
I know I am no longer here with you in body, but I will always be with you all.
I have many many memories of Katelyn. But I think putting my glasses, watch and ring on her was one of the greatest.
Also when she heard her toy of "Down to Lay Me",she just beam through it all no matter how many times she heard it.It sure touch me and (grandma)also.
I am taking great care of Katelyn and also Caillin.
I saw Katelyn walk, what a joy!
Love Grandpa Tootsie
Tootsie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
heaven, with Katelyn - Sunday, May 22, 2005 5:23 AM CDT
Deb and Brian
As you know Grandma Jean has no computer so I will do more than one memory at this time.
I guess anyone that saw the picture of Katelyn with the phone with such a big sweet smile. Well this picture is special to me as it is me singing to her. It is a song I sang since she was very little. Her and I had alot of time doing just this and I will always hold these times in my heart for she always had such a big smile, laugh when we did this. I sure miss these times but I have a very good memory of these times.
Another time and memory I have and will never forget is the time a few days after her Grandpa Doug passed away and she was in my arms and said "Grandma" 3 times for the first time. Then a while later she waved her hand and looking at the ceiling she said "Grandpa". I just know she saw Grandpa.. What a special memory.
I have alot of special memories and will always hold them in my heart forever.
Love Always
Grandma Jean
Grandma <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
ruthven, ont canada - Sunday, May 22, 2005 5:16 AM CDT
Hi the updates on the webpage are great. I haven't had a chance to get on for about a week. I just wanted to let you know you both & Katelyn are always in our thoughts and prayers. Take Care, Donna Cullen mom to Kelsie CDG type unknow.
Donna Cullen <dcullen007@hotmail.com>
Farmington Hills, MI USA - Sunday, May 22, 2005 4:55 AM CDT
Good Evening
Hope this georgous day had everyone outside!! Or doing what they enjoyed doing???
I gardened most of the day so I am tuckered right out.
Will catch everyone tommorrow
LUV CONN
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Saturday, May 21, 2005 10:08 PM CDT
Kelly and Kirkie were here!!
May 21, 05
xoxoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Saturday, May 21, 2005 9:50 PM CDT
What a great poem....I love this page! I always get such a great feeling when I read it! It means so much when people really go out of their way to speack to you child. You were so blessed...and you still are. Thank you fro being so nice to me...I'm glad we've become friends.
P.S. I love those pics of Katelynn in the car down below! What a beautiful smile!
Karen & Tabby <karenpuddn@comcast.net>
- Saturday, May 21, 2005 9:07 PM CDT
Happy Long Weekend everyone! Deb, I stopped at the nursery today and got some of your Caitlin flowers too. Hope you had a good day what fabulous weather. Thank you Katelyn for finally bringing us awesome weather. Talk to you later Michelle
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Saturday, May 21, 2005 7:05 PM CDT
HI Deb and Brian,
Just checking in on you this long weekend. Hope all is well! I will call you this weekend Deb and we will chat about the walk. Hope you are around.
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, May 21, 2005 2:35 PM CDT
Just wanted to say hi and let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jaime caringbridge.org/nj/jaimelynn <Jaime13042@aol.com>
nj usa - Saturday, May 21, 2005 8:44 AM CDT
I thought I better check the website, Looks Great!
Haven't been on for a couple days (no Christine I haven't got up on time!)
Memory Time!
I remember going to the hospital on a Friday morning, my husband dropped me off and Debbie and Brian were being trained to hook Katelyn up to her TPN. Debbie had in house training and Brian took 2 weeks off to have this training so Katelyn could come home.
The day I was there was the last day of Brian's training.
You should have seen Brian, I really had to hold back the giggles because I knew it was serious stuff, Brian had a doll that had all Katelyn's tubes attached to it and this is how he was trained before he learned on the "REAL DOLL"
Seeing a grown man playing with a doll!!! That was quite a site!
I still wish I would have had a camera!
He looked like he was in daddy training college!
All laughs aside, this just shows what a dedicated father he really is, because when I seen what was involved I was shaking. I thought I wanted to be trained but after seeing what had to be done I really got cold feet. Katelyn's life depended on this FOOD hook-up and everything had to be so sterile.
This didn't stop Debbie and Brian from learning what had to be done and they even kept a close eye on the nurses that touched Katelyn, let alone let one of us rookies try this procedure.
Their love and dedication is an inspiration to all of us. It really touched my heart to see what a dedicated father Brian really is , when a grown man can play with a doll for hours to benefit his child, that is true love and devotion!
Aunt Bonnie
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Saturday, May 21, 2005 5:51 AM CDT
Just want to say hi and take it easy guys. :-)
dh
- Friday, May 20, 2005 8:14 PM CDT
I just dropped in to say How much I was touched by your page for Katelyn.
She is truly an angel and her smile is just melting my heart everytime I look at it.
There are so many beautiful pictures of her, thank you for letting us into your lives so we have been touched by your precious memories of your beautiful Katelyn
Jo Hannahand Rebecca
Jo <yarnall@blueyonder.co.uk>
England, UK - Friday, May 20, 2005 6:49 PM CDT
Hello, I hope the weather is great this week end so you can get outside and enjoy yourself with some well deserved rest, or fun.
I don't know your family but you seem like very friendly people and I could understand why you would be welcomed into any family anywhere, you are an inspiration to mine. I'm glad I looked at this website the first day I read the paper, your thought and theories have changed my life forever and I thank you for that.
I love the poem, it is just as beautiful as Katelyn is in all the pictures.
Have a good weekend.
Coreen
Leamington, - Friday, May 20, 2005 12:42 AM CDT
Good morning! What a beautiful poem! Your Sick Kids family sound wonderful Deb! It's amazing the wonderful people that fill the halls, because if you had to be there, it might as well be "enjoyable"? or tolerant..... Brian I hope your week went well! now settle in for a long weekend...
{{{HUGS}}}
Chritine
ps. I love the updates and seeing all the pictures of Katelyn! thank you so much for all your hard work! and cripes it is hard work! you know you could probably get a job writing html after if you want!
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Friday, May 20, 2005 7:37 AM CDT
Good morning all. Love the poem Deb. I came across some poems too. I haven't read them all yet I just kept printing them. I'll make you copies tonight. Hope everyone has a great day, at least the sun is shining what a great start, too bad I have to work. Talk to you later. Michelle
WHERE IS EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!!!
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Friday, May 20, 2005 6:28 AM CDT
HI BRIAN AND DEB. JUST DROPPING BY ON MY WAY TO BED. DEB, I WANT YOU TO KNOW WHAT A GREAT JOB YOU ARE DOING WITH THE WEBSITE. I KNOW YOU ARE PROBABLY WORKING ON THE COMPUTER RIGHT NOW. HOPE EVERYTHING IS WELL WITH BOTH OF YOU, YA BETTER GET LOTS OF REST, KIRKIE'S WALK IS COMING UP SOON. I HAVE MONEY FOR THAT SO MAYBE WE CAN HOOK UP THIS WEEKEND, I'M OFF.SENDING YOU LOTS OF HUGS AND KISSES. MICK
Michelle <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Thursday, May 19, 2005 10:19 PM CDT
HELLO EVERYONE
IS IT GOING TO WARM UP SOON??? I HAVE GARDEN FEVER LOL
HOPE ALL IS WELL WITH EVERYONE READING THIS WEB SITE.PLS SIGN IN AND TELL DEB & BRIAN YOU'S ARE STILL READING HER NEAT WEB PAGE.SHE PUTS SOOOO MUCH WORK INTO IT.
TAKE CARE BYE FOR NOW BUT NOT FOREVER
LUV CONN
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Thursday, May 19, 2005 6:41 PM CDT
Hi guys! Just stopping by to say hi.
Stephanie www.caringbridge.org/sd/alec <raisingwrestlers@iw.net>
Harrisburg, SD - Thursday, May 19, 2005 2:47 PM CDT
Hey Deb & Brian, I just wanted to let you know that I'm still thinking about you two and your little angel. I miss you both dearly, but hope to see you one day soon.We'll have to set up a play day! Please keep in touch! Also please tell Toby that I'm also thinking of her! You all are such wonderful people-I was blessed to have met you and your darling children. Love always, Jen K
Jen K
Toronto, ON - Thursday, May 19, 2005 1:07 PM CDT
Deb and Brian,
Although I only had the pleasure of meeting you guys inside the hospital at Sick Kids I thought I would pass on a couple of special memories. Every time I ventured up to Sick Kids...bam...there was Deb/Katelyn. You seemed to have a nose or sixth sense for Jacob and Ange...I still wonder to this day how you got the information so fast...lol. On one particular night after we dragged all of Jacob's machines, suitcases, everything but the kitchen sink and were looking for a place to sleep there you were. You and Ange were speaking of Katelyn and all of the stays you have had in different hospitals and were exploring options of what you were going to do next. The sacrifices you and Brian had to make...the sheer volume of time that you guys and Katelyn had spent away from home and you could still see the glow and love in your eyes for you "Princess Puffy Cheeks". I was in awe of your strength and courage through such trying times and the love you could see for your daughter and husband. All the while you were worrying about where we were going to sleep and trying to figure out a way to find us a room...lol...amazing. As we walked out for a 'break' I remember asking her how Brian was as a father/husband and Ange's eyes lit up...speaking nothing but praise for how spectacular he was with the both of you. Such a stress...but such love was evident.
My second memory is when you guys were trying to page me...you, Ange, Tiff...only God knows where I was...out for a smoke, eating, looking for a book to read for another long night...and we ended up meeting by the front desk in the lobby of Sick Kids. There you were...with Katelyn in her stroller, squirming and squiggling a smile on her face the entire time. Tiff took out a boo-bah that she had bought for Jacob and in her infinite wisdom decided to try it out. MAN that thing was loud!!! I think everyone got a kick out of it though in that whole section of the hospital...but Katelyn seemed to be dancing along with the boo-bah. Being confined to the stroller was not going to stop her from having fun...the smile was beaming on her puffy cheeks that day. I will always remember my visits to Sick Kids for special moments like those. Take care and thanks.
Scott <scottmifflin@hotmail.com>
Belleville, ON Canada - Thursday, May 19, 2005 8:12 AM CDT
Good Morning!
thinking of you.....
thanks for the "maxine's" Deb! oh so true!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Thursday, May 19, 2005 7:19 AM CDT
Good morning. Just a brief checkin. you know who is up and wants the computer. He has to wait till I check on you first. Talk to you later. Michelle
Mick <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Thursday, May 19, 2005 6:22 AM CDT
Good morning, Hope you guys have a nice weekend. Don't hurt yourselves working to hard in the gardens. And when you are ready, our yard could use some "HELP"....Ha Ha
We are heading out canoeing for the weekend so I will not be back online until Tuesday.
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On - Thursday, May 19, 2005 4:32 AM CDT
I remember going to a yard sale & seeing this neat blue car. Thinking I bet she can sit in this car all by herself since she holds her head up so good now.
I was so excited......I called Debbie right away & her & Brian came by to pick it up.
Deb put Katelyn in it right away and was pushing her around the kitchen.While we took videos and pictures.Katelyn was so happy... laughing & smiling. And of course that twinkle in her eyes.
Anything you did with the Squirt she was happy and smiling.But then again... her parents made her that way with all the things they did with her.
Brian & Debbie you where wonderful parents.
here are a few pics of her in the car.
(sit up in it? she was already DRIVING it!)
Beep, beep, hey you MOVE IT
Katelyn getting driving instructions from Uncle Beac first
Aunt Connie <connie.beacom @sympatico.ca>
- Thursday, May 19, 2005 0:33 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian,
I can't wait to see you next weekend! I only wish everyone was able to come. You're such a great bunch of people! I feel like I've been neglecting all of you. You've been faithfully following us and leaving messages even though I've been slack on the entries. Sorry. Love you all for it! What will I do with myself in a week's time??
Still haven't cleaned up some areas of the yard yet. It seems one day I have full intentions of getting out there and then the phone rings off the hook and before I know it the boys are home from school. It's crazy!
Kirk's been fine. Getting lots of time outside which is great for him because soon it will be too hot...(maybe??)
The t-shirts came in last night. Anyone down there who wants one and can't make it up for the walk, just let me know. I'm putting a photo on Kirk's page so check it out if interested.
There's not much else new in my life. The Mito March is pretty well absorbing all of my time. The boys had their spring drama production last night. It was fantastic. I'll post a couple of those photos too.
Sending my love to the whole fam damily! Kirkie sends bigs hugs and kisses. xoxoxoxoxo
Hope all is fine.
luv Kelly xoxo
P.S. When is the photographer from "Canadian Home Gardener" coming for the photo shoot???
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 11:02 PM CDT
Hi folks,
Just stopped in to say hello, hope everything is well with you. You are doing a great job on the web. Photo's look great.
Winnie Fairservice ( Angel Caillin's Memere) <jfairs0527@rogers.com>
Oshawa, On - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 4:30 PM CDT
Debbie, I don't think you would remember me but we went to high school together. I seen a poster with a picture of you and your family at Home Hardware in Essex awhile ago, it had this webaddress on it. I thought I would check it out and it has taken me a full week to get through it all, WOW, it is a nice site though. I wanted to read it all before singing the page, I didn't think it was going to happen this month though. I am sorry about your daughter, she is a very, very cute little girl and abviously had your spunk. I have 2 kids and couldn't even imagine the pain you are in right now and the loss you must feel. I hope that in time the pain will ease, I will be thinking about you alot. It sounds like you haven't changed much since school, still have the same humour and everyone likes to be around it. I'm glad you didn't change like some of us of old foggies. LOL You are a good person Debbie to care for her they way you did and your husband seems exactly the same, lucky little girl. Does he know how funny you were in school or should I tell him what a blast you were to be around? There was never a dull moment in your classes.
Take care of yourself, I will check the site again.
Macaroni Mike
- Wednesday, May 18, 2005 2:31 PM CDT
Debbie, I don't think you would remember me but we went to high school together. I seen a poster with a picture of you and your family at Home Hardware in Essex awhile ago, it had this webaddress on it. I thought I would check it out and it has taken me a full week to get through it all, WOW, it is a nice site though. I wanted to read it all before singing the page, I didn't think it was going to happen this month though. I am sorry about your daughter, she is a very, very cute little girl and abviously had your spunk. I have 2 kids and couldn't even imagine the pain you are in right now and the loss you must feel. I hope that in time the pain will ease, I will be thinking about you alot. It sounds like you haven't changed much since school, still have the same humour and everyone likes to be around it. I'm glad you didn't change like some of us of old foggies. LOL You are a good person Debbie to care for her they way you did and your husband seems exactly the same, lucky little girl. Does he know how funny you were in school or should I tell him what a blast you were to be around? There was never a dull moment in your classes.
Take care of yourself, I will check the site again.
Macaroni Mike
- Wednesday, May 18, 2005 2:31 PM CDT
Dear Deb & Brian,
Haven't checked in for awhile and forgot to put aside hours to view everything. You both are always on our minds.
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, on - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 7:43 AM CDT
Good morning! Okay so out of 128 hits, I probably could qualify for about 15 of them! lol Sorry I was looking for "quotes" (deb hee hee) for a certain calender. lol!
hope you all have a wonderful day! Deb I was actually in bed by 11pm last night! it is catching up to me! ;0)
Love, Christine
ps. oh and Just out of curiosity are all birthday's in your family within the months of May and June? Holy smokes! lol
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 7:21 AM CDT
HELLO
JUST LETTING YOU KNOW I KNOW WHO LET THE CAT OUT OUT MY BAG ABOUT THE 50 ROSES.LOL
DEB HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A GOOD DAY. LUV CONN
C <C.BEACOM@SYPATICO.CA>
- Wednesday, May 18, 2005 7:08 AM CDT
Today's moemory is one about Katelyn and Brian
Brian always propped Katelyn up on something and had her facing him. Brian wasn't much of a singer so he used to just sing into Katelyn's ear. One particular song he always sang was "5 little monkeys jumping on the bed", Brian wasn't as dramatic as Debbie when he sang but Katelyn always had the hugest smile and the best giggle when her daddy was singing to her. Katelyn's eyes would just light up a room when she seen her daddy and when he sang to her, it just melted your heart!
I remember watching the two of them and to see such a connection between a father and his daughter was always very touching.
Katleyn and Brian look so much alike but the bond these two had is something that words can not describe, but when you watched these two, it said it all!
Maybe Brian is a great singer and only Katelyn knows about it!
Brian, I know you miss your Boo so much but Katelyn adored you, and that is all any man could ask for.
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 5:32 AM CDT
Good morning, looks like it is going to be a beautiful day. Hope everyone can get outside and enjoy a bit of it....Happy birthday Connie. Never would have guessed 51. You don't look a day over 40....
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, Ont - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 4:57 AM CDT
Just checking in before bed. Hope you had a good day. Take care and I'll check in tomorrow. Deb, I know you are still up so go to bed and try to get some rest.
Mickey <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 10:26 PM CDT
I discovered this page while reading Kirkland's web page.
You guys have done a great job with this web page. For once I am at a loss for words..
Perhaps we will meet at the "Mito March" on the 29th.
God Bless
Bill Wood <thebillwood@hotmail.com>
Brampton, - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 10:11 PM CDT
Not bad, out of 128 visitors today, 8 people actually took the time to sign the guestbook, and Bonnie signed twice. Geeeesh
By the way, everyone deserves 50 roses on their 50th birthday. lol
from someone who knows why connie got 50 roses
- Tuesday, May 17, 2005 9:47 PM CDT
Thanx Bonnie,you just triggered a memory.
I to was at work on the computer & seen someone at my window out of the corner of my eye.So i looked up and there was the Squirt with her mommy & daddy.
They had gotten me 50 roses.But I'm not gonna say why there where 50!!!So don't bother asking LOL.And don't listen to my sisters cause they would be pleased to tell you HAHA
It was wonderful having Katelyn surprise me that way.I took her to show her off to all my co-workers.Of course she had that smile which made everyone smile back at her.I just couldn't believe how heavy she had gotten in such a short time. Next month will be a year since that happened.
I wonder if there will be 51 flowers growing somewhere to let me know..HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNT COCO
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Tuesday, May 17, 2005 5:51 PM CDT
Just came to say hi and to see how you are doing
Justina Warren <justina_1010@hotmail.com>
Windsor, Ont Canada - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 2:17 PM CDT
Okay, I may a little guilty of not signing in everytime I visit! (sorry) I'll do better from now on, hope your having a good day. I think a Memorial page is brilliant. There's a site that does Memorial quilts too. If you want, I will send you the link....talk to ya soon!
~Tabby’s Page~
Tabby & Mom <karenpuddn@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, May 17, 2005 1:37 PM CDT
Good Morning! Deb, I hope you got some sleep last night! I didn't hear a snore at all! lol! Bonnie, your memory today is so beautiful! What a great family you all are!
And Bonnie, I learned a little about mushroom's yesterday! Connie, I'm thinking I'll get to know you better.....then I could see what you're like! ;0) I know every family has their "things" but you all seem so great!
Brian, when you are done, we need some dirt moved! We'll give you 2 cute kittens for your hard work! The yard is looking great! I cannot wait to see such a beautiful tribute, for a wonderful, beautiful, inspiring little lady!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 8:20 AM CDT
Hey Christine
That's our grandpa for ya'!
He's the best! Stick around him, you will find out about everything and anything!
Sunday He introduces me to this elderly woman as "his daughter".
I told her I was NOT his daughter, he was just trying to act 73 , not 93.
This woman tells me they used to "run around together".(todays terms, that does not sound good). So now we have two of them acting like they are both 73 instead of 93!
I guess when people are told to "act your age", it is not a good thing!
Maybe we can have you over for Boxing Day this year, you can find out what a wierd sense of humour THEY all have.
Bonnie
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 6:38 AM CDT
Happy Belated Birthday Deb!!! Just thinking of you! Sorry, was busy with visiting relatives over the weekend. Lots of love!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 5:50 AM CDT
One day I was at work and it was near the end of the day and I was busy trying to get cleaned up to get ready to go home for the day and I seen somebody standing at the end of my counter. I wasn't paying much attention as I thought it was just a customer shopping.
I looked up and seen a baby in a stroller and I still wasn't paying much attention, all of a sudden I stopped looked up and there was Katelyn laughing her butt off.
I then looked up and saw Debbie standing there and my mouth dropped to the floor.
I soon got my act together and almost jumped over the counter when I seen the little squirt! She had grown into a adorable little girl, she had lost the baby look while she was in the hospital. I was so happy I was shaking and Katelyn continued to laugh as if to say mommy "we did good"
I didn't know that two guys I work with watched Debbie and Katelyn surprise me and I found out later , it brought tears to thier eyes (yes they admitted it) to see Katelyn doing her magic!
Well the counter didn't really have to be cleaned off- I was off showing the little princess off to everyone and I forgot Debbie was there-0ops! (I forgot that Katelyn didn't drive herself)
I don't think that I knew that Katelyn (and Debbie) had gotten out of the hospital and I was always thinking about her and to see her sitting there ,I knew I had just received the best Birthday gift ever!
Thanks Debbie and Katelyn for taking the time to stop in at work that day.
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 5:38 AM CDT
Just stopped in to say good morning. Hope you had a nice birthday. Hope its starts warming up soon, I am so looking forward to get into my gardens too.
Love Nichole <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 4:32 AM CDT
Oh and let me not forget how wonderful Deb was when Jacob was intubated in Nov. We were in ICU. No beds, no rooms, no nothing. I came up to 7C to sneak a shower in one of the public showers there for the kids. You caught me and let me use your shower. Store my stuff there. Katelyn was going through alot that time as well and yet again here you were worried about us. And another spaghetti dinner I might add.
Your awsome Deb I hope you know that.
Hugs
Angela, Alyssa, and ^i^ Jacob <angela.trick@gmail.com>
- Monday, May 16, 2005 10:15 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian,
Deb thanks so much for posting that poem in Jacobs guestbook. I love it and think its just perfect.
A memory of Katelyn, Well I was always so upset and times were tough whenever we were in the hospital together. But I remember being in that one wing. Jacob and Katelyn were right beside each other. We shared the computer everyday. You used it mostly during the day and I scooped it at night. I was jealous of you guys walking the halls. Jacob was never able to leave the room, for risk of infections. You always made the rounds. Bouncing puffy cheeks off your hip. Bounce, bounce bounce. She just loved it eh! I remember the spaghetti dinners. I remember not being able to leave Jacobs room for fear of someone not knowing how to care for him and I snapped after a few days. No sleep and very little food. There you were. With all your own worries and problems. But you were worried about me. You brought me the best chicken fingers I ever had. lol.
Your amazing Deb. You honor your daughter so much. I respect you and only wish I can do the same for my angel. They sure were special children. Loved so much. Gave so much. Never ever complained about this or that. Im so glad that I got to meet you, Brian and especially Katelyn. You will forever and ever be a part of my life and my memories. Our children are playing in heaven. I wish so bad we could just get one real glimpse of them. Just to make sure they are ok. I know they are, but you know that mommie instinct we need that reassurance. Thats why I think we get our little signs. They are telling us that they are ok.
Love you guys
Angela, Alyssa, and ^i^ Jacob <angela.trick@gmail.com>
Peterborough, Ont, Canada - Monday, May 16, 2005 10:12 PM CDT
Hello Christine
I thought i would inform you that i'm not like that all !!!!
Now don't listen to my sisters cause they will probably say i'm worse.AND I"M NOT lol
I'm glad you got to know my grandpa.He's the best and he is sharp as a whip too.Hope i can be like that at 80 forget 93!! ( it sure is a small world ,don't you think?)
have a good night
Hello everyone.
i"m still waiting for nice weather to hit.Hopefully soon.
Debbie have you been out in the garden at all today???
Only good thing is the tulips are lasting longer with the cooler weather.Those two across the road are neat,Don't think i've ever seen white before.Katelyn sure is finding neat ways to show you she is OK
Take care
luv conn
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Monday, May 16, 2005 9:10 PM CDT
Thinking of you and youre family!!!!
Take care.
Lotts of ((((HUGS))))
Nikki <nikkers340@hotmail.com>
McGregor, Ont Canada - Monday, May 16, 2005 5:32 PM CDT
LOL! Okay so I know I've already signed in this morning, but I wanted to share this with everyone!
Let me start off by saying, I only know your grandpa, from short visits at his home! Okay, So I went today to see my Grandma, and I know they eat lunch together, so I went at lunch time! We made sure that we wished him a happy birthday.
So we are visiting, they all order lunch, lunch lady gives out crackers for soup.....next thing you know, the nurse is asking "Joe, How come your crakers are in your tea?" and as quick as all get out his response..."well, I figured since it was my birthday I would try something different" What a hoot!! Deb and Bonnie, I thought of you 2 right away! Connie, I'm sorry I don't know you well enough, but if you are anything like your sisters, I kinda know where you's got it from! He cracked us all up!
Hope you could understand all that! heehee!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Monday, May 16, 2005 1:25 PM CDT
One of our memories of Katelyn was when she was in Sick Kids in London, not long after she first arrived there. When we got to her room she was playing with Deb and Brian, and not seeming to mind all of the tubes and lines and machines. She should have looked so wounded, but much preferred to smile and coo at her Daddy and Mommy. We were very afraid to hold her for fear of hurting her or pulling out a line, but after we were assured by Brian and Deb, we could not let her go, and for all of our fears, Katelyn smiled and looked up with the biggest eyes and let us know that we were doing OK. Thanks for the visit, and for making us feel comfortable. Lots of smiles back at you little angel,
Jerry, Joyce, Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
Charing Cross, Ont Canada - Monday, May 16, 2005 12:48 AM CDT
Hello Brian and Deb
Hope every thing is going well. We did not know Katelyn personal but this site has made it seem like we did know her. Brian and Deb you are amazing people and we are thankful to have you as friends. We think of you often and are touched about the thinks you write about in Katelyn's site. Take care.
Jeff Shelly Rebecca and Zachary
jeff dewael <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
chatham, on canada - Monday, May 16, 2005 9:59 AM CDT
Hi Deb~
Thanks for stopping by Kevin's site. I still check in on you and enjoy reading your thoughts and all the memories you share about your sweet little Katelyn. I love all the little signs she gives you. She is still making memories. God bless you.
caringbridge.org/mn/kevinm
Deb Minkkinen <takvek@yahoo.com>
Coon Rapids, MN USA - Monday, May 16, 2005 8:18 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Mr. Newman! I'll stop by to say hi when I go see my Grandma! haha Deb sorry I confused you about that ;0)!
Katelyn and Caillin are so thoughtful sending signs to their loved ones! {{{hugs}} to you all!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Monday, May 16, 2005 7:46 AM CDT
Talking about those two kids doing everything in pairs:
Last night when Connie and I were outside looking at flowers we were looking at these purple flowers (Christmas Rose) and Connie told me she had white ones just like it . We just got done saying that and two doves flew overhead circled around us and landed in the tree.
Any idea what that was about???
At least I didn't feel anybody tapping on my shoulder this time.
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Monday, May 16, 2005 5:51 AM CDT
Deb and Brian what a beautiful poem! oh my goodness!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Sunday, May 15, 2005 11:22 PM CDT
Happy Birthday, Deb!!
Hope you've had a special day! I'm starting to wind down a little after this whirlwind of a week. Lots of sleep deprivation and of course now I'm feeling a bit under the weather.
Kirk's still 'off' a bit too. Lots of de-sats since 5 pm. I don't know what to think. Just praying he's having one of his spells and isn't on a downward turn. His breathing hasn't been great for the past week.
Anyway, I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you on your birthday. I wish I could be closer to help you celebrate. I am looking so forward to seeing you guys again in a couple of weeks. I'll call you soon.
Love and Hugs,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxox
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Sunday, May 15, 2005 10:15 PM CDT
Happy Birthday, Deb! I could hear the fire trucks all the way from the 'Shwa! Thanks Connie, for pointing out that Deb's flames were bigger than mine, I keep asking her to tell me what it's like to be that old (oh well, someday I'll know). I'm just on my way home from mom's and I'll call you when I get home (let's try to stop talking before midnight this time, okay?)
Toby
Oshawa, ON - Sunday, May 15, 2005 7:05 PM CDT
Hi Brian & Deb, just checking in to say hi and Happy Birthday Deb, hope you are having a nice birthday. 29 right, lol.
Thinking of you guys.
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
Ruthven, - Sunday, May 15, 2005 5:06 PM CDT
I love reading all the memories! And Deb, I love the new pictures! her protecting her soother is the best!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! I hope it was an okay day!
{{{HUGS}}}
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Sunday, May 15, 2005 12:16 AM CDT
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to you
Happy birthday dear Debbie
Happy birthday to you
Thinking about you and hope you have a great day!!!
Love you guys
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 15, 2005 11:55 AM CDT
My fondest memories of Katelyn would always involve her bellydance and her
taking off her soother to give me her biggest smiles or the heartiest of
laughs whenever I'd go into your hospital room. All I ever had to do was
say "Hi, Boo!" and she's smile at me.
Remember too, when the MDs said that she couldn't see? She proved them
wrong coz we kept on experimenting whether she was gonna follow our
movements and she would inadvertently follow whatever we were doing except
of course when se'd gotten tired or bored with the games.
Then one time, she said "mom!" and I heard it. Oh boy, do I remember too
whenever she'd wake up at three in the morning and would just keep on
babbling. We'd all take turns watching or playing with her.
One of Katelyn's Nurses
- Sunday, May 15, 2005 11:03 AM CDT
Hope your birthday was/is great. In the hurry, I forgot to pass on Jen's birthday wishes last night. I'm in trouble again(still). Have to help buy flowers and plant them today for my punishment. Brian, I told you I do all my gardening with a backhoe but it looks like that is going to change. Let me know when you need some more of that topsoil. Who was that guy that left wihout paying his bill? Send out an a.p.b. My memories? Since I never met Katelyn my memories are from hearing the way everyone else talks about her. It is very obvious what she meant to everyone in both your families and to everyone else who met her. I'm glad I got to pop in last night to see everyone. Hope I didn't intrude too much. Jen was sad she couldn't wish you a happy birthday in person. She gets dirty at baseball, so it was better she had a shower! Have a great day!
Phil and Jen <philshilson@hotmail.com>
Staples, on Canada - Sunday, May 15, 2005 9:10 AM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SIS
HOPE IT WILL BE WARM & SUNNY TODAY SO YOU CAN BE OUTSIDE,
GREAT GETTING TOGETHER LAST NIGHT.WISH I COULD POST A PICTURE SO EVERYONE CAN SEE WHAT THE BIRTHDAY GIRL LOOKED LIKE BLOWING ALL HER CANDLES OUT!!!!KINDA LIKE TOBYS FIRE.LOL BUT EVEN MORE FLAMES
HAVE A GOOD ONE LUV CONN
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Sunday, May 15, 2005 9:07 AM CDT
Good Morning Brian and Deb. It was great seeing the whole clan last night. Thanks Deb for putting the slide pic on. I hope you can fit the boys stones into Katelyn's garden some where.
Memory: I remember when Scot and I went to the viewing for your dad and we hadn't seen Katelyn for quite awhile between T.O. hospital and visiting your dad in hsopital so I was so glad and excited to see her. Brian was so worried about her because she was starting her downward cycle again. Mom and dad were taking care of her at the back of the funeral home, she was starting to get cranky and Brian said she was NOT allowed to sleep because she would be up all night. So I took her and started singing TOOT, TOOT, CHUGGA, CHUGGA BIG RED CAR (kyle's favourite wiggles song) Oh my god Kyle has not watched the Wiggles in months and as I'm typing this without talking he just asked from the kitchen to watch Wiggles video I'm officially freaked out!!!!! Anyway as I sang the wiggles her eyes seemed to light right up and she even started started doing her little bop. That only lasted about 15-20min.then she was cranky again. Brian came over and was checking her temp. etc. and all of a sudden she let out the loudest MOM you have ever heard from her it was great.
Miss you peanut.
Aunt Michelle <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Still in Tilbury, ON Canada - Sunday, May 15, 2005 7:59 AM CDT
Memory Time!!!
I remember one day in the summer when I had the oppurtunity to watch Katelyn every Tuesday (boy that was tough).
Katelyn was laying on the floor on a sheet that fits a double bed that she always layed on. Of course she was just happy and content to roll around on the floor. I grabbed the ends of the blanket and started dragging her around the house. She was having so much fun laughing and giggling and enjoying the ride.
It was a good thing nobody was watching us through the window because they would have been shocked to see this poor kid that had spent so much time in the hospital being dragged across the floor.
Debbie was trying to video tape Katelyn but she just wanted to go faster, needless to say Debbie got alot of shots of our feet and the floor.
I'm glad to say Katelyn had no rug burns so they didn't have to explain that one!
Thank you Katelyn for enjoying the ride!
Love and miss you, Aunt Bonnie
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Sunday, May 15, 2005 6:44 AM CDT
!!!!HAPPY "29" BIRTHDAY!!!! Ha,Ha..... Hope you have a great day!! Thanks for posting the picture...
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On - Sunday, May 15, 2005 6:37 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Debbie!
Toby told me you turned 29 today (again)
So if grandpa is turning 93 tomorrow what will he be telling us???
Hope you have a great day!!!
Bonnie <raft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Sunday, May 15, 2005 6:17 AM CDT
This is the pic of Katelyn and Nicole when she was a newborn
and first came home.
Nicole
- Saturday, May 14, 2005 11:57 PM CDT
Dear Auntie Debbie, My mommy said that we could wish you a Happy Birthday here too, even though we had already sang to you on the phone. HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNTIE DEB !!!!!!!
Lots of love,
Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
Charing Cross, Ont Canada - Saturday, May 14, 2005 8:29 PM CDT
First of all, Bonnie that poem was very nice & thanks for the tissue warning!!
I have not had much time to be on the site lately, but here is my next memory of our little angel: We remember visiting with Brian and Deb about a week after they came home with Katelyn. She was so small and the perfect little girl- Deb had her dressed up in a little outfit with the hair band on and she was so sweet looking. She slept most of the time that we were there, but did come around once to smile and take a look around to see us strange people. We got the nicest pictures of Katelyn that day and Nicole got to see the "Little Baby" that we had waited so long to meet. Who knew that Katelyn would make such a mark on our lives after that day, we are so very lucky- thanks Katelyn!
Jerry, Joyce, Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
Charing Cross, Ont - Saturday, May 14, 2005 8:26 PM CDT
Hi,
I was thinking of your family today. We were at the mall earlier to get our bracelets and see Kirkland. As usual Kelly is go go go! I think the mall thing is proving to be a great success. I can never go on the computer for a quick sec anymore I just love reading your journal entries!See you at the march! Dawn
Dawn Giles <kdgiles@sympatico.ca>
georgetown, on canada - Saturday, May 14, 2005 3:43 PM CDT
Bonnie that poem is beautiful.
I have been going through all the new pictures that have been posted and I wanted to add a few pictures to the site but since I don't know how to put pictures on the site I sent them to Deb and maybe she will put them on for me. They are pictures of Katelyn and Me just a few days after they came home from the hospital. Even though she was only a week or so, Katelyn was so alert at everything that was around her.
I don't really have any memories to share of Katelyn and me, as I was only able to spend time with Katelyn twice in her short time on earth. All of the memories I have of Katelyn are through the words that Deb has written.
Katelyn has helped me through some pretty rough days at work though, as I drive by her gravesite everyday and give her and her grandpa a big kiss and smile at all the things that made Katelyn the special little angel that she will always be. Blowing her kisses makes me smile and makes me realize that work is work and not to sweat the small stuff.
I will always remember Katelyn, in beautiful purple flowers, birds singing, children laughing, the wind, the rain, the sun and in the tree that we watch grow bigger and stronger everyday.
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On - Saturday, May 14, 2005 3:11 PM CDT
Before I forget, HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEB.
dh
- Saturday, May 14, 2005 3:04 PM CDT
what gorgeous pictures of Katelyn!! I am mesmerized by this website, the housework is no longer an important part of my daily routine. I might end up divorced but at least I will know the true meaning of life.
Coreen
Leamington, Ontario Canada - Saturday, May 14, 2005 2:34 PM CDT
Thinking of you always.The poem touched my heart.What a precious Angel God has now.What precious moments you have shared with Katelyn.She will forever remain in my heart.
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Saturday, May 14, 2005 2:33 PM CDT
O.k that was honestly the most beautiful poem I have ever read,I think anyone who has a child should read that.I think of you guys often.
Jodi and McKayla
Joid Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Saturday, May 14, 2005 11:53 AM CDT
I had to take a minute to write in the guestbook too.
WOW, that poem is great, thanks Bonnie. I have seen it before but it never meant as much to me as it did this time.
These memories are great, as for getting Brian on the computer very often Karen, NOT. He will occasionally but usually I end up reading the entries to him. You never know, he might surprise you though, he is great at writing as you probably seen in his eulogy to Katelyn. Some of our memories actually came from him.
Mur, I can remember that day, I felt so bad leaving everyone there, part of me didn’t want to leave, strange.
Justina and Donna, I can remember your memory too, thank you for sharing the part about her smiling when I came back in, that made my day.
Christine, your welcome to come over, just give us a call to make sure we’re not in ‘zombie’ mode or it might be a useless trip. lol
Michelle, I was just looking at those pics of Katelyn on the slide the other day, I am posting one so everyone can see it.
Connie, I just happen to have a pic of her throwing the toy around, imagine that huh?
She has the base in her hand but the heavy piece she liked to throw at the TV is right beside her too so everyone can see it. That thing was NOT very lightweight, Brian got a few brusies from it. I remember when she would roll around with it and get herself caught in it amongst her other toys.
Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, May 14, 2005 11:37 AM CDT
Ok First...Brandon and Family I hope you all have a blast! I will keep you in my thoughts for a safe and fun filled trip!
Now Cripes, you's gotta stop making me cry! LOL! Bonnie, pay backs my dear! ;0)
YOu know I think of you all often! Thank you Deb, for all your hard work, If it's okay, we'd like to stop by again, maybe when Brian Is home?! Of course we'll call first!
{{{HUGS}}}
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Saturday, May 14, 2005 10:24 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian
I thought I would share a memory with you. My memory of Katelyn was when I was sick in the hospital in Windsor and she was crying and crying. She looked up at me and smiled and that made my day. I also have another memory about her and the praying doll. She had that doll going all the time and one time she was just laying there and had it on and she pushed her little face against the crib and smiled at me. I will never forget how she always smiled even in the worst of times. Ok now my mom wants to tell her memory. Hi my memory of Katelyn is when Deb had to make a phone call and asked me to just look after Katelyn for 2 min and I said sure. I went over to her crib and she was crying and I felt so bad I just wanted to rock her and make her feel better. Then Deb came back and Katelyn's face just lit up
Katelyn, we miss you soooo much
Justina and Donna Warren <justina_1010@hotmail.com>
Winsor, Ont Canada - Saturday, May 14, 2005 10:11 AM CDT
WARNING!!!! Get the tissues before you read this!
Once upon a time there was a child ready to be born.
So one day it asks God,"They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?"
God replied, "Among the many angels, I chose one just for you.
She will be waiting for you and will take good care of you".
"But tell me, here in heaven, I don't do anything else but smile and sing, that's enough for me to be happy."
God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile every day. And you will feel your angel's love and be happy."
"And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me, if I don't know the language that men talk?"
God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak."
"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"
God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray."
"I've heard that on earth there are bad men, who will protect me?"
God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking it's life."
"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."
God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about me and will teach you the way for you to come back to me, even though I will always be next to you."
At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from earth could already be heard, and the child in a hurry asked softly, "Oh God, if I am about to leave now, please tell me my angel's name."
God silenced all fear when He said, "your angel's name is of no importance."
"You will simply call her 'Mommy'."
Sorry about the tears but I had to share this story I found!
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Saturday, May 14, 2005 8:51 AM CDT
P.S.
That was GREAT Karen. Good thinking about Brian doing a memory.
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Saturday, May 14, 2005 8:02 AM CDT
Ok I said i'd write a memeory when i got home.(i only take quick peeks at work)
I wish I knew the name of one of Katelyns favorite toys was or should I say It was my favorite.So thats what she played with when i was there haha
I remember laying on the floor with Katelyn turning that SEASOME STREET TOY& making it do all the weird noises it made.Then all of a sudden she grabbed ahold of that thing and started whipping it around with that twinkle in her eye and that beautiful smile on her face.(It's a wonder she never knocked herself out when it hit her head).
Gosh i sure miss the SQUIRT's smile & laugh.
I also miss playing with our favorite toy together.
Luv & miss ya Squirt Aunt Connie
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Saturday, May 14, 2005 8:00 AM CDT
HA HA HA
Brian's memory, that is hilarious.
Think maybe you should take your own advice HA HA HA
Thanks Karen, we really needed you to put Brian in his place, I love it.
You better make it good Brian! hahahahahaha
THE IN-LAWS
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Saturday, May 14, 2005 7:08 AM CDT
I was thinking about you guys the other day. I passed by the "Newman (hardly a coincidence) Centre" at U of T last week and the tulips and Daffodils were in full bloom. It seems your little one has moved on from purple to the whole rainbow of colours. Lorna and I are here on 7C waiting for the day shift to arrive. We both send our love to you and Brian.
Carrie Glanfield <mrs_kensington@hotmail.com>
Toronto, - Saturday, May 14, 2005 5:51 AM CDT
Good morning y'all! I was reading some of the memories posted here and I think I am going to make a request. Brian... you are sucha a quiet guy... I hear you had a difficult drive through fog and with a screaming woman in the car while Katelyn thought she'd like to make an entry in to this world... and I thought.. oh this might be Brian's memory... no such luck... so.. what's up Brian... where is your memory this memory month... we are almost half way through the month and I request that we hear from the most important man in Katelyn's life...her Dad. Got a memory to share... pass the keyboard over Deb!!!!! Love Karen
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, On - Saturday, May 14, 2005 5:39 AM CDT
Morning Laforet Family...
OK, just about finished my mad packing for 5 people. What's not packed now will not be missed. Brandon is off on his adventures to DisneyWorld bringing his family with hime thanks to Make A Wish Foundation. He seems so proud that he is able to provide the family with a vacation. He is truly just a sweet little boy who thinks of everyone one around him. God does make them all special didn't he.
Deb..I'll make you proud and takes lots of pictures and then we'll have to make plans to hook up for a visit to share the entire trip with you.
Katelyn...sharing, love goes hand in hand. Then again she had Deb & Brian as role models. How many times we were all banking on Princess Puffy Cheeks being able to go shopping. Many ups and downs but the day finally came that they went to go home after what I think was probably Katelyn's longest admittance. The excitement on the floor was almost too much to contain...fingers crossed, tears shed, and off they went to enjoy home for at least a little while. After Katelyn, Deb & Brian left the floor we were all so very happy...very very happy, they so deserved to just be at home together as a family,not under the eyes 24hs or their extend Sick Kids family. But....it was probably the longest week ever following this famous discharge, you see something left with them...that special air that seemed to just surround Katelyn seemed to have thinned. Oh...I tried to tell myself that I was being crazy but it was different. Not just for me but for everyone, the nurses, the ward clerks, the PSA's. It took a couple of nights but finally after saying my prayers thanking God for the privilage of having Brandon (and the girls) and telling him to take care of Katelyn and family all I wanted to do was see her again, you see Katelyn and Deb were always my rock...I could crack a joke about anything and Katelyn would give me a big laugh and Deb...Deb laughed but she also knew just when to give me that hug knowing my jokes are my cover. That night in my dreams Katelyn & Deb were there in my dreams and I knew they were having a blast and that although they weren't physically there they were there in our hearts. I told Brandon about my dream and it seemed Brandon knew this way before I figured it out and proudly stated, Mom why didn't you just ask me, I could have told ya that!!!
OK sick of me yet????? lol. Have a great week everyone and I will look for the updates and signing when I get back from our trip.
Luv / Mur
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, May 14, 2005 5:15 AM CDT
Just stopped in to say goodnight. I remember Matthew's 5th birthday last year, Katelyn had been home for several weeks and had just celebrated her NUMBER 1 birthday what a celebration. Anyway Matthew was mad because he was bigger and should have his birthday first, then it came and happily Katelyn was able to come. Brian helped her swing at the pinata and then Deb put her on the slide for her first slide ride. She had the biggest smile on her face and the greatest laugh. I will never forget the look on her face when Deb pulled her down the slide. Thanks for the memory Deb and Brian. We miss you Boo.
Aunt Michelle <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Friday, May 13, 2005 10:29 PM CDT
Thinking of you today
Justina Warren <justina_1010@hotmail.comk>
Windsor, Canada - Friday, May 13, 2005 10:12 PM CDT
I'll gladly take on the competition Debbie.
I'm glad people are still signing in because I know you have had doubts about keeping up the webpage but us faithful ones will miss it! Keep up the good work!
Another memory I have is the day (or Days) you were in labour. Brian and I thought Katelyn would never arrive!
After how many days of agony??? Katelyn decides it is time to go to the hospital in the thickest fog you have ever seen. I wasn't sure if I should feel sorry for Debbie OR Brian!
Debbie in pain or Brian having to drive in total darkness with a crazy woman screaming every 3 minutes?
By the time I got to the hospital the next day Debbie was having a party. She was laughing and joking, nothing like the woman I seen leave the house. (what was the name of those drugs?)
Katelyn decides to finally make her grand appearance!!!!
I never seen such happy parents in my life, their eyes were just shining from the love they felt for this very special child.
Brian and Debbie knew that they were truly blessed when this child entered their lives.
No matter what came after that day the love and devotion they showed Katelyn never changed. Through Katelyn's life they had alot of ups and downs, good news and bad news but no matter what they knew they would get through anything as long as they stuck it through as a family.
Nothing ever changed with the way Deb and Brian felt for this child, they were so proud of her no matter what the outcome was.They continued to be so proud of her even when the doctors said she would never be able to do something and they were even prouder when Katelyn proved them wrong.
Not much changed from the first day Katelyn was born only their love grew stronger and Debbie and Brian were more grateful for everyday they got to spend with their little angel.
I will always be grateful that Debbie and Brian shared one of their most special moments with me, I will always treasure the true miracle when this family was blessed with such an amazing child .
Katelyn really is an angel sent from Heaven.
Aunt Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
Cottam, ont canada - Friday, May 13, 2005 9:28 PM CDT
I am a friend of Coreen's and she sent me your link. I read the touching story in the Leamington Post but missed the website that was listed. I will also spread the work about families in need of assistance because I now understand that families are left out in the cold unless it is a common health problem like cancer which is unfortunate.
Your daughter is absolutely beautiful and I am very touched by your dedication to her life. You seem like such a wonderful and loving family. I could never imagine going through the many obstacles in life that you have endured and still remain positive. You are an inspiration to all.
I will continue to view your website in the future. Coreen told me to be sure to sign the guestbook each time because Elmo gets mad, now that I have read the guestook myself I understand what she was talking about, good humour. I am assuming people leave without signing the guestbook by the notes that are posted in here, I will PROMISE to sign it as a token of my support to you your family.
I will pray for continued happiness in your life.
Mildred <frillymilly@hotmail.com>
Leamington, ontario Canada - Friday, May 13, 2005 9:21 PM CDT
Dear Brian and Deb,
I don't experience what you experienced but I have an idea how sad a person feel when losing a love one. :-(
I wish you guys the very best.
dh
(please excuse my bad grammar), - Friday, May 13, 2005 8:34 PM CDT
Hi,
Deb, I must apologize, I am so sorry that I can't seem to put memories in here as quick as I want to. I have memories of Katelyn but I must tell you all that I find it very difficult to put them down. It seems that I don't type very well while tears are streaming down my face..OK I admit it Deb...it's hard on some days so I can only think of you on those days and it makes it easier. One memory which I hold very dear to my heart is the fact that when Brandon was admitted to the hospital unfortunately Katelyn was usually either already there or would follow within a couple of days, which I know totally sucked Deb, you and Katelyn should have been at home enjoying your dogs and great family around you but somehow it seemed Ok for us to be together at Sick Kids. Just having Katelyn there to sit in a window and laugh with us made what Brandon and I were facing easier..Katelyn and Deb just have a way about them that just being with them was always comforting. There was always an available quick joke between friends and a good old giggle and the famous Katelyn smile...unless of course Brandon was around then I got none of that..only Brandon. Which was OK by me Katelyn Brandon was the one who truly knew how to appreciate the way you could make him feel good just by looking at him. Katelyn you and your Mom, yes and even your Dad have gotten Brandon & I through the most difficult times we have faced at Sick Kids, we are still trying to figure out how we are going to manage without you, your Mom and Dad during our next admission although I know you are always with us...memories...I still haven't touched funny moments, sad moments or the scary moments we have shared. I am hoping that by at least starting to write alittle I will be able to continue to share them, just bear with me OK. Hope you all understand that I will share them, not trying to be selfish just trying to put them into words, special words, because they are very special memories.
OK...I'll stop my rant and bid you all a good evening. I'll make sure I buck up and get some memories in here, Deb it is the least I can do for you.
Luv / Mur
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Friday, May 13, 2005 6:14 PM CDT
HI Guys,
I am sorry i have not signed lately. I have not been near a computer at all. Hope all is well. I need to read more of the guestbook entries I think. Deb I will be calling. I really want to do the walk a thon. Should I be raising money already. Let me know.
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Friday, May 13, 2005 3:57 PM CDT
Thinking of you today.
Tina & Lance <lneonkia@comcast.net>
- Friday, May 13, 2005 10:46 AM CDT
Morning,
Deb, you are amazing!!!!! Brian, you've not so bad either heehee!!
Have a good one!
luv ya
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Friday, May 13, 2005 8:04 AM CDT
Brian, I hope your week was okay! I'm trying to talk Rob into Kirkland's walk so you can have some Male company, we will see! heehee
Deb, the work you put into this website is amazing! holy smokes, I never realized you had to input all that stuff! Thank you so so much, for working so hard so we can be a part of your lives!
Chelsey and Chance, it was a pleasure!! What sweet dogs you guys have!
luv, Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Friday, May 13, 2005 7:11 AM CDT
Your words of wisdom about that wonderful smile Katelyn has and what kind of Mother she would of been is so very wonderful! You are so right "don't waste the small stuff." It is amazing how little children know so much more than we do! Katelyn (although we never met) is teaching me so very much.She is in my heart too with that smiles and giggles!
Hugs and oodles of prayers to you!
Love
Mary (Campagnaro) Slade <mar-e@rogers.com>
Guelph, Ontario, Canada - Friday, May 13, 2005 6:03 AM CDT
Hi All,
Checkin' in on my way to bed. Love your entry Deb!
Nightie nite!
luv Kelly xo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
G-town, On Cda - Friday, May 13, 2005 0:00 AM CDT
Brian & Deb
Sorry haven't signed the book for a while. We were in Las
Vegas for a week[ a beautiful gift from Scott & Peg for
Allan's retirement] Had a great time. Spending time with
family is always great. You have had some really nice days
to work on the garden. Larry was telling me all that you guys are doing. It sure sounds like a lot of work. Our
thoughts are with you as you are hauling all that dirt.
The pictures of the benefit are great [can't wait to scrap
book them. Take care . Love always Aunt Anita.
Anita Dupuis <dupuisranc@aol.com>
Tilbury, On Canada - Thursday, May 12, 2005 11:11 PM CDT
HI, Deb & Brian,
Sorry i havn't been signing in lately, i have been busy, plus i just got a new computer so trying to get things back on. We only met Katelyn once and we loved every minute of meeting her. I'll never forget when Kit introduced her to Dave and she said this is Brozy can you say Brozy!!, just then she cracked this big smile at him.Even though she couldn't talk yet ,she had her special way of saying HI to everyone. We will never forget the day we met her and we will never forget her. I hope you guys are doing ok.
Sue & Dave
Sue & Dave <susieq@netrover.com>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Thursday, May 12, 2005 10:48 PM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb: Just thought I write a little before bed. Hope you two are doing okay and please know that you are always in our hearts and thoughts. We are getting ready to go on vacation soon so everything is pretty busy around here. Keep that website going and we will keep reading. I'll call you before we leave and talk awhile. Brian, Wayne is waiting for you to call for a golf game when ever you feel like it okay. Talk to you both later. Love Aunt Frankie and Wayne
Frankie Crawford <waygir@yahoo.ca>
- Thursday, May 12, 2005 9:41 PM CDT
Hi Guys... just saying hi and letting you know that I am using Katelyn's site for some grounding tonight... good to know that there is always a place to come to where I can always find a smile (love Katelyn's pictures) and 'pick-me-up' comments. You guys are an inspiration to us all!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Thursday, May 12, 2005 9:14 PM CDT
Hello
WOW That poem is very beautiful Im just checking in to say im thinking of you and youre family everyday!!! Hope the days are getting easier for you and ur family..
Well take care and god bless!!
((((HUGS))))
Nikki <nikkers340@hotmail.com>
McGregor, ont Canada - Thursday, May 12, 2005 4:14 PM CDT
Hi Brian & Deb - just a quick note to say I'm thinking of you today.
Kim Harlow <kymberlee67@hotmail.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Thursday, May 12, 2005 1:34 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian, sorry I haven't been by in awhile, I've been busy working on Kirkie's walkathon. I can't wait to meet you! Hope you are both well. Take care. Love Robin xo
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Thursday, May 12, 2005 11:09 AM CDT
Good Morning! A little chilly, but as long as the girls and your dad don't start throwing ice cream again, I am happy!
thinking of you....
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Thursday, May 12, 2005 8:31 AM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brain. Been away from computor due to work,and help out moving my sister in (x)law. Helped her out last Thursday till Sat. And then Sunday was that special time of year for us at work. Weather was nice which was great for every one. Worked till 8,and then pulled a double on Monday. Yesterday was a all day meeting. Yuk. I would of rather worked 14hrs then sit and listend to them for 8hrs. My brain is mush. Well today is some what of a day off,figures weather is cold,but still o.k. Glad to hear about all the plains you have for Katlyens memory gardan. Take pictures when you are finish. Sure every one would enjoy seing them. Well take care and enjoy the summer.
collette <csoulliere@5cogeco.ca>
- Thursday, May 12, 2005 8:24 AM CDT
OK Memories...One comes to my mind all because of the Mito Walk and the CF Walk and Deb....sorry it's of you heehee.
Picture it, a snowly cold night and Brandon, Deb & I have decided that we must have Salad King (great cheap food, who can't appreciate that). Salad King doesn't deliver is the once catch. Well, Mur & Deb have to have it so I volunteer to do the walk and pick it up but one glitch..I only have shoes with no tread since I don't actually have to leave the hospital when Brandon is in outdoor shoes don't really come to mind for me. I innocently ask Deb for her running shoes...should have dawned on me that it could be trouble when Deb says....are you sure you want to do that...of course, I don't mind is my reply. So I go to get the runners and of course Deb says again, are you sure?? All that said Deb graciously sprayed some lovely kind of scent into her shoes apparently to save me from the attack..heheehe Long story short is my feet smelled lovely for the rest of the evening, had Deb & Katelyn with me, doesn't get better than that in my mind.
So....for those of you walking with Deb, I'm assuming she's ready for the walk, just don't ask to borrow her runners unless she does her little scent thingy OK.....Brian stay clear of those things afterwards...at least for a day or two.
Luv to everyone.
/Mur
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, May 12, 2005 8:07 AM CDT
Just checking in to tell you we are thinking of you!
Hugs and oodles of prayers!
Mary (Campagnaro), Mike Slade and the kids <mar-e@rogers.com>
Guelph, Ontario, Canada - Thursday, May 12, 2005 6:14 AM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb. Hope everything goes well.
dh
- Thursday, May 12, 2005 4:55 AM CDT
Sorry, been away with a computer on the fritz!!! But I am back as of the last few minutes of lunch hour today... hope all is well! Just had to check in on you!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 10:05 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian. Mom was telling me she talked to you in the graveyard on Sunday. So I thought I would take a minute to check in and say hi. Hope you are both doing well. Happy belated Mothers Day to all the mothers reading this. And remember: Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things. Take care, Brian and Debbie.
Ruth Wall <brzwall@gosfieldtel.com>
- Wednesday, May 11, 2005 7:41 PM CDT
Hi...just checking in and wanted you to know I am thinking of you today. Have a good week!
~Tabby’s Page~
Tabby & Mom <karenpuddn@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, May 11, 2005 7:32 PM CDT
I don't know you personally, but after reading some of the memories, I can tell she was one VERY special little girl! thinking of your angel today and always. God Bless You!
Misty <misty79_98@shighway.com>
MO - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 4:01 PM CDT
Hey there, Thinking of all you guys.
/M
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, May 11, 2005 3:08 PM CDT
Hi it is Justina and Donna sorry we have not been on in a long time it was because are computer had been broke we just came on to say hi and to see if your doing ok well we got two go bye bye for now
Justina and Donna Warren <justina_1010@hotmail.com >
Windsor, Ont Canada - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 3:05 PM CDT
You did say that May was memory month, didn't you??
Here's the way we'll keep Katelyn's memory alive and well at our house for many years to come....
Katelyn's Corner
luv Kelly and Kirkland xoxoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 10:04 AM CDT
Bonnie, I laughed and I cried! Thanks butthead! heehee! I'll look at bath time different now thank you! Oh and by the way the other day I ended going back to bed till 8am! LOL! I'm not sure how you do it!
Deb and Brian, I hope you are having okay days! I'm thinking of both of you! Especially since we are working on our landscaping too! How true, that it's so easy to get caught up in it!
luv, Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 7:58 AM CDT
GOOD MORNING DEB
HOPE YOUR ENJOYING ALL THIS WARM SUNNY WEATHER.BUT BE CAREFUL YOU DONT OVER DO IT IN THE GARDENING DEPT. DONT WANT YOU SCREWING UP YOUR BACK.
I CHECKED IN TWICE YESTERDAY AND DIDNT SIGN IN."GUILTY" SO THOUGHT IT BEST TO SIGN IN BEFORE GET IN TROUBLE LOL
LUV CONN
I'M AT WORK SO WILL DO A MEMORY TONIGHT
CONNIE <C.BEACOM@SYPATICO.CA>
- Wednesday, May 11, 2005 7:28 AM CDT
The most I remember about Katelyn is how she always made such little things so very special.
Katelyn always had the biggest warmest smile and the best giggle in the world over something most people never even notice.
There are so many things people take for granted and Katelyn always made you stop and realize this.
She was always so happy just to get outside and feel the sunshine on her face or feel the wind tickle her nose, Such a small little thing but it was so special to her.
Just laying on the floor in her house was a big event for her. She could lay on the floor! Something she couldn't always do when she was in the hospital but she would lay there watching TV with her leg going so fast watching her favourite shows. You would think she was doing the Richard Simmons workout with the way her leg was moving the whole time.
I can remember her coming home from the hospital and being able to have a bath, to actually sit in a bath tub full of water. You would have thought she won a membership at a luxury spa!!!. She would be kicking and laughing then she would just lay back and enjoy the feel of the water. Ahhhh!
As we raise our children all these tasks are routine and sometimes bothersome when we are so busy but when you see such little things being so special you just realize how much we take for granted in life .
When you are doing something that you don't always enjoy doing, STOP and think about what it would be like not to ever be able to do this small task---You may even be able to enjoy it.
Thank-You Katelyn for teaching us how the simple things in life are the most precious.
Love you and miss you.
Aunt Bonnie
aunt Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 6:13 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian,
It's been so very long since I signed the guestbook .. please forgive me. You are so often in my thoughts and prayers and I wanted you to know that. By the way, I had sent you an email on April 20th and hope you received it. Deb, I would like to wish you a belated but heartfelt Happy Mother's Day. You have demonstrated the most important qualities of motherhood - selfless love, endless patience, eternal hope, loving kindness, imaginative and interesting playtime for your child, and so much more. Katelyn was and is a lucky girl to have been blessed with such a perfect mother for her. You made every minute count. It is certainly a day for celebrating one of the most important and fulfilling roles in your life.
Love Ruth
Ruth D'Silva <ruthd@tertec.com>
Unionville, Ont. Canada - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 8:24 PM CDT
Thinking of you, Bonnie Luskey
www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net>
Belle Plaine, MN USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 10:31 AM CDT
Hello Brian & Deb. Glad you had a good mother's day. I was thinking of you and all angel's mom's as I sat surrounded by my kids & grandchildren. I kissed them all & hugged them extra - thanks to you, nothing is taken for granted. Hope your cold is getting better & the garden is coming along. Hugs!
Kim Harlow <kim_harlow@gillette.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 10:06 AM CDT
Good Going Christine!!!!!
How many naps did you have yesterday since you got up sooooo early???????????/
It's probably a good thing I never get the computer at nigh-time or I would be up all night long like you and Debbie.
Have a good day
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 5:34 AM CDT
Happy Belated Mother's Day!!!! Sorry it has been so long since I have signed in. This is the first chance I have had to get on here in over a week. Love the picture of Brian!!!He looks good in brown... Hope you guys have been outside enjoying the beautiful weather. If you are in Leamington before you go in the walk stop by the house so that we can sponser you. I am usually home by 6pm. Talked to my Mom on Sunday and she said to give you guys her love and to let you know that she thinks of you often. Work is calling so I better get going. Hope we can get together soon......
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 5:24 AM CDT
Good Morning Deb and Brian! Somehow I am fixated on weather these days... let's see what Katelyn whips up for us today... getting mixed forecasts! Hee Hee! Have a great day!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 5:16 AM CDT
Good Morning! Gasp.... I'm up before 8am, are you proud of me Bonnie! heehee!
Deb, I hope all is well with you and Brian! And that your cold is feeling better! Have a great day!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 5:10 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian,
I'm just sitting here chuckling. I've had a few comments from the Georgetown chapter of Katelyn's fan club who have made comments that they can't wait to meet all of you. One friend said, "I can't wait to meet Deb and Brian" and it caught me off guard. "Duh...how do you know them?" Eh Laura?...I know you're reading this. You've already admitted you're an addict too!! LOL
You have quite a following in G-town too. You need to wear your Katelyn t-shirts if that's alright. Maybe get some fabric paint and write "Katelyn's Mom" and Katelyn's Dad" on the back. LOL I just finalized an ad for the paper. Maybe I'd better call them back and tell them that along with the Leaf player, Matt Stajan; Katelyn's parents will also be appearing live in person!! It might bring out the numbers.
We might just have to have a little(??)party when you arrive in town Saturday so everyone can meet you. It'd be nice if our pool was up and running by then. We just ordered a new liner and skimmer (Gotta love that line of credit eh?) The pool co. tells me they should have it done by the end of the month. Let's hope - not that it'll be very warm though.
Anyway, Deb you never cease to amaze me as you provide comfort to other hurting parents of baby angels. I hope you'll be able to share some of that strength with me one day.
Love you guys,
Kelly and Kirkland xoxoxox
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Monday, May 9, 2005 4:01 PM CDT
I read your story in the Leamington Post and thought I would look into the websight posted. I spent the ENTITRE morning reading through it and I am quite heartbroken, she was such a beautiful little girl, you can see the spunk in her eyes. I am going to share this with my friends as to spread the word for your foundation, I think it so generous that you would help others after your misfortune. The world is in need of more people like you.
I could not leave without signing the guestbook to show my support and respect for you. Plus I remember it would make someone quite angry, after all that reading I don't remember which character it was but possibly Elmo??
I will keep you in my prayers. I will never forget you or your little Angel.
Coreen
Leamington, On Canada - Monday, May 9, 2005 3:51 PM CDT
Deb, Thank you so much for sharing so much of you and Brian and Katelyn with us! I'm glad your day went well yesterday!
It is so beautiful again today!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Monday, May 9, 2005 1:31 PM CDT
Hi Deb, Brian and angel puffycheeks!
Sorry a day late. But hope your day yesterday was ok. I know how hard it is was for us.
Glad you liked that card I sent you.
Hugs and prayers
Angela, Alyssa, and ^i^ Jacob <angela.trick@gmail.com>
Peterborough, Ont, Canada - Monday, May 9, 2005 8:49 AM CDT
Morning guys. Glad you had a good day Deb and Brian too. We were thinking about you. Deb, I'll call you tonight about London (thought I'd remind you here too LOL) Brian, Scot was able to get you some machinery to help with the garden we'll talk to you later. Kyle wants to watch his home videos on the computer now (screaming) Talk to you tonight. OH yeah BIG BIG HUGS we love you both
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Monday, May 9, 2005 6:24 AM CDT
Good Morning Y'all! Deb... Do you sleep at all or is it just the clock that is off... did you really write that journal entry in the wee hours of the morning? After working in the garden so much you should be off to sleep!! Anyways.. just checking in to see how your Mom's Day went. Have a great day... more sunshine!!!! Yeah!!!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Monday, May 9, 2005 6:14 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Deb
I guess I got busy yesterday and forgot to tell you! I was busy talking to birds that have been following me around for the last couple days and forgot all about you.
OOPS, glad your day went well.
Bonnie
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Monday, May 9, 2005 5:43 AM CDT
I know you had a special Mother's Day... wow!!! What a special message from Katelyn. I am going to bed with all the dust cleared from my eyes and a special something just bursting in my heart... Thanks Katelyn!! You and your Mom are just sooooo special! Good Night!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:59 PM CDT
Hope your Mother's Day went well! Love the note Angel Puffy Cheeks (Katelyn) wrote! The tears were coming! Hugs and oodles of prayers to all!
Love
Mary (Campagnaro), Mike Slade and the kids <mar-e@rogers.com>
Guelph, Ontario, Canada - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:31 PM CDT
To my friend Deb on this very special day. I wish you the best of Mother's Days today- You stand for all that most Moms wish for and you showed us how to be better and how important all of the angels are in more ways than I can count. I am so very lucky to have you for my friend, for you shared Katelyn with us and you showed me how to love my children on a whole new level. I am sending you the biggest of hugs today!!!!
Joyce <namham@sympatico.ca>
Charing Cross, Ont Canada - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:16 PM CDT
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Sunday, May 8, 2005 6:39 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Deb...You are in my heart today as well as Katelyn's. What a wonderful day she gave to you and thanks for sharing it with all of us..
luv ya xoxoxo
/Muriel
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 8, 2005 5:27 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Deb,
I hope you are having a wonderful Mother's day, although I know how hard it is. Happy Mother's day to you too Angie, if you are reading this, the Angel's Mother's day card was beautiful. I know all our little angel babies are smiling down on us today. I'll call you tonight Deb.
Love, Toby (Angel Caillin's mom)
Oshawa, ON Canada - Sunday, May 8, 2005 3:16 PM CDT
Deb, Happy Mother's day! I hope it is filled with comforting moments!
Love, Christine, Rob, Sarah and Robert
Christine and Rob Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Sunday, May 8, 2005 1:14 PM CDT
Dear Debbie,
What a beautiful day Katelyn has given you for mother's day. Love sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, - Sunday, May 8, 2005 9:36 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day, Deb!
We, the Katelyn Fan Club members vote you, "Mother of the Year"! You deserve it
I'll be thinking of you all day.
I love you,
Kelly xo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Cda - Sunday, May 8, 2005 9:17 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day, Deb!
We, the Katelyn Fan Club members vote you, "Mother of the Year"! You deserve it
I'll be thinking of you all day.
I love you,
Kelly xo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Sunday, May 8, 2005 9:14 AM CDT
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY EVERYONE
ITS A BEAUTIFUL DAY OUT AND I HOPE ALL YOU MOTHERS WILL ENJOY IT.ENJOY YOUR CHILDREN NO MATTER WHAT THEIR AGES ARE.
LUV CONN
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:59 AM CDT
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY DEBBIE. What a beautiful sunny day wonder who did that? It seems to me it usually rains on Mothers Day. Have a great day. Don't let your cold get you down. Nice gift Brian LOL. See you on Tuesday. Kyle is VERY,VERY excited. Love always Mich
P.S. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ALL THE OTHER MOMS!!!!
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:23 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Deb. The sun is shining, the day is warm, the birds are singing. I wonder who has had a hand in this beautiful day???????? My love to you always
PS. Happy Mother's Day to all the Mother's who read this guest book.
Mom <kitlarry@netrover.com>
Tilbury, On - Sunday, May 8, 2005 7:50 AM CDT
Many blessings to Katelyn's mommy on Mothers Day.
Winnie <jfairs0527@rogers.com>
Oshawa, On - Sunday, May 8, 2005 7:32 AM CDT
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY MOMMY!
I know that you will wake up sad today but please don't be sad mommy.
You are the best mommy any little girl could have. I had alot of tough battles when I was on earth but no matter what, you always loved me and stuck by my side. Even when you were sad because I was not feeling very good you always put me first and made me smile.
If it wasn't for you (and daddy), I would never have had the courage and the strength to pull through as long as I did.
I didn't want to leave you mommy because I knew you would be very sad but God had different plans for me. He has now given me a life that is pain-free and I am running around with the angels. You would be really happy for me if you could see how fast my legs can move now.
Remember all those times you made me laugh. You made me who I am today and I can laugh and giggle better than anyone here.
I keep giving you signs that I am OK, just remember that I am still close by your side no matter where we are, we will always be together because I will always be in your heart the same way you will forever be in my heart.
I love you mommy more than you could ever know. You always said you were proud of me but mommy I am also very proud of you. Your strength and courage and the love you have shown me is what true love is all about.
Please be happy today because you are a perfect example of what a true mother is. Your love and devotion is more than any child could ask for.
If you are feeling sad today please remember all the good times we had.
Just you and me.
That should make you smile, it always makes me smile,
You made my life complete and you deserve to have a Happy Mother's Day
I will love you forever,
Katelyn
PS. Mommy, you know all those goofy songs you sang to me! Some of the angels here can sing even better than you. Can you believe it?
PSS. Smile today for me, I am closer than you think!
Angel Puffy Cheeks
Heaven, above heaven - Sunday, May 8, 2005 6:16 AM CDT
Good Morning!!! Happy Mother's Day Deb!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Sunday, May 8, 2005 5:56 AM CDT
Hi Brian & Deb, I just wanted to let you know we think of you daily. I love the poem & card on the website. I know what you mean about the laughter after the seizure, Kelsie also has seizures & will sometimes laugh like this during the night. I will wake my husband up & we just listen to her. What a beautiful sound it is even though I know a seizure will be coming. Deb have a wonderful Mothers Day, I know Katelyn is looking down on you with her big smile as she knows she has the best mother around. I don't have any memories of Katelyn but I do plan to plant purple flowers in memory of her. Have a blessed day to you both. Donna Cullen (mom to Kelsie CDG type unknown)
Donna Cullen <dcullen@hotmail.com >
Farmington Hills, MIq USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 3:23 AM CDT
I've decided it's not a good idea to come for a visit when I am tired! I cry too easy!
Deb, Happy Mother's Day! I can only hope to be as dedicated and loving to my children as you are to Katelyn! You are in our thoughts always!
Umm Not so much a memory.... but Katelyn touching our lives! I now think twice about yelling at my kids...because really, at the end of the day, did what they do, make that much of a difference?!
Love you guys!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Saturday, May 7, 2005 11:07 PM CDT
Just about to end the day and was thinking about you guys again! What a wonderful day! Thanks to Tayler... I think he pulled some strings and ordered up some sunshine for us! Hope you had a great day too... likely out in the garden. If I don't check in tomorrow... have a wonderful Mother's Day!! Love Karen :-)
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:35 PM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian,
Just thinking of you guys. I know that Katelyn was looking over my shoulder the other day in a tough situation. I think about you guys tons. Thank you for showing me true examples of strength and love.
Larissa <rissyriss@hotmail.com>
Manitoba, - Saturday, May 7, 2005 6:53 PM CDT
Deb,
Thinking of you today and always.
Tina & Lance <lneonkia@comcast.net>
- Saturday, May 7, 2005 2:35 PM CDT
Hi,
I was just visiting Kirkland and family and thought of you guys. I hope you guys are doing well (as well as can be expected). Debbie, I want to wish you a Happy Mother's Day! I know Katelyn is watching you each and every day and saying that you are the best Mommy in the whole wide world. Have a good one..
Dawn Giles <kdgiles@sympatico.ca>
georgetown, on canada - Saturday, May 7, 2005 1:11 PM CDT
GOOD MORNING BRIAN AND DEB. I have to tell you Kyle made me a card at school this week and his EA's took the picture you had on the website from his birthday and pasted it in the card. I was very touched it meant more to me than if they had just taken his picture. WHY? Well Aunt Debbie took the picture and put it on the website for everyone to see which made Kyle and I very proud and then his EA's thought it would be a nice addition to the card, it was like having a piece of Katelyn in the card too. Anyway a VERY SPECIAL HAPPY MOTHERS DAY DEBBIE. We LOVE you very much.Hope you have a great weekend in the garden it is supposed to be beautiful all weekend long. Thanks girls and Jacob and grandpa.
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Saturday, May 7, 2005 7:46 AM CDT
Good Saturday Morning Deb and Brian.. I just love being the first one in the morning to greet you here! Again, just checking in on you two very special people. Just read the Leamington article... pretty good... don't you feel left out Brian! You carry through with your plans Deb... wish I could help, but I have never set anything up like that before... let me know if there is anything I can do. Have a great weekend... and Happy Mothers Day to you Deb.. You are one Special Mom!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Saturday, May 7, 2005 6:50 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day
Hope you enjoy your day and the thought that Katelyn will always be with you and touching many hearts. Thinking of you guys often, Take care.
Shelly
dewael family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
chatham, on canada - Saturday, May 7, 2005 6:50 AM CDT
Hello dear friends,
Hope all is well with you and you have some good times planned for the weekend. I was at Mito March prize committee meeting tonight and then we have another full organizing committee meeting tomorrow. Seems like I don't have time for anything else but it's worth it.
Kirk and I have had a quiet week. Two nurses were away this week.
I guess I'll be heading over to my mom's at some point this weekend. How bout you?
Deb, I hope you're still able to celebrate your motherhood this weekend. That will be something that will never end for you. You'll be Katelyn's mother for ever and ever and that will never change no matter where she is. So please celebrate what a wonderful mother you've been to Katelyn. If there's any year that you deserve to be recognized it's this year!
Hmmm...I wonder what perrrrfecttt gift Brian will buy for you this year??? LOL Hope you're throwing around some lavish hints, Deb!
Love you guys,
Kelly and Kirkland xoxoxxoxoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Friday, May 6, 2005 10:34 PM CDT
I finally got the computer and thought I better sign in (Set a good example).
I missed the picture of Brian, but we have been laughing about it for a long time so I still have a good picture in my head!!!
Memory: I remember the weekend I got to spend with Katelyn at the hospital in Toronto when you two got away for the weekend (even though you came back to check in several times a day and called secretly behind my back).
I wasn't very co-ordinated with pushing the stroller and pulling the IV pole along with me. As I was trying to get through the elevator doors (they like to eat humans) The doors started to close and I had Katelyn in the elevator and the IV pole was still in the hallway. As I tried to hold the door and pull the pole in with me some poor guy came running up and held the door for me while I got Katelyn and her equipment safely in the elevator.
I let out a sigh of relief because I would have had alot of explaining to do if I would have had Katelyn in her stroller downstairs and her IV pole was still up on the 7th floor.
I may not have been very good at juggling all her equipment but by the end of the weekend I had it down to a science. I never knew that Katelyn was not about to let me sit in her room for more than 5 minutes before she would give me that look and we would be out running the hallways again.
It was the best weekend I every had with her because I got to have her to myself (besides some of the nurses I had to share her with) without her parents around. It may sound very normal to most people but Katelyn was never away from her parents and this made the weekend very special for the both of us. I will treasure this memory forever and thank God that I had this special weekend with her.
Love Aunt Bonnie
Aunt Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Friday, May 6, 2005 9:37 PM CDT
Hugs and oodles of prayers being sent your way!
Tried to get into the newspaper site, but just got "This article does not exist"
Have a wonderful weekend. I know Katelyn has that hugh smile for you! Yes she and your whole family have touched many people, with love!
Love
Mary (Campagnaro), Mike Slade and the kids <mar-e@rogers.com>
Guelph, Ontario, Canada - Friday, May 6, 2005 8:11 PM CDT
MY VERY LAST MEMORY OF THE SQUIRT WAS...
GOING TO SICK KIDS ON THE SATURDAY BEFORE KATELYN GOT HER WINGS.
BONNIE &I HAD JUST GOTTEN OUR GOWN & GLOVES OFF AND DEBBIE WAS SITTING ON THE BED WITH KATELYN.ALL OF A SUDDEN DEBBIE SAY'S GET IN HER QUICK AND THE SQUIRT WAS SMILING.EVEN THOUGH SHE WAS WEAK AND TIRED SHE STILL HAD IT IN HER TO SMILE.AT THAT MOMENT BONNIE & I BOTH STILL HAD THE HOPE FOR A MIRICLE.KATELYN GAVE THAT HOPE KNOW MATTER HOW SICK SHE WAS.
THINK TONIGHT I AM GONNA GO OUTDOORS & SEE IF I CAN SEE HER STAR SO I CAN BE CLOSE TO HER. MISS YOU BOO!!
LUV AUNT COCO
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Friday, May 6, 2005 7:52 PM CDT
Hi There
Thinking of you and wishing you the very best.
Hope you have a good weekend.
Love Winnie
p.s. Those two little girls are always on my mind.
Winnie Fairservice (Caillin's Memere) <jfairs0527@rogers.com>
Oshawa, On - Friday, May 6, 2005 5:45 PM CDT
Hi there!
Just cheking in! I never got the chance to meet Katelynn, but since the first time I visited her page, there was something that drew me near. Still not too sure what it was, but I think about her quite often. Thank you ffor checking in on Tabby.....hoping you have a wonderful weekend.
~Tabby’s Page~
Tabby & Mom <karen_wst@yahoo.com>
- Friday, May 6, 2005 3:24 PM CDT
Just popped on to see how everyone was doing. I love the stories and updates. Wish you all the best.
Janet Carson
Fairfield, Oh USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 1:11 PM CDT
Hi there. I have been visiting but I haven't signed that often. I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you and that we all out here love you.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
conway, Nc USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 1:09 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian!! I have visited Katelyn's site a time or 2 but don't think I've signed the guest book before. I am getting to know CB friends so I can be servent of God's by praying for those in need. Thank you for sharing with me!!! I can't imagine how you will feel on Mother's Day but know you are so very special to be Angel Katelyn's Mom!!! I'll stop by sometime,hopefully soon, to visit again!! Take Care,
Dorine McNary <dkmcnary@yahoo.com>
Williston, ND - Friday, May 6, 2005 12:39 AM CDT
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Friday, May 6, 2005 11:56 AM CDT
Good Morning! I hope everyone enjoys the sunshine today! I get to go play in my garden, finally! Deb, Thanks again!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Friday, May 6, 2005 7:19 AM CDT
Happy Friday Everyone!!!
Have a great weekend!!!
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Friday, May 6, 2005 6:55 AM CDT
Good morning to you all on this fabulous Friday- the sun is shining in our windows and the prisms are all over the walls- little fairy kisses for the kids to try to catch. Congradulations on the amount of money that was raised for you- that must have been a hugh shock!!! Way to go. Have a great day, and enjoy this sun. Lots of love,
Jerry, Joyce,Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
Charing Cross, Ont Canada - Friday, May 6, 2005 6:11 AM CDT
Your daughter was such a beautiful and so happy little girl. God really did Bless you with her. May your family grow in the Lord and always remember that God works in wonderful ways. God Bless
Dareama Ruble <dareama777ruble@yahoo.com>
Ceres, Ca USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 0:42 AM CDT
After a long day at work I just had to come and upstairs and say 'HI' to you two special people! The sun is shining and it just makes me smile to think that Katelyn is laughing away while playing with her friends in this sunshine!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Thursday, May 5, 2005 6:02 PM CDT
Just thought i would say hi and hope you are enjoying this weather. Take care.
dewael family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
chatham, ont canada - Thursday, May 5, 2005 1:49 PM CDT
Hi Brian & Deb, the article was terrific. Hope all is well & sunny in Leamington. Keep those memories coming people!
Kim Harlow <kymberlee67@hotmail.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Thursday, May 5, 2005 10:52 AM CDT
Goodmorning Deb and Brian: Just read the webpage and thought I'd better sign in. I am one of the ones who read and never sign (guiltly as charged lol). We read the article in the paper and it looks like the fundraiser was a success. If you get the paper this week look on the front page at the two junior kindergaten kids and see if you recognize anyone. Well the housework is calling my name and not in too nice a voice I might add. Talk to you later. Love Aunt Frankie and Wayne
f <waygir@yahoo.ca>
- Thursday, May 5, 2005 9:28 AM CDT
OK I'm guilty!! I've been checking in and not signing in!!! What an amazing accomplishment on the fundraising. I'll have to get all your good suggestions/tips when Brandon's transplant days/waiting comes along and I can organize something for all Transplant families which could touch on alot of people not just CF. Haven't gotten the full picture yet but you know there's going to be huge costs when the transplant coordinator tells ya that she'll give you a pamplet on fundraising tips for things that aren't covered. Twisted little medical world we live in huh!
What an article!!! If someone could get me a copy of the actual paper that would be great. Brandon has a scrapbook going of Little Miss Katelyn and I know he would love to add it to his treasures.
Will post a couple of memories shortly. Luv to everyone.
/Mur
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, May 5, 2005 9:19 AM CDT
Good Morning to you all! Deb I hope you are sleeping still! Thank you so much for the loot ;0)
Love, Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Thursday, May 5, 2005 8:22 AM CDT
Dear Deb & Brian,
Wow, what a surprise for you! Wish we could have been there. Congratulations, love Sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, on - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 10:31 PM CDT
You guys deserve everything you get and what will be coming your way I'm sure! Katelyn has made such a impact in my life, and we've never even met. Being a mother of 2 it's made me realize to not take the time we have with them for granted. You are strong people and will make it through this tough time. You are always in our thought and prayers.
Katie Rodriguez <katierodriguez1175@yahoo.com>
Vandenberg Air Force Base, CA USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 10:19 PM CDT
Hi there, wow you guys have been busy updating, I haven't been on line to check out the site for a few days and when I do, you've given me lots to catch up on. Awesome on the numbers from the fundraiser, what family and friends you's have for support.
Now for my memory of Katelyn, well I guess it is more about hearing about her and seeing pics, Grandma Newman was one proud Grandma, she usually had a story to tell me and a picture to show me when she stopped in to see me at work.
Deb Galos <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
Ruthven, - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 10:15 PM CDT
I am so glad the fundraiser went so well. It is truly amazing how Sick Kids can eat up the money. Like taking 30 seconds to run down and get a coffee from Starbucks (they are serious about the bucks, that's for sure) because you don't have time to follow the footsteps to Tim's! I hope the newspaper article helps to add to the total, even if it wasn't quite right. Take care guys, we're off to Montreal with Jason for a week to try yet another therapy, so wish us luck, and I will check in when we get back.
Sharon (Jason's Mom) <mag5jas2@rogers.com; http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/jason>
Gormley, ON Canada - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 9:39 PM CDT
We stopped in to say hello. Congratulations on the fundraiser, that is truly amazing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you daily.
Mark, Tammy & Ricki Ann Drew <tammy@vehicleventure.com>
Tilbury, on Canada - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 8:52 PM CDT
i just checked in for the third time.
Gee Deb how come i can cant write the words like you & Bonnie.
your update was good as usual
Have a good night luv conn
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Wednesday, May 4, 2005 8:51 PM CDT
Wow, Wow, Wow! What more can I say....
you both have amazing families and I am so happy to have gotten to know them!
luv Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 7:29 PM CDT
Wow! I am so proud of all of you!
Your story deserves to be told because your are one remarkable family. I was just beaming when I read the article! Nice work Bonnie! What a super job everyone did planning Katelyn's fundraiser. You can do sooo much in Katelyn's memory. The world will only be better because she was in it.
Keep spreading the word about CDG and the rarity of metabolic disorders and one day they'll only be rare because they've been wiped out!
Go team!
love and kisses,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 6:10 PM CDT
Hi Deb,
I was just thinking about the time when we were both at sick kids. we both went downstairs with Tayler and Katelyn to build a gingerbread man. Then we looked at the gingerbread village. I have pictures which I remember you told be to burn or something like that. Katelyn was so happy to be out walking around whenever she could be. Take care and all the pictures are great. I love the black panther.
SHannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, May 4, 2005 3:48 PM CDT
My best memory of Katelyn is the first time I seen her, it was in the hospital the day after she was born. What a sweetheart, she was so precious and so sweet. I didn't want to leave her there, I wanted to bring her home with Doug and I but her mom wouldn't let me. I got to help dress her which meant so much to me. This might seem like such a minor memory but it is a memory of Katelyn that I will never forget.
Good thing I don't have a computer or I would overload this darn thing!
I love her and miss her terribly.
Grandma Newman
Grandma Newman <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, May 4, 2005 1:33 PM CDT
Just wanted to say Hi. Love the picture Brian.
Love always.
Mom & Dad <kitlarry@netrover.com>
Tilbury, Ont - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 12:22 AM CDT
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 9:49 AM CDT
Good Morning! Wahoo SUN!! I am so excited! ;0)
Okay, Deb I just about fell outta my chair looking at your pictures! Let me tell you why.....Great Grandpa Newman...Oh my goodness he is Mr. Newman....whispers... My grandma lives with your grandpa! hee hee! I even got to know your grandma before she got her wings...Mrs.Newman! I absolutely loved talking to them When I visit my grandma, I haven't been there in awhile though!
Anyway, phew what excitement for one morning! My mom thought I was crazy....no comments please. And hey that's my memory for ya! ;0)
Luv Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 9:28 AM CDT
WOW that picture is pricless Deb,you may in alot of trouble but it made me laugh lol
thanx I needed that this morning!!!
luv conn
CONNIE <C.BEACOM@SYPATICO.CA>
- Wednesday, May 4, 2005 8:22 AM CDT
Good morning to you both. I have my first May Memory to share- Katelyn came to Nicole's birthday party, and brought her Rock & Roll Elmo with her (Nicole was very afraid of any moving animals) When Nicole saw how it made Katelyn smile and how much she loved it she began to turn it on for Katelyn. By the end of the party Nicole and Katelyn were playing with each other and smiling at each other. It was the best part of the whole party, and meant so very much to all of us that Katelyn was well enough to stay for the party, and even more so because Katelyn touched Nicole in such a special way. I know that Jerry was very happy to see his best friends daughter and his daughter playing together
Jerry, Joyce, Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
Charing Cross, Ont Canada - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 6:23 AM CDT
Hi Everyone,
I'll save my memories for later on in the month. I just wrote a long journal and I'm pooped. I'm sorry Deb, I was hoping to get down to visit with you sometime during the week soon. One nurse is away and I just switched my nursing shifts around so when things get settled, We'll re-plan! In the meantime, I'm so looking forward to 'you's' coming to town. I can't wait to introduce you to the other important people in our lives.
I so enjoyed looking at all the pics and was glad I got to meet everyone a month ago. Evan was quite interested in who everyone was so I was explaining.
Anyway, Katrin's leaving and I'm going to hit the hay. I'll write again tomorrow
Hugs to everyone with lots of love Kirkie and I xoxxox
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 11:02 PM CDT
LOL Connie, I checked the site at least 4 times today and all those times, followed a link to pictures, to other web sites! I guess I should finally sign in!
I cannot wait for nice weather! Deb and Brian, your yard is amazing already! Just beautiful!
You are doing an amazing job on everything, I look forward to all the pictues and updates! {{HUGS}} for you both!
Christine
oh and Connie, Can I talk to you about my garden sometime, Deb said you really know your stuff! ;0) I've already sent Bonnie her fan club tuition, can I get 2 for 1?
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 9:45 PM CDT
thinking of you guys daily!
Katie Rodriguez <katierodriguez1175@yahoo.com>
Vandenberg AFB, CA USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 9:12 PM CDT
Hello Everyone
Well out of 90 people only a handful signed in.I'm guilty I checked in twice but didnt sign in because i was at work.But I'm here now and the weather is going to change soon,GARDENING HERE WE COME!!!!.
I am still trying to find the words about my memories.I tried to pay Kelly to help me BUT ... she is a busy bee .
Take care & have a good night everyone luv conn
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
- Tuesday, May 3, 2005 8:18 PM CDT
I dont know Deb or Brian, however I was at the Fundraiser with a friend of mine. It was so awesome to see so many people out there showing there support and help. Im sure it really helped you both. I cant say I know first hand what you and your family are going through,or have been through but your in my thoughts and prayers! Sore with the Angels Katelyn!
shannon <shanny22_99@yahoo.com>
Leamington, Ont Canada - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 5:52 PM CDT
I love you !!!!
Kyle Bunney <kylebunney@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, May 3, 2005 1:40 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian! Finally got to hear the words to that song In My Daughters Eyes! Awesome song! I remember the first time I saw Katelyn... and it was from a distance... I wasn't allowed in the room for some reason and she was soooo small in such a big room... that was either November or December 2003. I knew she was something special by the look in her mom's eyes... they were so full of love and concern and so tired too... but there was something else... can't explain it! Sorry... I am not a good story teller...
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 12:29 AM CDT
Thanks for visiting Emerald's site.
Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you and your family, too.
Hugs,
Kimberly & Angel Emerald <emislema@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, May 3, 2005 10:08 AM CDT
It is my misfortune that I did not get to meet Katelyn before she earned her wings. I will, however, have the honour of meeting Brian & Deb at Kirkie's walk. I do remember the first time I clicked on Katelyn's site. I was so distraught to read of her passing, and so touched at the strength & love surrounding her family. Brian & Deb - you are amazing! Stay strong.
Kim Harlow <kymberlee67@hotmail.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 9:07 AM CDT
LOL! Oh Deb please post the poop picture! Bonnie, I can picture you half awake busttin a gut laughing! Thanks for my morning laugh!
Deb and Brian Good Morning! I am looking forward to some warm weather....maybe we could stop by one day for a visit? I will get ahold of you before the 29th...
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 7:58 AM CDT
Dear Deb & Brian,
Sounds like a good weekend coming so we'll know where you will be.
Love Sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, on - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 7:35 AM CDT
I am sitting here laughing about a memory about Brian---
When Katelyn was first born Brian was about to learn how to change her diaper and it was a messy one!!
I asked if he needed help and he replied "I AIN"T AFRAID OF NO POOP!"
That night when Brian went to change another diaper ,Katelyn shot POOP across the room and right on the front of his shirt (maybe Deb can add the picture)
I guess Katelyn was trying to tell him that he should be afraid of POOP!
Well, Brian and Deb didn't know then that they were going to be the "poop inspectors" (it's ok, it's normal with sick children, I think) and have alot more to learn than changing diapers!
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 5:44 AM CDT
Deb and Brian, I'm glad to hear the benefit went so well. And we now have 4 purple flowers. Deb, thanks for visiting Jason's site - I'm not very good at updating, but things have been a little rough lately (he's not having seizures, just constipation but it's wearing). Seems better today - we were at Sick Kids and he got a new g-tube - nice and shiny clean! Seems to be more comfortable so maybe the old one was bugging him. Anyway, off to bed for me!
P.S. Gormley is north of Toronto, almost Aurora, so not in your neck of the woods at all (otherwise I would have been at the dinner for sure!).
Sharon (Jason's Mom) <mag5jas2@rogers.com; http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/jason>
Gormley, ON Canada - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:47 PM CDT
Phil and Jen <philshilson@hotmail.com>
Staples, Ont Canada - Monday, May 2, 2005 8:29 PM CDT
Memory Month!!! Sorry, not prepared today! Just checking in on you guys! What a humungous daffodil! No time to read the other journal entries but I am sure that they will be flooding in! I will let Shannon know that it is memory month! Love Karen
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Monday, May 2, 2005 12:18 AM CDT
First, HAPPY BIRTHDAY KYLE!!! I hope you had a fantabulous day!
Second, My Memory....
Well unfortunately I did not get to meet Katelyn before she got her wings, but what I have learned of her and from her since then is unbelievable! I have gotten the chance to meet her wonderful family and am so glad to have become a part of her through them! Deb and Brian, believe it or not, because it should have been the other way around, you have given and shown us comfort!
You have shown us the true meaning of family and reminded us what precious gifts our children are!
Bonnie, you are a hoot! I look forward to seeing more of you! Grandma Jean, I love you already and I will be calling you soon! Kit and Larry, I have loved visiting with you and getting to know you better! It has been my pleasure to spend time with all of you!
As for sweet Katelyn, Thank you for making your family who they are today and for bringing them in our lives! I so enjoyed working on your calender for your mom and dad and putting a piece of us all to it!
You will continue to be in my thoughts!
Luv, Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
merlin, Ontario - Monday, May 2, 2005 10:47 AM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian, although I didn't know Katelyn personally, Kelly and Kirkie did. I thank God everyday for her and for you because my sister now has you in her life. I know how much you all mean to her and how important your love and support is to her. So thank you for coming into all of our lives. Robin xoxo
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:06 AM CDT
I remember my cousin Katelyn when we finally got together for Christmas ( I think it was the end of January) and I had to teach her to stand up for herself.
The first think I taught her was when you don't want to do something , just shake your head NO, like this!
It didn't take her long to learn, 5 seconds and she had it under control!
I was pushing Katelyn around in her walker and we were laughing and having a good time, I thought I had the best of her since she was in the walker she couldn't get away from me, I stole her soother out of her mouth. WELL sure enough she shook her head NO at me!
I miss you cousin Katelyn!
Makyla
makyla
babyland, ont canada - Monday, May 2, 2005 6:21 AM CDT
I thought I better get writing if we only have May to write memories. We only have 30 days left!
I remember the few times I got to visit Katelyn in Toronto and it always made me feel so sad that she was stuck in the hospital. BUT our little Katelyn always made the best of every situation as long as she could get out and walk the hallways and see the sunshine she was the happiest kid around.
Katelyn was always on the nosey side and had to see what was going on in those hallways, I'm sure it had nothing to do with the way the nurses stuck to her like a magnet and she was treated like a movie star. AND when Katelyn wasn't getting attention she wasn't shy to crack right up with her world famous laugh to get somebody's attention and bring a smile to thier face.
Katelyn could always amaze me with the way she could make the grumpiest people put a smile on their face and she knew that it wouldn't actually crack their face.
That smile was like a ray of sunshine to anyone that came into contact with her
Bonnie
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Monday, May 2, 2005 6:13 AM CDT
Morning Deb & Brian...
I love the idea of memory month and will think of things to share, God knows I probably have a couple stored heehee, Brandon is also excited to share a couple so we will get going in the next couple of days, promise. By the way, Brandon is very excited that you have picked May as memory month for Katelyn....it's Cystic Fibrosis month also and Brandon said to me...see Mom...Katelyn's still with me everyday...even there to suppport me during my CF month...how true I told him through my tears since I didn't get the connection as quickly as him. Our little princess is never far away and knows exactly when to send that little sign to us just to make US feel good.
Katelyn thank you!! Brandon and I know that right now you and Caillin are playing a hand in keeping him healthy for his trip to Disney...you even helped him overcome a cold (hey but did he have to give it away to ME! Thanks girls!!)
Then again, I wouldn't have it any other way!!!
Have a great day everyone.
Muriel <mur28@hotmaill.com>
- Monday, May 2, 2005 6:05 AM CDT
Thinking of ur family everyday... The new pictures are awsome and iam glad the dinner for ur angel went good...
Well take care!!
Nikki <nikkers340@hotmail.com>
MG, Canada - Sunday, May 1, 2005 9:04 PM CDT
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Sunday, May 1, 2005 4:45 PM CDT
hey brian and deb,
had a great time at the fundraiser and the girls had a blast.
think of katelyn everyday.
love you guys
krista, shelby and alyssa
krista crawford <kristaandjim01@hotmail.com>
leamington, on, - Sunday, May 1, 2005 2:14 PM CDT
Good morning everyone. Just a small note to say hello and see what you guys were up to today. It was supposed to rain all weekend, but "someone" must have been looking out for us all as nothing fell! Thanks again for the fabulous time at the dinner on Wednesday to the Laforet/Newman families- next time we need something done we will know who to call to get the job done right!! Big hugs to you all, and thanks for the sunshine little angel! Love always,
Jerry, Joyce, Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
Charing Cross, Ont Canada - Sunday, May 1, 2005 7:41 AM CDT
Morning Sunshine!!!
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 1, 2005 7:27 AM CDT
Happy May 1st Deb and Brian! Little sunshine sent our way compliments of Katelyn I am sure... she heard my little grumble about the grey day we were having yesterday, I guess... she has my appreciation!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Sunday, May 1, 2005 6:51 AM CDT
Nite nite,
Sleep tight.
Don't let the bedbugs bite!
luv Kelly xo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
G-town, On Cda - Saturday, April 30, 2005 11:51 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian, it sounds like the fundraiser was a hit! You look like you have a wonderful family as well. Hopefully I will meet some of them at Kirkie's walkathon! Hope you are both keeping well. Take care. Love Robin
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Saturday, April 30, 2005 6:37 PM CDT
Good afternoon! What a grey Saturday afternoon... and I find myself sitting here looking for something to cheer me up... so why not look at some cute pics of Princess Puffy Cheeks!!! I love that picture of her on the phone! Guess we need this rainy weather for all the future garden growing miracles to transpire... all right! Hope you both are doing well! Snuggle up together and watch a movie today... don't get damp and chilled by working out in the garden too long!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Saturday, April 30, 2005 3:01 PM CDT
Your site is super! Read your back journals and found them so fantastic and interesting ! You have put your words so great! My tissues have been melting! Sounds like your Dad and Caillin have had their open arms waiting to greet Katelyn! The doves, the flowers, what a time she must be having to show you she is still around! Thinking of your family lots.You sound like very caring and wonderful people.
Hugs and prayers to all!
Mary (Campagnaro) Slade <mar-e@rogers.com>
Guelph, Ontario, Canada - Saturday, April 30, 2005 2:11 PM CDT
Morning everyone, Bonnie, you speechless....Deb told me that couldn't happen LOL>>> Guess the saying was right as far as Katelyn is concerned "GREAT THINGS COME IN SMALL PACKAGES!!! Deb, Brian...hope this week is a good one for you and to everyone else, you're all amazing, it's not hard to guess were Katelyn got her magical spirit from..
Have a good one.
Mur <mu28@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, April 30, 2005 9:37 AM CDT
Hi there, just stopped in and wow the webpage looks great, Katelyns story is beautiful Deb.Hope you can get back out in the garden soon, if the rain holds out. I'll stop in again soon. Take care
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
Ruthven, - Saturday, April 30, 2005 8:31 AM CDT
OK, I'll admit it!!!!!
I have been on the webpage and didn't sign in, like I"m the first person to do that!!!
OK, I have been speechless!
I am so overwhelmed with the benefit- the support of so many people can kinda make you all mushy inside.
I am so proud of how Katelyn touched sooo many people in one way or another. There was no outside advertising done for the benefit and to see so many people that were there to support her and her parents was amazing. No matter what, she continues to touch peoples hearts and bring out the best in people.
Nobody even knows how to thank everyone that was a part of the benefit, the list is so long and the support was so great we can't find a beginning or an end to the list.
Thank You to everyone that has helped no matter how big or small, when you put everything together the results are amazing!
We started the benefit as a family (yes, we are all still talking to each other) but now with all the love and support everyone has shown, Katelyn's family has gotten a whole lot bigger. Katelyn has brought a large group of people together to make the most amazing family anyone could ever have. I know she is smiling down on everyone of the people that has been there to support her mommy and daddy.
To everyone that has a big heart and helped in one way or another to support Debbie and Brian, you are very lucky because you now have a very special angel looking over you.
Princess Puffy Cheeks thanks you!
Bonnie
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Saturday, April 30, 2005 7:39 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian...just popping in to say Hi and hope you're well. Looks like Kel is one entry ahead of me...mine won't be as long! LOL Sounds like the fundraiser was awesome!! So glad you have sooo many people that love and support all of you...I hope the whole experience has given you and your family lots of comfort. Hope you have a better sleep tonight, Deb. Take care and God Bless. Lots of hugs, Tracey
tracey johnson <traysea64@hotmail.com>
toronto, on - Friday, April 29, 2005 10:57 PM CDT
Hi Guys,
Just dropping in to say hi. Haven't had much of a break to sit and write these past few days. Kirk's having another one of those episodes where he won't have a BM yet he's not constipated. We've been filling him full of stuff from both ends all day long and until an enema tonight, he wouldn't go. I was really getting panicky. He was too tired to get rid of everything but hopefully tomorrow he'll be stronger and can rid himself of the rest. Here I go 'poo talking' again LOL.
Anyway, hope he sleeps all night. He was awake from 1:30 yesterday morning until 9 pm. tonight. Poor little guy - he never complains but I know he's been having a lot of pain.
I don't think our weekend will be too eventful - no nurse tomorrow and a Mito March meeting on Sunday. There's still so much to organize before the big date.
I haven't even been out to do any gardening yet this year which is unlike me. I'm just going to have to shut this computer off and limit my time on it. The time passes so fast when you're online, don't you find?
So, I hope you have some good plans for the weekend. Brian, you must be tired after your first week back to work!
Deb, I hope you're in bed earlier tonight than last night although I imagine it must often be difficult to fall asleep when you're alone with your thoughts and emotions.
Chat with you soon,
love ya,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Friday, April 29, 2005 10:36 PM CDT
hello Brian & Deb
The fundraiser was wonderful. Your welcome But no need to thank us,WE ARE FAMILY,thats what we do!!
Everyone did a fabulous job & we all worked great together.
I want to say thank you for everyone who helped, in one way or another.And those of you who where there in thought we knew you where there,we could feel the love ,Thanx
Your doing a great job on the website,I have to keep checking to see whats new.
This weekend it's suppose to rain,YUCK.But maybe it will stop long enough to play?? Take care guy's Luv CONN
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, - Friday, April 29, 2005 5:24 PM CDT
Morning Deb and Brian..It was a real pleasure to talk to everyone who came to the fundraiser, selling tickets you get to talk to everyone boy thought I'd have a sore jaw in the morning but guess I talk enough all the time it didn't affect me LOL It is truly amaizing how 2 families can work so well to-gether and have such a good time, again THANK YOU for the privilege of being part of the Fund Raiser,,,SANDRA
Sabdra Beacom <sandr.beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On. Canada - Friday, April 29, 2005 11:24 AM CDT
Dear Deb & Brian,
Haven't checked in for awhile so what a surprise with all the changes on the site. Please keep informing us on your progress. We think of you often.
Love Sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, on - Friday, April 29, 2005 8:20 AM CDT
The web page looks great! I love all the added little touches! And of course her "tooty"(that's what it was called in our house) soother picture is my all time favorite! umm that and blowing kisses and smiling and and and.... lol you get the idea!
You are doing a great job! Both of you! Brian, how was your first week of work? I hope it was managable! WE keep you in our thoughts always...
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Friday, April 29, 2005 7:08 AM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb, the website looks great and your story turned out wonderful. GREAT JOB. As for thanking us, don't bother we are family and that is what a real family does, help each other and love unconditionally. So guess what I guess we love you VERY VERY VERY MUCH and you know you would help any of us in a heartbeat. Besides we are the ones who should be doing the thanking. Thank you Brian and Deb for giving us an opportunity to meet, love cuddle, play with the most precious baby girl we could ever have in our family. You also taught us so many things that we are thankful for. Well I'll talk to you later Kyle is crying for his music now. Again thank you for the memories and pictures, etc...... You are very loved. Alright almost 8 year old is freaking for his rock music. Michelle
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Friday, April 29, 2005 6:35 AM CDT
The Webpage looks great Deb...and there was never any doubt in my mind what a special family you have. Everyone is amazing and you and Brian fit right in....or is that the other way around ??Hehee
I am just proud even saying that I am a friend of Katelyn let along being able to say I know the entire family. You are all special angels.
Have a great Friday!!!! Luv to all.
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Friday, April 29, 2005 6:24 AM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian, The webpage looks wonderful & the pics of Katelyn are great. I was glad the fundraiser was a success. Aren't family & friends the greatest. We have had two walk-a-thons for CDG an it is amazing what everyone ends up doing. You are in my thoughts & prayers daily. Take care
Donna Cullen (mom to Kelsie CDG type unknown)
Donna Cullen <dcullen007@hotmail.com>
Farmington Hills, MI USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 3:36 AM CDT
It's me. Congratulations on the fundraiser...Take care and God bless you. I love the new look of the website...most especially the pictures of Katelyn that were used as borders, I had to squint though just to see them(must be getting old).
Arlene <ang_guro@yahoo.com>
Oakville, Ontario, Canada - Thursday, April 28, 2005 8:40 PM CDT
So happy things went well for your fundraiser and Katelyn's page looks great, I love the little angels
Always in out thoughts and prayers
Pamela, Allan, Emma and Hannah Woods <woodsfamily@nexicom.net>
peterborough, On Canada - Thursday, April 28, 2005 8:00 PM CDT
Oh my, I can't beleive it is a month aready! We sure do have to take every second of loving each other!
Hugs and oodles of prayers!
Love
Mary (Campagnaro) Slade <mar-e@rogers.com>
Guelph, Ontario, Canada - Thursday, April 28, 2005 7:50 PM CDT
So glad that the fundraiser was a success!
Thank you so much for the kind words you have given me....it means so much. Just like you said to me...I have been thinking of you guys everyday and think of Katelynn every time I see purple flowers! She is such a beauty. I bet she is really lighting up heaven's gates right now! Her smile makes me smile!
I will talk to you soon.
~Tabby’s Page~
Karen & Tabby <karenpuddn@comcast.net>
- Thursday, April 28, 2005 6:48 PM CDT
Brian & Deb, glad to hear the dinner was such a huge success. Thinking of you today, as always. Hopefully the feelings of support & love you got last night will help carry you through today.
Kim Harlow <kymberlee67@hotmail.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Thursday, April 28, 2005 2:14 PM CDT
Brian & Debbie:
Wow! The love that emminated from Colassanti's for you two and for Katelyn last nite was just outstanding. To all who helped, donated their time & effort, and donated raffle prizes, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU. It's unfortunate that we can't name every one but the list would be endless. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Katelyn: It's been a month today since you left us and were taken home. We miss you so much: Your smile that lit up a room:Your giggle and your laughter that could make the walls rattle. The funny little faces you would make. The way you looked as you slept, peaceful, content.
We just plain miss you. We love you Sweetpea.
Mom & Dad (Granny & Grandpa) <kitlarry@netrover.com>
Tilbury, - Thursday, April 28, 2005 12:55 AM CDT
Hi Debbie & Brian
My name is Jennifer. Im not sure if u will remember me but i was working with child life at sick kids hospital back in sept to dec. I came to katelyns room often to give u coffee breaks (lol) and with hal and holly "the paws dog". I am so sorry to hear about your loss. 'Princess Puffy Cheeks' will be greatly missed, and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope you are all doing well and i wish you all the best.
Jennifer <jennifercastle84@hotmail.com>
Stouffvillle, On Canada - Thursday, April 28, 2005 11:53 AM CDT
Hello all. Thank you soooo much from all of us (the family) for all your help and support. Those of you who couldn't be there because of location and other important reasons, I want you to know you were there in thought, we all know how much you wanted to be there and understand why you couldn't be so don't feel bad. I'm sure between all of us you could maybe see a picture or two LOL Christine, thank you again for the shirts. I had to wash the boys this morning they were pretty dirty and they washed up great. I didn't put them in the dryer though. Brian and Deb , I know today will be rough for both of you and if you need anything you know where we are. Deb thanks for emailing Kyle he loves getting emails. He couldn't wait to get to school and open his mail from aunt Debbie. I think you made his day telling him you sent it. Again thank you to all the volunteers and helpers last night at the dinner. We couldn't have pulled it off without all of you. Did you see the people? How much love and support can be put into one room. I better go Kyle will be home soon which means my cleaning will have to end. Like I'm getting lots done on the computer LOL Love you all Michelle
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Thursday, April 28, 2005 11:35 AM CDT
The dinner last night was wonderful!!!! Hats off to everyone who set it up, the volunteers and to all the people and companies that donated raffle items. The shirts where a wonderful idea and I know that I would like to buy one if there are anymore available.
Deb and Brian,
It was wonderfull to see you guys there. Sorry we couldn't talk more but there was so many people that wanted to see you. Will call once work slows down....
Love Nichole <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Thursday, April 28, 2005 10:25 AM CDT
The dinner last night was wonderful!!!! Hats off to everyone who set it up, the volunteers and to all the people and companies that donated raffle items. The shirts where a wonderful idea and I know that I would like to buy one if there are anymore available.
Deb and Brian,
It was wonderfull to see you guys there. Sorry we couldn't talk more but there was so many people that wanted to see you. Will call once work slows down....
Love Nichole <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Thursday, April 28, 2005 10:24 AM CDT
Good morning Brian and Deb
Had a wonderful meal last night and it was good to see all the people that Katelyn and you have touched. You have a wonderful family and you can see all the love that they have for the both of you. Take care.
Jeff Shelly Rebecca and Zachary
dewael family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
chatham, on canada - Thursday, April 28, 2005 9:40 AM CDT
heehee, You know I was just thinking that those doves were telling you that they didn't like the horror movie on your main screen! uh okay, maybe I'm just tired!
We had a wonderful time last night! You both have amazing friends and Family! I won't name them for fear to forget any but "You Guys Rock!" Thank you for letting me/us be a part of such a phenominal event!
you are always in my thoughts! And Grandma Jean big hugs to you! I will be calling you soon! {{{HUGS}}
luv Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Thursday, April 28, 2005 8:40 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian... sounds like the evening went well... I look forward to hearing more about it when you update your web page. What is this about Katelyn T-shirts? Another way to spread some of her sunshine around, eh?
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Thursday, April 28, 2005 8:09 AM CDT
Morning, Gee it sounds like the evening went fabulous. Can't wait to hear more but you all must be pooped!! Gotta tell ya...Katelyn T-Shirts...very jealous hehe. Sun is shining today so the little monkey's must be giving everyone big hugs and thanks!!!
Have a great one everyone.
/Mur
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 28, 2005 7:20 AM CDT
It was so very nice to see you both last night at the benefit dinner- which by the way was a great time and the food was so good. There was so much love in the room, it was certainly a reflection of the people who it was held for!! It was nice to see everyone wearing the Katelyn t-shirts and all of the raffle items and the energy level was fabulous!! Katelyn touched all of us, as well as you both, and it was such an honor to be a part of an amazing event-Thanks. Lots of love, and we hope to see you again real soon,
Jerry, Joyce, Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
Charing Cross, Ont Canada - Thursday, April 28, 2005 6:37 AM CDT
Hi there, wow what a turnout for the Pasta Dinner! I just wanted to say thank you for letting me help tonight, I had a great time and your family and friends are amazing. I can see where you two get it from. Take care and it was nice seeing you's tonight.
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
Ruthven, - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 10:11 PM CDT
Hi, Deb & Brian
It was so nice to see how good the turn out was at the pasta dinner, it was awsome. Also was nice seeing you both there. I really beleive that that Dove was there. Your not crazy. We have a few at the neighbours house that stick around. They have been there since my neighbour passed away. I beleive its a sign from up above of loved ones watching over us.
Take Care,
Sue & Brozy <susieq@netrover.com>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 10:02 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brain. I was glad to see the two of use tonight. The event went over well at colasonties. It was well organized. Just the way Deb,was at work. Here I thought I was organized,until I worked at Tilbury. IT was nice to meet your Uncle Murray. Hope that the warm weather comes back so you and brain can work out in the yard again. The we page looks great with all the new pics.
Well take care and keep on smiling. Oh and by the way morning doves will listen to just about anyone. They have no preverance.
collette <csoulliere@5cogeco.ca>
- Wednesday, April 27, 2005 7:23 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian,
That joke is so funny. I love the webpage. You are doing a great job with the pics. The pictures frame of Katelyn is so nice. I don't know how to do all that stuff with Taylers webpage. I hope the fundraiser goes well and you have a great time. I know you will post pictures and info after. I wish I could have been there. I am glad you got a picture of the birds because I think we all would have been worried.
I will go in the walk a thon with you guys. Where do I find the info?
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 27, 2005 3:21 PM CDT
And what is wrong with my jokes Deb! Just because you can't post most of them here! LOL!
Pasta, Pasta, Pasta! Wahoo, I cannot wait, I know tonight will be extremely special! I have a few surprises left you know! I love love love the pictures Deb! Th elittle piece of heaven page, is well I'm speechless..... geez hey!
And for the doves, so was it a coo cooing or was it just coo coo?! just fooling, don't you ever change your crazy butt! Katelyn keep making your mommy smile sweety!
CHristine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 2:03 PM CDT
You are beautiful people. I just had to go to Katelyn's web page one more time - I will be at the pasta fundraiser tonight.
Lorraine Runstedler(Cyndie Burton'smom) <lrunstedler@cogeco.ca>
Kingsville, Ont Canada - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 1:53 PM CDT
Sorry to hear about your daughter. May GOD be with you in these difficult times. I have tried to find Angel Caillin's website...does she have one?
Misty <misty79_98@shighway.com>
MO - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 11:26 AM CDT
WOW!!! WHAT AN INTERESTING MORNING YOU HAD DEB.BUT...I DO HAVE TO TELL YOU "THAT BIRD WAS REALLY TELLING YOU TO GET YOUR LAZY BUTT UP!!HAHA
TODAY IS THE DAY,AND I BELIEVE ITS GOING TO BE A GREAT SUSCESS,BONNIE HAS BEEN WORKING HER BUNS OFF KEEPING US ALL UP TO DATE AND KNOWING WHAT HAS TO BE DONE,YOU DID A WONDERFUL JOB SIS. EVEN THOUGH WE WILL BE DRINKING ALOT OF MILK.
WELL I GOTTA KEEPING DOING THINGS SO I'M ALREADY FOR 2 O'CLOCK WHEN ITS TIME TO CUT THE VEGGIES AND IN CASE YOU DON'T KNOW AUNT MARG & I ARE IN CHARGE OF THE DESERTS,SO GUESS WHO GETS TO EAT THE REJECTS!!!YOU GOT IT "" ME ""(LIKE I NEED IT)OH WELL I'LL WORRY ABOUT IT TOMORROW.
EVERYONE HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY, I WILL
LOVE CONN
P.S. SQUIRT YOU KEEP THOSE DOVES TALKING TO YOUR MOM.WE THINK SHE'S NUTS ANYWAY ,BUT WE LOVE HER JUST THE SAME
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 10:25 AM CDT
Hi DEB & BRIAN: The fabric of your lives are torn. I don't think anything will sew it up again.For those who knew KATLYN and loved her. Her memory will never grow old.
Sincere Condolences, ( Will meet you to-nite at the dinner)
Richard & Irene Dierckens <buddy7@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury , ON. Canada - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 10:13 AM CDT
Morning guys. Love that Katelyn is still giving us signs. The day Scot and I left for Toronto there was a dove sitting on top of the van but when I got the camera I couldn't get a good shot of it and then when we got to Toronto the song was in the store "In My Daughters Eyes" I really held on to Katelyn watching me 'cause I hate flying but took both those signs that I was going to make it. I'll talk to you soon, have to start getting ready for the pasta. Take care Michelle
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 8:58 AM CDT
Good Morning Debbie and Brian, the doves are a sure sign that Katelyn is here! I wish you lots of success with your pasta dinner tonight. Have a wonderful time! Take care. Love Robin xo
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 8:54 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian,
That's such a sweet story, Deb. I have no doubt either that there was something special about that little dove. Keep listening to your intuition and you'll have lots more visits from Katelyn.
Katelyn's page is looking great. That Jody never stops! We have a similar border for Kirk. I'll put it on today.
I'm looking forward to hearing all about the pasta dinner.
Sounds like it will be the social event of the year! I really hope you enjoy yourselves. So many people will be there who you haven't been able to keep in touch with due to living in hospitals. I'm getting all emotional just thinking about it.
What a wonderful way to pay tribute to your little family and keep Katelyn's legacy alive. Have fun! Wish I could be there. I'd hoped to bring Kirk down but had to get realistic. I guess you'll have to settle for a visit from little ol' me in a couple of weeks.
I'll wait to hear about your 'soiree'.
Give everyone down there our love,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 8:14 AM CDT
Good Morning Deb and Brian... boy you had that dove's interest!!! No craziness there! So what was Katelyn doing with all that snow! I was in Kitchener on the weekend and early this week and first thing I thought Sunday morning... what are you up to Katelyn?!... making sno-cones???? Hope the garden didn't mind. Have a grand time tonight. I will be with you all in spirit and when my stomach growls around supper time, I will think of all that pasta! Love Karen
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 6:37 AM CDT
Morning everyone,
First Deb...why would anyone think you're nuts???Gee I wouldn't go that far girl because if they do they'll be coming for me next!!!!! Leave it to Katelyn to take care of us...
Hope the Pasta Dinner goes great....we are there with you in our hearts.
Luv to everyone!
/Mur
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 27, 2005 6:10 AM CDT
Love all the new pictures of Katelyn. Beautiful Job....Hope to see alot of you guys tonight at the pasta dinner...
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 4:50 AM CDT
hey tub&deb, haven't checked in in a while but we are planning to attend the dinner. hope to see you there.
whale and family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
- Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:57 PM CDT
hello all, hope you guys are staying strong. i really miss you guys. oh just to let you know that i will not be working at sick kids part-time anymore starting in may. i will be a casual and not working all weekends.
wanted also to say hi to Brandon and Mom and also to Toby, I hope that you are doing well.
lots of love to all.
Anna Rosati (PSA) <rosatianna@sympatico.ca>
Toronto, ON - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:30 PM CDT
Hi Debbie,
I'm so sorry for the loss of you daughter. Charlene Pare just called me and told me about the bad news. I remember when you brought Katelyn into KFC, she was so cute and adorable. I hope that things start to look up for you, even though it may seem dark and lonely.
I send lots of love,
yours truely,
Samanatha Crow
Samantha Crow <street_racer_chic@hotmail.com>
Tilbury , Ont Canada - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 2:48 PM CDT
Hi I just wanted to sign in and say i hope you are doing well.I was looking at pictures of Katlyn and she is such a little doll in every picture doesnt matter how sick, she is ALWAYS smiling..She is such a cute girl. I think the May Memory month would be awsome cus i never Knew Katlyn but to hear more about her life would be great.. Well i hope you and youre family are doing good....
Take care and GOD BLESS!! :o)
Nikki <nikkers340@hotmail.com>
MG, Canada - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 2:39 PM CDT
I just ran acrossed our website through another. I am so sorry to read about your loss of Katelyn and Grandpa. I am glad she had someone special to greet her. What a long journey for you all filled with Happiness and sadness. She was a very special little girls with special parents. God Bless you both.
www.caringbridge.org/oh/oliviagood
Sheryl <johnston_sheryl@mail.dublin.k12.oh.us>
- Tuesday, April 26, 2005 2:13 PM CDT
hmm, yeah, couldn't June be Brian and Deb month.... Rob may have some high school stories! Hope your week goes well! you know I'll be here! lol!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:27 AM CDT
Hello Brandon
It's nice to see you have signed in,wow 3 weeks how excited you must be.I want to see pictures so take lots.
We ,Deb& Brian where talking about you last night,and then you signed in ,must have heard us ?? lol
have a good week luv conn
CONNIE <C.BEACOM@SYPATICO.CA>
LEAMINGTON, - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:01 AM CDT
Hi Bonnie and All;
I had a bit of a chuckle when I thought you were writing to me that you hoped I wasn't missing Brian too much!, Not that I'm not missing you, Brian. LOL
As a matter of fact, Kirkland was just mentioning the other day how he's been missing the good ol' days when Brian would chase him off his property but the ol' boy could never catch him!
Have a good day,
luv Kelly and Kirk xo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 7:55 AM CDT
Het you guys just wanted to see how things are going and for me things are good yay only 3 weeks til disneyworld
so you people stay strong and i hope for the best bye!!!
Brandon <brandobg_23@hotmail.com>
Toronto, ON canada - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 6:50 AM CDT
Good Morning all! Just wanted to sign in I wouldn't want to be on ANYONE'S bad side LOL. Thinking of you always. Michelle
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 6:22 AM CDT
Good Morning!
I think that is a wonderful idea to have May as a memory month.
We all have such beautiful memories of Katelyn and it will be great to know how she has touched everyone's life. Of course if you were ever out in public with her, you know how easy it was for her to wrap herself around your finger and melt your heart, especially strangers.
There is a saying "SMILE IT'S CONTAGIOUS", I think she wrote the book!
Hey Kelly- we will have to have a contest to see who can write the most in May!
Hope you aren't missing Brian to much!!!
Hopefully you can get outside to work in the yard soon. I can hardly wait to see the memorial garden when it's done.
It sure would have been easier if you had a wheelbarrel that tilts!
Love Bonnie
aunt Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 6:21 AM CDT
Morning,
Hope this week goes well for both of you as difficult as it must seem. Just when I think you can't do anything more to surprize us you think of one more thing. I should know better by now. Deb, I'm sure there's lots that Brandon and I can share about our little princess. Matter fact I'm sure there's lots we can share about you and Brian....now that would be interesting. LOL.
To everyone else who faithly reads the guestbook, have a great day and DON'T FORGET TO SIGN IN!! You don't want any backlash from you know who!!!
luv/ Mur
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 26, 2005 5:53 AM CDT
Just stopping in to say good morning. Hope the snow is all done and your Dad and the girls will bring us more sun. I am looking forward to coming out to the house and seeing your gardens for Katelyn.
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 4:16 AM CDT
Hi there, well again I am reading your journal entry with tears streaming down my face. Your daughter was such a lucky little girl to have such wonderful parents as you's. I hope your time home with Brian at work Deb gets easier for you's, I pray that it will get easier for you each and every day. Your daughter is someone I know I will not forget.
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
Ruthven, - Monday, April 25, 2005 11:13 PM CDT
I learned of beautiful Katelyn through Emerald's guestbook. I wanted to offer my condolensces for your loss and tell you that Katelyn was a very beautiful little girl with a gorgeous smile. God bless you all.....
Missy Strand <strandfamily@verizon.net>
LaPorte, IN - Monday, April 25, 2005 9:40 PM CDT
HELLO EVERYONE
THE REASON I DIDN'T SIGN IN BECAUSE AFTER READING THE GUESTBOOK AND CHATTING TO BONNIE I DECIDED TO HOOK UP MY SCANNER-PRINTER.WHILE LOOKING FOR THE USB PLUB I HIT SOMETHING???AND MY SCREEN WENT BLANK(LIKE ME) SO.... IS THAT'S A GOOD EXCUSE OR WHAT???
HOPE ALL THE SNOW DIDNT RUIN EVERYONES FLOWERS BUT WE CAN LOOK FORWARD TO NEW PURPLE FLOWERS SO EVERYONE WILL HAVE NEW STORIES TO TELL.I MYSELF AM PLANTING MIXED ZINNIAS(THEY LOOK LIKE DAISIY'S)THE MEANING IS---THINKING(OR IN MEMORY)OF AN ABSENT FRIEND--THAT WOULD BE OUR SQUIRT FORSURE.
HAVE A GOOD WEEK AND THE PASTA DINNER IS COMING SOON SO IF I DONT WRITE I WILL HAVE A HONEST TO GOODNESS EXCUSE
BYE AND WE WILL LET EVERYONE KNOW HOW IT WENT . LUV CONN
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, - Monday, April 25, 2005 6:18 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian, I love the stories of all these purple flowers popping up all over the place,amazing isn't it!! Great job Katelyn!! Makes me want to go out and plant some of my own. God Bless you!
Lisa Aguiar <paguiar@sympatico.ca>
Kingsville, - Monday, April 25, 2005 5:02 PM CDT
Dear Deb and Brian,
Only you two have the right frame of mind to mix humour into Katelyn's memorial page! How blessed we all are to share in your spirit. Please don't ever change! I know there will come a time in my life when I will depend upon and need your strength even more than I already do.
I love you both,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Cda - Monday, April 25, 2005 4:08 PM CDT
LOVE BRENDA
Edmonton,Alberta CANADA, - Monday, April 25, 2005 3:15 PM CDT
Hello just signing in to say i hope you are doing well!! And you are in my thoughts and prayers..
well stay strong the both of you!!!
And Katlyn thanks for the sun!! hehe.
GOD BLESS!!
nikki <nikkers340@hotmail.com>
MG, Canada - Monday, April 25, 2005 12:00 AM CDT
Hi Brian & Deb. No one could ever forget Katelyn. She was truly a gift from heaven. She inspires us all to be better people & to never take ANYTHING for granted. Personally, I find that she & Kirkland have changed my outlook on life. Their strength & bravery astounds me! Hoping this week isn't too hard on you. Stay strong.
Kim Harlow <kymberlee67@hotmail.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Monday, April 25, 2005 11:11 AM CDT
Good Morning!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Monday, April 25, 2005 8:31 AM CDT
Morning Deb,
Pasta dinner is fast approaching...can't wait to hear all about it and no doubt there will be lots of pictures!!! Hope you have an emotionally relaxing day...we all know the physical side is the easy one to cope with during hard days. Talk to you soon....I too miss our chats.
/Mur
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Monday, April 25, 2005 5:49 AM CDT
Hi,
Getting ready to go to bed and wanted to check in on you to make sure all is well. What a busy weekend we had here!
Friday night my sister Tracey came up for the weekend. Saturday my mother-in-law, brother-in-law-Keith, Tracey, and I finished posting Kirk's flyers around town in the pouring rain. I'm telling you- you can't escape his cute little face anywhere. Every place you go is his ad. We were pretty beat but still managed to celebrate Gerry's birthday last night with Chinese food and cake.
Today Tracey and I went to visit my mom and then I drove Tracey home. She lives downtown Toronto. Then I came home and went to bed til 8pm.
I'm looking forward to this week of no appointments or must-do's. My house is a disaster and I don't think I've made a proper meal in weeks so I better get back on track around here.
How are you two doing? I hope you're starting to establish a new kind of routine around there. It must feel very strange to be at home for a long period of time after all that hospital life for the past year and a half eh?
I had a long visit with Katelyn in your photos. I still don't think it's really hit me yet. It's almost unreal that she's gone and it feels like such a long time ago that she passed. I pray that your pain is easing as each day passes. You're both such positive people that it's hard to read through your words to see if you're managing. I imagine you have your moments .
Please call me if you need anything.
I'll send the fundraiser forms tomorrow cause my pillow's calling me again.
Katelyn, please guide us and watch over us always. We all miss you, Princess. xo
love you guys,
Kelly and Kirkland xoxoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Sunday, April 24, 2005 11:39 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian, just checking in and hoping you are both well. May God watch over you both. Take care. Love Robin xo
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Sunday, April 24, 2005 7:25 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian. I thought of you guys today and decided to log in and see if all is well with everyone. We went to a 25th anniversary party last night, of a couple who lost a child to cancer a few years back. He was 7. I am telling you this to let you know that time does heal and life does go on and you can make it through this rough time in your lives and come out better people. This couple is a proven example of this.
Everyone on here keeps talking about the pasta eating thats going to be taking place on Wed. night. Sure wish we could be there. We have bought tickets of coarse, but we both work late Wed. nights so will be unable to attend. Unfortunelty because we all know Colasantis' pasta is the best! Hope everyone has a great time. Take care all.
Ruth Wall <brzwall@gosfieldtel.com>
Cottam, - Sunday, April 24, 2005 7:08 PM CDT
May you feel God's blessing in your life every day.
Helen <hgbergen@sympatico.ca>
Kingsville, Ont Canada - Sunday, April 24, 2005 6:32 PM CDT
Have been very touched by all I have read about you and your darling daughter. sending you love and warm wishes from london UK.
(Dylan and Shannon the two Irish children with CDG are my great niece and nephew)
Elizabeth McCann <elimccann2@hotmail.com>
London, UK - Sunday, April 24, 2005 5:57 PM CDT
Your page is just beautiful!! What an amazing tribute to your angel.
God Bless You!!
www.caringbridge.org/tn/nate
Ashlie and Nate <luvourkids2002@yahoo.com>
Columbia, Tn - Sunday, April 24, 2005 3:38 PM CDT
Bonnie, you have got to try and sleep in woman! And I for one am looking forward to all that pasta, cause you know, Deb, uh um, I'm not shopping for new clothes either ;0)
Hope you are having a cozy warm weekend! And girls, someone has to do it, Please Stop throwing ice cream, eat it, play in it, but please send the sun back!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, On - Sunday, April 24, 2005 9:45 AM CDT
Morning,
Just opened the pictures that were sent and it has made my day to have our little angel smiling at me. On going joke in my household is that I better start taking pictures of my family soon or it'll only be Katelyn on Brandon's walls...OK some in the living room, family room but whatever makes you feel good right!!! I'm sure the pasta dinner is going to be huge fun and a great success, can't wait to hear all about it. We'll be there in our hearts..so Deb if you get a sharp pain during the evening it's your pain in the ass Sick Kids partner lol.
Love to everyone
/Mur
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, April 24, 2005 8:25 AM CDT
Hey Christine
Don't you think you should be working on our shirts instead of playing on the computer!!!
At least you signed in, so you are off the hook.
I hope everyone out there is ready to eat pasta! We have pasta noodles coming out of our ___! See you Wednesday!
So Deb and Brian, what is the meaning of the snow?
The only thing I could figure out is that they are flinging ice cream at us???
That's your DAUGHTER!
Bonnie
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont Canada - Sunday, April 24, 2005 6:49 AM CDT
Just found your site, linked thru someone elses of course...
I just wanted to say PLEASE KEEP THE SITE UP. I for one would love to read all about you, and your beautiful daughter, and all of your history.
God Bless
Suzy
Rebeccas fight with ALL-T
Rebeccas laughing cousin Tanner ( my awesome heart boy!!!)
Suzy <tanlaughs1@aol.com>
- Sunday, April 24, 2005 6:01 AM CDT
Good morning,
I am guessing that Katelyn thought that you guys were working to hard outside and needed a break. From the looks of it, the girls want to make a snowman....
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Sunday, April 24, 2005 4:11 AM CDT
What a beautiful girl........from now on, whenever I see purple flowers I will think about your daughter. What a joy she must've been. I love the pictures of her with the dogs! How cute!
~Tabby’s Page~
Tabby & Mom <karen_wst@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, April 23, 2005 8:56 PM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian
I had to say hello and let you know that a day has not gone by that I do not think of your family. I've been touched ever since your sister's came into the store to have pictures done and shared with me, the touching story of your beautiful daughter. I planted the tree in memory of Katelyn. (Had to bring it in from outside this weekend - SNOW??, where did that come from?)
Just wanted to says thanks.....for touching my heart with Katelyn's story.
Angela Myers
Chatham, Ont Canada - Saturday, April 23, 2005 8:46 PM CDT
Hey Deb and Brian,
Just checking in. It's been a while since I last checked in due to work. Keeping busy and trying to stay out of trouble!! Purple has always been my favorite coulour. I think Katelyn was saying hello to me on the way to work the other day. I saw 5 purple cars on the Don Valley. Most of the makes of these cars don't come in purple!! It was something alright. I'm going to see Angela tommorrow. I will say Hello.
Take Care.
Tiff
Tiffany Wilson <nursetuffy@rogers.com>
- Saturday, April 23, 2005 5:10 PM CDT
hey its nikki from MG and i just read ur new journal iam sure noone could EVER forget that little girl i mean i dont even know you or did i know her but i have been reading about ur angel and i know i wont ever forget her i think about youre family and her everyday! And its kinda cute my little boy i showed pics of katlyn to him and everytime i think of her or how you are doing i ask my son where is katlyn and he says up in da sky momma hehe anyways I hope you are doing good today!!! And about the whole forgetting thing I dont think you have nething to worry about:o)
well take care....
Nikki <nikkers340@hotmail.com>
MG, Canada - Saturday, April 23, 2005 4:32 PM CDT
Hello Deb and Brian: Just read the page and I have to tell you both that I cannot ever imagining forgetting that sweet beautiful daughter of yours. She was and still is very much in our hearts and lives as you both are. Everytime anyone sees either of you we would remember Katelyn because she had a little of both of you in her so you see if you stay visible so will she. I think the girls and you dad should stop with the snow though its a little much this time of year lol. You two take care and I'll write soon. Love Aunt Frankie and Wayne
Frankie Crawford <waygir@yahoo.ca>
- Saturday, April 23, 2005 12:51 AM CDT
Just taking a break from Ironing! ;0) LOL! Looks like maybe Brian gets a day off from gardening!
Umm... Girl's a little less snow please! maybe?!
Hope you's got some sleep last night..we got to sleep in with no surprises, which is always nice!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Saturday, April 23, 2005 11:50 AM CDT
HA HA HA Forget Katelyn! Not on your life honey!
We will never forget THE SQUIRT and if other people do forget we will always be there to remind them.
Not only that, she will always be sending us signs so we don't forget (you know how persistent she is)
We will always love that special little girl and she will always be a part of us now and forever.
As long as there are stars in the sky,purple flowers blooming, kids with fat cheeks, wind or rain or sunshine we are NOT going to ever forget the happiness she brought us.
Aunt Bonnie
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, Ont Canada - Saturday, April 23, 2005 10:39 AM CDT
Hi Auntie Deb & Uncle Brian this is Nicole & Hunter
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Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
Charing Cross, Ont Canada - Saturday, April 23, 2005 10:04 AM CDT
Hello there Deb & Brian, just a small note to say hello and see how you were doing. We know that you may not be at the fundraiser, but we want you to know that we will be thinking about you, and please know that we love you,
Jerry, Joyce, Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
Charing Cross, Ont Canada - Saturday, April 23, 2005 10:01 AM CDT
Morning everyone,
Just finish reading your update Deb...do you ever sleep? Gotta tell you my stomach is sore from laughing over your stress picture...thanks..and the thought of you sharing stories & jokes scares me a little....Give my 2nd hubby a big hug and kiss for me and have a great day.
luv ya.
M
Muriel <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, April 23, 2005 7:14 AM CDT
Good morning
Was not expecting to hear the song when i logged on and Jeff had the volume turned up. It is such a nice touch to the site, I love that song it always brings tears to my eyes. Hopefully we will make it to the spagetti dinner it sounds like it is going to go well. Well bye for now. Take care and remember that we are always thinking of the two of you.
Shelly
dewael family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
chatham, ont canada - Saturday, April 23, 2005 7:02 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian I was just checking the website out I have not been on it for a few days. What a beautiful poem from your little princess , it made me cry. I hope you both are doing well. You are always in our thoughts and prayers and don't worry Katelyn will never be forgotten from everything I have read she touch so many people. Take care Donna Cullen (mom to Kelsie CDG type unknown)
Donna Cullen <dcullen007@hotmail.com>
Farmington Hills, MI USA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 2:14 AM CDT
Late night check in from Karen here in Bowmanville... hope you guys are fast asleep by now and find this quick message early in the morning. This rain will do the garden some good. Katelyn is at it again with the sprinkler system, eh?
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, OM - Friday, April 22, 2005 10:30 PM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian, just checking in. Hope you guys are doing okay.
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
Ruthven, - Friday, April 22, 2005 10:26 PM CDT
hey i havent signed for awhile so i thought i would just to let you know iam thinking about you and ur family the new poem from katlyn is awsome and the song is very nice.. Anyways you dont know me so iam not going to write to much just wanted to say you are always in my thoughts... I was thinking today it was raining and i thought wow those kids in heaven must be taking a break from running around and playing... but hey iam sure they will start back up tomorrow hehe! neways take care!!!
& GOD BLESS!
Nikki <nikkers340@hotmail.com>
MG, Canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 7:17 PM CDT
Well, I can hardly belive it but we have THREE purple irises. We have never had any, and we have been here since 1996. Katelyn, you sweet, beautiful Angel, thank you for visiting us.
Deb and Brian, you are an inspiration to me to stay strong. God bless you.
Sharon (Jason's Mom) <mag5jas2@rogers.com; http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/jason>
Gormley, Ontario Canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 6:52 PM CDT
I was on Kirkland's site as always and thought I would visit, my heartfelt thoughts are with you.
dawn giles <kdgiles@sympatico.ca>
georgetown, on canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 1:21 PM CDT
Hey you's LOL
I haven't visited the site in a few days, I've actually been WORKING (yuk) and there's so much to read to get caught up! To my amazement I discovered a single light purple crocus yesterday right in the middle of the grass here at the office! Those girls :)
Hope everyone is doing well and thinking about you's all! (I love saying that now!)
BTW Deb, you (no 's) shouldn't get rid of those birthday pics you posted for Toby, your day's coming up! LOL
Love to all!
Kathie Smith (Caillin's Aunt Dusty) <momma_dusty@hotmail.com>
Port Hope(less), ON - Friday, April 22, 2005 11:41 AM CDT
HI Brian and Deb
Just wanted to check in and let you know that we are all still thinking of you. Brian your mom and dad have been great about letting us know how things are going. Hope you are doing well. We think about you all the time.
Sara Tulloch (nee Blain) and family <campfire_steve@sympatico.ca>
Comber, Ont - Friday, April 22, 2005 11:31 AM CDT
Thinking of you......
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, On - Friday, April 22, 2005 9:42 AM CDT
Hi Brian & Deb. Happy Friday! Hope you are both well & getting out into the sunshine. What a great day to work on your garden. A bit chilly, but nothing a good sweat won't take care of ;-) Thinking of you today, as always.
Kim Harlow <kim_harlow@gillette.com>
Georgetown, ON Canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 8:59 AM CDT
Hello, Hello!
Thanks for checking in religiously. I've been neglecting you although I did write to Connie yesterday. I'm so excited that news of the Mito March has spread all the way to Leamington. I'll be sending you stuff today.
I hope it all works out and you are able to make it. I think we'll probably be having a pretty big get-together bbq at our place afterwards. It's like having a wedding- so many people will be around. Can't wait to see everyone.
I'll try and get the motel in town to reduce its rates for our event members. I'll let you know.
I must tell you how Katelyn cheered me up yesterday. I was moping around a bit partly out of exhaustion. I still haven't planted her trees because I haven't cleaned up the winter kill in the garden yet.
Anyway, I walked by and picked up the trees and added a bit of water and noticed new growth on each one. I was so touched that physical life here on earth is continuing in Katelyn's place. That kiddo's presence will be visible at our house forever now! Those trees will always be such a special remembrance of Katelyn.
Jody has two trees ready to plant too but they're waiting for her dad's girlfriend, Zuly to arrive from Peru next week. She's so honoured because she's going to plant them in Katelyn's memory. Jody will no doubt have a whole photo display to send you. I'm going to drive over to her place when they have their 'tree planting ceremony'.
Anyway, the P.T. will be here soon and the boys have a dentist appt. this a.m. Better run,
love you,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 8:44 AM CDT
Morning Guys,
Well at the moment it is a nice sunny day so I'm going to just stay home and enjoy it! No work just play..need a day of it away from Sick Kids. Might even do a little gardening although to date have done nothing...don't know where to start since my mind wanders and I end up just sitting there thinking about you guys and Katelyn and so wishing I was closer to give & get a hug. Glad to hear you are going to the Mito fundraiser...will be thinking of you guys. We're doing a walk at the Toronto Zoo for C.F. on the same day, so I'll think of all of you during my walk and we call all share the strenght via strong thoughts. Take care and love to everyone. XOXO
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Friday, April 22, 2005 7:48 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian
Had to let you know that I have checked in here quite a bit over the last few weeks but I am one of those that hasn't signed in. I think of you every day and what you are going through. I'm sure there are bad days and somewhat better days but I know you have always been a strong person and that your faith and having each other to lean on will help you through. I love the new website additions too.
kelli verbeek <curtainsk@excite.com>
maidstone, on ca - Thursday, April 21, 2005 10:32 PM CDT
Thanks for all the purple flowers Squirt. I will never look at a purple the same way again!
Aunt Bonnie
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Thursday, April 21, 2005 4:51 PM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian, Saw your entry to Kelly. Deb - what comforting words. You have a beautiful heart.
Kim Harlow <kymberlee67@hotmail.com>
Georgetown, ON Canada - Thursday, April 21, 2005 2:32 PM CDT
Wow did it cool down quick yesterday! Thank goodness for the sun today! Hope you's are having an okay day!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, Ontario - Thursday, April 21, 2005 1:06 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian! Just Karen checking in. Did you take a break from the garden during the rain yesterday? Hope you did as the sun is out at it again today! Can hardly wait till you post some shots of the garden on this web site. I will keep checking on you both... not quite as often as I think of you though!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Thursday, April 21, 2005 12:32 AM CDT
Hi!
Just dropping in to check and see how you all are doing. I bet the garden is gonna look really beautiful! :)
~Joanne’s Corner~
With love,
Joanne and the Dream Team
~Bridge of Dreams ~
Joanne <joanne173@gmail.com>
- Thursday, April 21, 2005 9:54 AM CDT
Shannon & Miss Samantha Therese <humphity@gmail.com>
Always Remembering *Katelyn* - Thursday, April 21, 2005 8:57 AM CDT
Morning Deb & Brian, I'm bad, haven't signed in lately and worse is the fact that I'm still checking the web page but didn't sign in...Connie's gonna come after me (Connie I love getting your emails....will reply soon, just have so much to say to all of you...seems it all hits in waves)Heehee. Deb,Brian, I loved talking with you last Friday, I miss you so much at our second home (Sick Kids). At least I'm just an employee at the moment and not a Mom but still, I keep walking to Timmy's and still expect to see you and Katelyn. I thought it would get easier day by day but it hasn't. I can't imagine how you two must feel if my heart hurts this much. I'd do anything to steer her into a pole, (Hey Deb, you weren't impressed with my driving skills but boy did Katelyn love it). Sorry for not signing in...will try not to do it again. Sending you all big hugs & kisses and we all miss Katelyn soooo much. I love you guys. xoxo.
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 21, 2005 6:49 AM CDT
Hi guys, just checking in and wanted to say hi. The song came on as soon as I clicked on the website, one of these days I will be able to get off Katelyn's website without tears coming to my eyes. Beautiful job Deb & Brian. Can't wait to see pics of your garden. Take care and hope you's are doing okay.
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
Ruthven, - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 10:18 PM CDT
GOOD EVENING GUYS
IT'S GOING TO RAIN TOMORROW , WHAT WILL YOU DO IF YOU CAN'T GET OUTSIDE.MAYBE A BLIZZARD RUN TO DQ???MUMMMM SOUNDS GOOD DOESNT IT,HINT HINT
HOPE ALL IS WELL WITH SO MUCH GARDENING TO BE DONE,A BODY GETS PRETTY SORE.DON'T OVER DO IT OR IS IT TO LATE ??
BYE FOR NOW BUT NOT FOREVER LUV CONN
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:35 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian...
Hope your doing well. Sounds like your keeping busy. The gardening is a great idea. I dont have a lawn, in an upper apt, or Id be out there too. Course I could help mom ;) but that would be too much like work!
Sending hugs and prayers
Angela, Alyssa, and Angel ^i^ Jacob <angela.trick@gmail.com>
Peterborough, Ontario, - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 8:23 PM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb,
What a perfect song for your site. My daughter made me listen to the words of that song about a year ago and it has been my favourite ever since. Just wanted to check in and see how you guys are doing.
Cheryl White <tcwhite@xplornet.com>
Amherstburg, Ont - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 6:50 PM CDT
What a beautiful song. It really says it all. I fell you Deb for the 5KM. I don't know if I could do it. Sounds like a great cause to be involved with. Take care.
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 20, 2005 6:05 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian...just checking in and hoping you're having a peaceful day. Your memorials for 'Tootsie Grandpa' and Caillin are very beautiful...Katelyn's very lucky to have such special buddies with her in heaven. Although you miss her in such a huge way (that I can't even imagine), I hope knowing she's with them gives you some comfort. It looks like your dad had quite a wonderful outlook about life too!! Take care. Hugs from Tracey
tracey johnson <traysea64@hotmail.com>
toronto, on - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 4:01 PM CDT
Hello Debbie and Brian.
Just wanted to see how things are going.
Bye for now
Stacey Counsell
Stacey Counsell <StaceyCounsell@hotmail.com>
Leamington, On Canada - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:53 AM CDT
Hi Brian & Deb. Sounds like the garden is coming along quite nicely - can't wait to see the photos. I have purple flowers coming up EVERYWHERE! You go Katelyn! I saw that you were coming to Georgetown for Kirkie's walk - I look forward to meeting you both. Hope all is well and you're taking a breather since the weather's not as nice as yesterday. Take care.
Kim Harlow <kymberlee67@hotmail.com>
Georgetown, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:40 AM CDT
Morning Brian & Deb:
What you've done in the garden so far looks fantastic and I'm sure will continue to do so. To use Deb's venacular, "You go guys". Also the memorial for Caillin is gorgeous. The two girls are definitely the sweetest and prettiest young ladies. I'm proud to be Katelyn's Granny and Caillin's surogate Granny. I love them both so much and my arms long to hold Kate again.
Love always
Mom XXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOO
P.S. Just so you know, Dad and I couldn't get the song to come thru or couldn't find a box to click on.
Kit <kitlarry@netrover.com>
Tilbury, Ont - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 8:21 AM CDT
Good Morning Laforet's! Well hopefully this overcast day will give your bodies a break?! hee hee! Although Deb, I love that while the other's are digging you are on the 4 wheeler! but I'm sure you've done your fair share ;0)
I'm thinking your Dad and the girls are playing in the Sprinkler today... What do you think?
Take Care, Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, On - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 8:01 AM CDT
Love the song!!! It came on as soon as I clicked on Katelyn's webpage. Just wanted to stop in and say good morning.
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 5:02 AM CDT
I stumbled upon this website one late night studying for exams. This website shows just how many peoples lives a young girl can touch. She is truley loved by her family, friends, and others who like me, stumbled across this website.
Your words are a beautiful testiment to your daughter, and I am so sorry for your loss, but marvel at your strength. I can only hope to be so strong when such sorrow surrounds someone.
You are truely an inspiration, your daughers pictures, and this website will stick with me for quite sometime.
Alia
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 1:40 AM CDT
Hi there,
Just checkin'in to make sure all is well. Life's busy but rewarding right now. Today I went down to my school to visit friends and drop off pledge forms. I miss everyone a lot and haven't visited since Nov 04 so it was really good to see everyone. I've taught with some of the staff since 1991 so we've developped some pretty close friendships.
Then I was off to Trillium Health Ctr to visit our neuro and his nurse plus the nurses on the Paeds floor. I wanted to drop off flyers and pledge forms there too. It was good to see everyone. They're all like family to us just like Sick Kids.
Tonight, Gerry's uncle and cousin were in town from N.B. so they visited with Kirk. Another uncle came too which was really thoughtful of them while here on business.
What have you been up to besides the gardening? That's actually one thing I haven't done yet but my yard is in great need of it.
Tomorrow we're off to Sick Kids for clinic. I can't wait for it to be done and over with. I just hate going down especially with Kirk not breathing very well. He'll be de-satting a lot in his seating system. It's pretty stressful and then you have to fight the traffic too - yuck!
Anyway, we need to check in with Metabolics so no choice really. If I'm there early enough, I'll try to find Muriel although I'm not exactly sure where she is -NICU?
Don't know whether we'll venture up to the 7th floor - I'm still a little leary of the bug.
Well I'd better get to sleep- long day tomorrow. Nancy's here tonight so it's a novelty to go to bed before midnight.
I'm always thinking of you two. Is Brian back at work? If so, I imagine you're having some pretty lonely moments. I'll call you Thursday for a gab!
Miss "you's".
love always- Kelly and Kirkie xoxoxoxoxo Kirkie sends love to all his in-laws!
P.S. I've discovered through all 'you's' writing me from down there that you have a dialect all of your own. Did you know that? You probably don't even notice it but everyone says, "you's". It's kinda like Davonne's "y'all".
I get a kick out of it! bye
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Ccanada - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 10:15 PM CDT
Hi guys - I just love the purple flowers. Jason, who is cortically blind, can only see on occaision, but when he does see, it's his purple bunny. Purple has become my favorite color! Sending you lots of love and hugs. I think of you guys every day. Take care
Sharon (Jason's Mom) <mag5jas2@rogers.com; http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/jason>
Gormley, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 8:46 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian, just checking to see that all is going well by the sounds of it she has the whip going on you Brian hope you get those trees out and then have the energy to dig a hole to re-plant them. ...SANDRA
Sandra Beacom <sandr.beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington , On Canada - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 8:35 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian...just to let you know you're in my thoughts. Brian, your eulogy for Katelyn was so beautiful and touching...Katelyn is so blessed to have you both for her parents...the love you have for her is so special, as evident in all that you did for her and in the way that you share her life (and yours') with us . I love hearing about all her little purple flower "hello's"...such a little darling. Take good care. Hugs from Tracey
tracey johnson <traysea64@hotmail.com>
toronto, on - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 6:57 PM CDT
HELLO BRIAN & DEB
HOPE YOU'S ENJOYED THIS BEAUTIFUL DAY AND GOTS OF GARDENING DONE.I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE WHAT YOU'VE DONE SO FAR.
LUV CONN
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 6:48 PM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb,
Just writing in to say hi. So, HI :)
Anna Rosati (PSA) <rosatianna@sympatico.ca>
Toronto, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 6:41 PM CDT
God bless you
D. Bickerstaff Thistle Masonic Lodge 34 <dbickerstaff@cogeco.ca>
Windsor, ont Canada - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 6:21 PM CDT
Good Tuesday afternoon! Brian I hope you aren't too sore from digging!
Thinking about you!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 12:33 AM CDT
HI BRIAN & DEB, JUST WANT TO SAY HI.
Steve Z <stevez@rezmin.com>
Tilbury, - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 10:31 AM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian, hoping you are both well and enjoying this beautiful weather. Take Care. Robin xo
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 9:30 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brain.
Words don't come easy to me,but I think about use all the time. I have lost many love ones around me in the last few years. And I can't say what you are going threw cause I've never been bless with a child. Yet to loose one. But as each day goes by you just charish each and every one of them. You struggle to get back on track and that is o.ok. If you choose to feel sad and want to cry go ahead,you will feel better,and keep asking Katelyn for the streght to go on.
I know last year when i was strugling at the store,I would come home to read what you and Brain are going threw and I look back at the day and just kept saying tommorrow will be a better day,and even if it wasn't. I got to have another day to enjoy the weather to be able to come to the web page or go to Tim Hortons in Essex to meet up with my old line dance friends. On a brighter note tell Brain I know that ding the rose of sharron trees are #@??? job to do cause I did it a my mothers place when she moved in so she could do some time of land scaping.
Well take care and the best to the two of use.
collette Soulliere <csoulliere@5cogeco.ca>
- Tuesday, April 19, 2005 9:00 AM CDT
Hi Debbie,
If you win the lottery I would really appreciate that lol. I am watching for purple flowers. My eyes are peeled. She stopped by Karens but has not got over to my end of Bowmanville yet. Take care
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 19, 2005 7:49 AM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb.. Getting back into a routine of actually turning my computer on!!! All this nice weather has us all changing our routines and getting out more... but not digging holes like Brian... maybe you should get another dog that likes to dig holes or teach your beautiful goldens the finer fun art of making mud holes (because the rain will come!). I am thinking of you often. Don't let my absenteeism from this website make you think otherwise! Oh yeah... purple little flowers popped up along my garden edge and into my front lawn... every time I pass them I can't help but smile and say 'hi' to Katelyn!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 5:38 AM CDT
Hi;
I'll sign in later. Always in a rush lately but hope to relax later on.
Love ya,
Kelly and Kirk xoxo
kelly <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
g-town, on cda - Monday, April 18, 2005 8:02 PM CDT
Isn't gardening fun!! I'm keeping you guys in my thoughts!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, Ontario - Monday, April 18, 2005 12:39 AM CDT
Thinking of you and praying for you.
Stephanie www.caringbridge.org/sd/alec <raisingwrestlers@iw.net>
Harrisburg, SD - Monday, April 18, 2005 12:04 AM CDT
Good morning - Afternoon
Sorry it has been a couple days... Was thinking of you the whole time I worked in the flower beds...
Love Nichole <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
- Monday, April 18, 2005 10:07 AM CDT
Thinking of all of you.
luv/mur
M <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Monday, April 18, 2005 10:00 AM CDT
Good morning Brian and Deb. Just wanted to let you know I was back. I read the history and back entries to get back in touch with everything. Glad you liked the statue. I'm sure it will look great in the yard. We love you both very much. Thought about all three of you while we were away. Did dad tell you, when we were in T.O. we went into the store in the motel and what song comes on the radio, "In my daughters eyes" so there I am in the store crying. I wish you could have come with us, it was nice to get away from reality for a few days. I told another couple in Jamaica with us all about Katelyn and am sending her the website, she sends her best to you both. I'll call you this afternoon. Michelle
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:30 AM CDT
Just dropping by to say hi. We stop in often but forget to leave a note. Sorry. Hope everything is going well and you are enjoying this nice weather. Well bye for now and remember that we are always thinking of you. Take care and have fun making Katelyn's garden.
Jeff, Shelly, Rebecca, and Zachary
dewael family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
chatham, ont canada - Monday, April 18, 2005 8:15 AM CDT
Good Morning Brian and Debbie: Just got home from work and thought I'd check the website. The flowers are back on the screen, they are beautiful. I hope our cats don't look like the one on your webpage when my birthday comes around. I couldn't stand to look at them if they stayed like that lol. Anyway have a good day and I hope you two are doing a little better every day. All our love Aunt Frankie and Wayne
Frankie Crawford <waygir@yahoo.ca>
Leamington, Ont Canada - Monday, April 18, 2005 7:22 AM CDT
For you parents
God Made You For A Reason
When I look upon my screen
I find a happy reason
the joy that comes to me from you
is gratitude so very pleasing...
What a wonderful creator
that made a friend like you,
He placed a sweet kind person
and gave me lots of comfort too.
A world without your kindness
would be a sad sad world.
But I don't have to worry,
there's no need to be,
because of you I am very happy,
and that's good enough for me.
I've found great people everywhere,
they come into my life.
Just like you, all those others too,
have given me delight.
So I thank God I met you,
I thank him for all seasons.
Now I know for sure with all my heart,
GOD Created YOU for a reason.
LOVE BRENDA
Edmonton,Alberta CANADA, - Monday, April 18, 2005 2:03 AM CDT
Hi there guys! There are purple flowers all over the place here in the Cross! Thanks Katelyn!! If you too are not too busy can you get your little butts over here- I need to get this new veggie garden started, and since your hands are already dirty.... hehehe! Hope you can hold onto the thought that we are here - as friends always are and you could not make us go away if you tried. We still hold onto the hope that we'll get free chicken out of ya!!!! Be well and know you are loved by all of us!!
Jerry, Joyce, Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
Charing Cross, Ont Canada - Sunday, April 17, 2005 7:43 PM CDT
Hang in there! you will get through this time. Be strong we are all praying for god to give you strength! Always thinking of you guys!! All the Way from CALIFORNIA
Katie Rodriguez <katierodriguez1175@yahoo.com>
Vandenberg Air Force Base, CA USA - Sunday, April 17, 2005 7:01 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian,
Just wanted to let you know that Katelyn left a beautiful Purple flower in my garden, I will try, with Toby's help to put it on the web, I am not good at all with these things.I am trying to make a little garden for both girls as well.
Still praying for your family, and Toby's as well.
Blessings to all, Love Winnie
Winnie Fairservice (Caillin's Memere) <jfairs0527@rogers.com>
Oshawa, On - Sunday, April 17, 2005 5:01 PM CDT
HI Guys,
Checking in on you. I hope as time goes on the anxious pit in the stomach subsides some. I can only imagine the feeling. Tayler has scared me and I knew how that alone felt. It is hard to know what to say. I will call you soon Deb. Take care.
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, April 17, 2005 4:19 PM CDT
“When a man loses his wife, he is called a widower.
When a woman loses her husband, she is called a widow.
When a child loses his parents he is an orphan.
But when a parent loses a child...there is no name for this kind of grief.
It is too difficult to bear & has no name.”
Mayor Bloomberg 9-11
Deb, I am so glad that you are Sharing your feelings with us! Most of us cannot even phathom what you and Brian are going through! I hope writing it down makes you feel better and I have to be honest with you, it doesn't always have to be upbeat....If you feel like cursing and stamping your feet and yelling at the tops of your voices, I think that is healthy too! Let it all out and if you don't want to post it on your site feel free to email anyone! I Know you have alot of family and friend support but if you need one more, please don't hesitate!
Love, Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, On - Sunday, April 17, 2005 12:32 AM CDT
Hey Deb & Brian!!! Hope you are both doing well........See that you are starting to work outside. Sure have had beautiful weather for it that is for sure!!! That is Katelyn smiling down on you!! Took me this long to be able to write something to you.....I cannot imagine what you are going through. Just like you said Deb---it is not right for you child to go before you-- I wish I could attend the pasta fundraiser but again I am on afternoons shift :( and unable to attend. I did forward the info to Darlene so if she is not working hopefully she can attend.
I am sending a BIG HUG to you & Brian, Kit & Larry, Michelle, and all the rest of your family. You are all in my prayers & thoughts!!
Lori Tetreault <lori-tetreault@excite.com>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Sunday, April 17, 2005 12:21 AM CDT
Hi there, I haven't had a computer for a few days and was anxious to get onto the site to see how you guys are doing. I agree with the others, if it helps for you to write how you are feeling that is great, alot of the time talking about things helps, not saying it will be all the answers that you might be looking for, but communication is great. Glad to hear you are getting along with the garden, what about posting some pics of the building of it. You are taking pics right, they will be great for that scrapbook.
Take care, deb
deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
Ruthven, - Sunday, April 17, 2005 11:54 AM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOBY
I'd never believe you where that old to have that many candles,you sure don't look it???? HAHA just kidding woman,had to go with the flow,You owe debbie BIG time.
Hope all is well with you and that your enjoying this spring weather. ....Luv Conn
P.S. tell Kathie(with a ie) i said "HI"
connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Sunday, April 17, 2005 7:27 AM CDT
Hi Guys,
Deb, I love what you wrote. You're so good for my soul! You claim you don't know what to write about now that Katelyn's not here on earth. What you just wrote is great! Write about your feelings. And you said talking about Katelyn helps a lot...so talk about her if you want to- memories, special moments you treasure, silly things...anything that might make you feel better. And if you don't want to, that's fine too! We're all here and love to hear about your life with Katelyn so share away if you like.
Anyway, had a wonderful day outside and ended up having our annual "Start of Summer" bbq with 3 of our neighbours on our front lawn. Lots of beer, wine, and laughs flowing. Then we came in when it got cool and had a game night-kids and all. Played 'Outburst'and had a laugh! They all left about an hour ago. I'm just sitting here waiting for Kirk's sats to stabilize because I just put the bi-pap on him. I know the minute I lie down, the sat alarm will go off so I thought I'd check in on you.
Hope you're having a nice weekend. Will visit again tomorrow.
love you guys,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxoxox
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Sunday, April 17, 2005 0:03 AM CDT
Hello Everyone
Hope everyone reading this is enjoying the beautiful spring weather we are having.I'm busy outside but thought i best sign in .
Deb & Brian hope you are outside doing yard work as well. Will hopefull talk to you later.Thinking of you"s.
luv Conn
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Saturday, April 16, 2005 1:40 PM CDT
Just checking in.
sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, on - Saturday, April 16, 2005 1:39 PM CDT
Good Saturday morning! Brian and Deb, I hope you are enjoying some of this nice weather! Are you sleeping better at night at all?! if not I am sending you some sleepy time vibes!
Geez Bonnie, do you work Saturdays too, or are just a crazy woman getting up early anyway!
Have a nice weekend!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Saturday, April 16, 2005 8:41 AM CDT
Good Morning
Just thought I would sign-in.
I wish I would have taken a picture of THE flower when I first found it. It was purple and white striped and by the time I took the picture I had to prop the poor bloom up, so it only shows purple. Sorry can't find another one like it in any of my flower beds. Can't figure that out!!
Mom is still looking for her flower,I don't know what those little angels are up to , but you know it's trouble!
I hope you can get outside to work in the yard this weekend,it is nice to see that you and Brian are keeping
busy. Brian is only 2 years behind on his list, so maybe he can finally get caught up (no I'm not holding my breath either)
Bonnie
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Saturday, April 16, 2005 7:02 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian...you guys are so amazing! Your spirit about everything is such a great inspiration...thanks for the 'things to really think about'...I'll try to do that. I've been seeing a lot of purple crocouses too...I ride my bike to and from work every day and see them in different gardens along the way...and I always say hello to Katelyn as I pass by them...and I always have a smile on my face thinking of her. Thinking of you all, everyday. Take good care and God Bless. Hugs from Kirk's Aunt Tracey
tracey johnson <traysea64@hotmail.com>
toronto, - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:20 PM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb! Was looking at my purple flowers today. Maybe I will get a picture of them tomorrow. Hope the days are passing peacefully. Funny thing happened on Wednesday... I went to a yoga/meditation class and during the meditation we had to envision a brilliant light of swirling colours and as we approached it we saw that the colours were towers... each on a separate colour. We visited the top of each tower... there was a purple tower and there was Katelyn... all smiles and running around with some friends... their giggles and laughs brought a smile to my face... such happiness...
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:16 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian,,,just to let you know that last fall we tore out all the plants around our Air Conditioner so that we could plant something different this year well guess what we have about 8 clusters of purple flowers blooming there don't know how they got there but have a good idea.
........SANDRA.......
Sabdra Beacom <sandra.beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington , On Canada - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:40 PM CDT
I love the border and new pictures.
Geri-Anne and Wyatt, Complex I (friends of Kirkland and Kelly)
caringbridge.org/mn/wyattc
Geri-Anne Zubich <gazecc@hotmail.com>
Golden Valley, MN - Friday, April 15, 2005 5:12 PM CDT
Hi there,
Boy Grandpa,Katelyn & Caillin are making sure that we can all get our gardening done....upcoming days are supposed to be awesome!! Guess they want to keep us all on our toes as usual.
Love to everyone.
/Mur
Muriel <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Friday, April 15, 2005 4:35 PM CDT
Its me again! hope you are enjoying the beautiful day ur little girl is sending! thinking about ur family everyday!
Take care And have a great weekand..
nikki <nikkers340@hotmail.com>
McGregor, Canada - Friday, April 15, 2005 3:44 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian, just signing in and want to wish you a beautiful weekend. All those flowers are beautiful. Take care. Robin xo
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Friday, April 15, 2005 2:01 PM CDT
Hello Brian & Deb, Just stopped to say hello. Katelyn is sending the most beautiful weather. That must be her way of helping get your garden started. She will continue to be your everlasting ray of sunshine. Hope you both enjoy the nice weather and have a great weekend!
Mark, Tammy & Ricki Ann Drew <tammy@vehicleventure.com>
Tilbury, on Canada - Friday, April 15, 2005 1:40 PM CDT
I just came by to say we are thinking of you today.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:11 AM CDT
Happy Friday Brian & Deb! Hope you have a terrific weekend & get out & enjoy that sunshine! Thinking of you today!
Kim Harlow <kymberlee67@hotmail.com>
Georgetown, ON Canada - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:22 AM CDT
Just stopped in to say good morning - afternoon. Enjoy this beautiful sunny day....
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:09 AM CDT
Dear Brian and Deb and Angel Katelyn, The flowers are beautiful( what a beautiful miracle) Love reading your pages. You sound like terrific people. Came across this site you might like. it is http://www.andiesisle.com/imagine.html
Hugs and oodles of prayers!
Mary (Campagnaro) Slade <mar-e@rogers.com>
Guelph, Ontario, Canada - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:59 AM CDT
Good Morning! Hope you both have a fantabulous day!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:57 AM CDT
Hey Brian and Deb and ^i^ Katelyn.
Thanks for the interest in the CD Id like to send it to you as a gift though ok. So as long as you havent already ordered it its on me ;)
Thinking of you both always.
Hugs
Angela, Alyssa, and Angel ^i^ Jacob <angela.trick@gmail.com>
Peterborough, Ontario, - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:44 AM CDT
Good morning everyone!
The sun is shining, the wind is blowing just a little bit so I think the girls aren't playing as hard?! Boy, the wind sure was blowing yesterday when Toby & I were looking at the girls trees in her backyard though!!!! I have my trees now too so I guess I'll be planting this weekend!
Take care everyone & have a great weekend :)
Kathie (Caillin's Aunt Dusty)
Kathie Smith <momma_dusty@hotmail.com>
Port Hope(less), ON - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:28 AM CDT
Dear Deb & Brian,
You are always in our thoughts and prayers,
Love Sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, on - Friday, April 15, 2005 7:30 AM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian: Just dropping a short note to say hi and that we are thinking of you two. We've been busy selling tickets for the fundraiser (Wayne's doing better then I am, I'm jealous lol) Anyway I hope you enjoy this beautiful sunshine and the wind, we all know what's going on in heaven for us to get this nice weather. All our love Aunt Frankie and Wayne
Frankie Crawford <waygir@yahoo.ca>
Leamington, Ont Canada - Friday, April 15, 2005 6:42 AM CDT
Just to say hi & hoping you both are doing ok. Great changes on the website Love the picture of Katelyn. Take care Donna Cullen mom to Kelsie (CDG type unknow)
Donna Cullen <dcullen007@hotmail.com>
Farmington HIlls, MI USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 3:48 AM CDT
Now Now, how come there have been WELL over 150 people viewing the page today and only 15 people signed this guestbook??
Come on, JUST SIGN THE BOOK! you are here already!
Since they take their time to write it, the least YOU can do is sign it for them out of consideration
sqeeky
from timbuck2, OHIGHO - Thursday, April 14, 2005 11:18 PM CDT
Hi Brian & Debbie:
Just checking in to tell you how much we love you and how proud we are of the two of you.
XXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOOO
Mom <kitlarry@netrover.com>
Tilbury, Ont. - Thursday, April 14, 2005 9:59 PM CDT
Hello Deb & Brian
Just signing in to let you know i"m thinking of you guy's.Hope you had a good day today???It was so windy the kids & dad must really be having fun.
Take Care Luv you"s Conn
P.s. Kelly I e-mailed them also BUT i have set a example since I've been the one doing the complaining.
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Thursday, April 14, 2005 9:40 PM CDT
Dear Brian and Debbie,
Just thought to drop you a line to let you both know that we are thinking about you.Your efforts towards this web site is unreal!!!! You both are extremly thoughtful in sharing your amazing little girls life with us. We can't thank-you enough!Our prayers and thoughts are always with you guys. God Bless you both!!
Jeff Minello, Sarah, and baby Mikhayla <jminello19@yahoo.ca>
Windsor, Ont Canada - Thursday, April 14, 2005 9:39 PM CDT
Hi Connie,
I may not have signed in here but just wanted you to know that I did write Deb an e-mail today!! lol
Hope all the fam damily is well. I imagine you're all busy little bees getting ready for the fundraiser. Can't wait to hear all about it. Make sure you get lots of pics (hmmm... what a silly request if Deb's gonna be there with her camera eh?) *The photo queen* lol
Kirkland sends kisses and hugs to 'all the in-laws'. He's been doing well- quite bright and interactive lately (touch wood).
Talk to all you soon.
love Kelly xoxo
Oh, BTW "Hi Deb and Brian"
Hey, it looks like Katelyn has her own message board now too! lol
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Thursday, April 14, 2005 8:47 PM CDT
hello iam signing ur guestbook again hope you enjoyed the beautiful weather that ur angel sent you today. you are always in my thoughts & prayers remember stay strong she is with you always!!!!!
GOD BLESS!!!
Nikki <nikkers340@hotmail.com>
McGregor, Canada - Thursday, April 14, 2005 7:06 PM CDT
Good afternoon! Hope you are enjoying the sunshine!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:16 PM CDT
Good afternoon! Hope you are enjoying the sunshine!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:16 PM CDT
Love the new pictures.
Love Sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, on - Thursday, April 14, 2005 1:14 PM CDT
Want you to know that you are in my thoughts and in my prayers always.
LOVE BRENDA
Edmonton,Alberta CANADA, - Thursday, April 14, 2005 12:01 AM CDT
BRIAN & DEB
JUST WANTED TO SAY HI,& LET YOU KNOW THAT WERE THINKING OF YOU'S. I POSTED THE PASTA FUND RAISER UP HERE AT WORK. I WILL TALK TO YOU LATER.
Steve Z <stevez@rezmin.com>
Tilbury, - Thursday, April 14, 2005 12:00 AM CDT
Hi Deb,
I am sure you will be busy for a long time catching up. I guess it would help to have lots to do. The fundraiser sounds great and I hope they raise lots to help you guys out. I think you should have a week away at an all inclusive resort or something. Take care of each other! I smile thinking about pooh dropping purple flowers all over. I will always think of her when I am gardening now.
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 14, 2005 11:06 AM CDT
Hi Brian & Deb. Just a quick note to let you know I'm thinking of you both. It's amazing how one little girl can bring total strangers together. I find myself checking your site daily to see how you're doing. Hope all is well -enjoy the great sunshine Katelyn has sent you today!
Kim Harlow <kymberlee67@hotmail.com>
Georgetown, ON Canada - Thursday, April 14, 2005 10:54 AM CDT
Hope you are enjoying this beautiful day.
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Thursday, April 14, 2005 9:56 AM CDT
Hope you are enjoying this beautiful day.
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Thursday, April 14, 2005 9:56 AM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb it's tina just checking in to see how you guys are doing today this is the first thing i read every morning when i get up have a wonderfull day.
Tina <tcoral@sympatico.ca>
windsor, ont - Thursday, April 14, 2005 6:55 AM CDT
Have a good one today everyone!!
Gee, I'm sure everyone's garden this year is going to have just a touch of Heaven!!
Love to everyone.
/Mur
Muriel <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 14, 2005 5:09 AM CDT
Hi Guys,
Looks like I'm back in business. The day's winding down, Kirk's on bi-pap and satting alright, my house is semi-orderly, and we survived the trip down to HSC. It's just getting harder and harder to get around with Kirk. Don't know what we'll do next week (Bloorview-Monday, Sick Kids-Wednesday). We just might not be able to make the Wed. appt.
They were pretty strict with us on the 4th floor re: viruses so I didn't even venture up to visit all our friends on 7. Probably wouldn't have been allowed in anyway.
I was ready to start posting flyers tomorrow re: the Mito March and the trannie went on my car- poor ol'girl('90 Corsica- she's entitled to be sick every once in awhile). Don't know what it is but hopefully it's minimal- fluid was leaking out rather quickly. So off she went with the tow truck!
Just my luck- I finally get some time to do the running around and then...lol.
I wanted to tell you guys that my friend Davonne down in Tennessee (I think she's signed your guestbook before) just sent me the most beautiful photos of the memorial garden they've just landscaped for her daughter, Karlee Beth who passed away at 8mos. old last August from mito disease.
I haven't chatted with her yet but it's just wonderful so I'll forward the pics to you- I'm sure she won't mind. It's such a nice idea!
BTW, I had to laugh today when I was reading Kirk's guestbook and a new visitor wrote that she had visited both of Kirkland's sites. I cracked up assuming she was referring to Katelyn's and Kirk's.lol I think the two just get viewed simultaneously by visitors now. I know I check my email first and then go directly to each of their sites to see who's written and what the news is,and then I check my other favourites. Too funny!
Anyway, I'll go now. I have to e-mail Evan's teacher, who by the way, is a big fan of Katelyn too!
love you lots,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Cda - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 9:59 PM CDT
Deb and Brian,
We are still checking out your website for katelyn to make sure that everything is going good you guys. We keep you two in our prayers all the time we know how hard it is at this time. Memories are important because you would want to keep those memories to remember the ones that you truely love or miss. Hope to hear from you soon Deb. Elaine
Brian and Elaine Breynaert <angel_baby_146@hotmail.com>
Chatham, ON - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 8:58 PM CDT
Glad to hear you guys are holding up and being STRONG! You are AWESOME!!
Katie Rodriguez <katierodriguez1175@yahoo.com>
Vandenberg Air Force Base, CA USA - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 8:40 PM CDT
you doing an awsome job on the website Deb.I really love how you did on the pictures. Hope you guys are doing ok!
Sue
Sue & Brozy <susieq@netrover.com>
Tilbury, ON - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 4:07 PM CDT
I am looking in on you. Thinking about you always.
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 13, 2005 1:27 PM CDT
I meant to send you a message of sympathy a few weeks ago and time got away from me. I have been thinking of you alot and wanted you to know that. I am so very sorry for your loss. Your website is wonderful. I really don't know how to express to you how very sorry I am, but I hope your days become easier somehow. Haven't seen you for a long time. Give my love to Connie and Bill also. I called Jo_Ann Stacey out west and she said she had spoken to Connie around the time that your father passed away. My sincere sympathy to you on that recent loss also.
All the best to you Deb and family
Dianne Williams
Tilbury, Ont, Canada - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 12:49 AM CDT
Good Afternoon! I hope you's are having a wonderful day! The sun is so nice!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 12:16 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian hope your having a good day i often think of you and wondering if you guys are have fun planting your garden. I hope you got your card form me. I have to go but i will talk to you later bye
P.S I would also like to no if you can buy the tickets for the Pasta funraiser at the door because we would like to attend.
Justina Warren <justina_1010@hotmail.com>
Windsor, Ont Canada - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 10:01 AM CDT
Morning everyone!!!!!!!!
HAVE A GREAT DAY.
M <mur28@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 13, 2005 8:51 AM CDT
Hi, just checking in. May you both enjoy another beautiful day that Katelyn has sent to us! Love Robin
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 8:39 AM CDT
Hi!
Just coming by to see how you guys are doing. I hope you find the perfect headstone!
~Joanne’s Corner~
With love,
Joanne and the Dream Team
~Bridge of Dreams ~
Joanne <joanne173@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 13, 2005 7:59 AM CDT
Just my daily checking in to see that you both are keeping busy.
Love Sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, on - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 7:39 AM CDT
Good morning to the two of you. The tribute to Katelyn on kirk's site is very nice. You have done a great job on your site also. Thank you for putting the wonderful words on the site that you and Brain said at the funeral. We are always thinking of you two. Take care.
Jeff, Shelly, Rebecca, and Zachary
dewael family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
chatham, ont canada - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 6:49 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian. Good Morning! Shannon and I will definitely have to come and see the Memorial Garden as it develops... you have such grand plans and I am sure that you will create a very special place! Katelyn is probably just a little eager to get going on those plans, what with her making those purple flowers popping up everywhere. I have some here, but because we are a little colder than you guys we haven't seen the colour yet... but I know they are going to be purple... and strange enough... once again... never planted by me. Hope you have a good day today... more sunshine... maybe Katelyn has a say in the weather now too!?
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 6:05 AM CDT
Just stopped in to say good morning and hope that you guys have a good day.
Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 4:26 AM CDT
Hi Guys. I am checking in on you. The flowers are beautiful. I will check in again soon. Love to you and all your amazing supportive family.
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 12, 2005 8:05 PM CDT
Hi deb and Brian
The new look on the webpage looks great.
I was sure Debbie was at my house messing around in my yard again because for some strange reason I have purple and white varigated crocus's coming up that I never had before.
I told mom and now she is out looking for hers.
Katelyn you better be showing Grandma a sign or you will be in BIG trouble. You and grandpa are probably laughing your butts off watching her make a fool out of herself. Katelyn you will learn how to be a real practical joker if you keep hanging around with him and what will Toby think when she knows what you are teaching Caillin????
I can hear the giggles as I write.
Love Aunt Bonnie
aunt Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, Ont canada - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 6:31 PM CDT
Hi Debbie & Brian
Hope you's are ok.Its to bad it's so cold that you's can't work on your garden.They say tomorrow is going to be nice.
Happy gardening. luv conn
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 6:12 PM CDT
Hi there,
Just letting you know I've been here....Deb, tried calling but haven't been able to get hold of you, hope I have the right number lol...alway in my heart.
Luv / M
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, ON Cdn - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 4:29 PM CDT
Hello Debbie, that is such a beautiful story and such a beautiful little soul, I knew you would be a wonderful mother, you have all my sympathy and compassion, I have been praying for you and Brian, God be with you always and give you comfort. Blessed are those who mourn. Love Peggy
peggy fitzmaurice and ryan winter and jeremy winter vicky winter <jeremywinter421@hotmail.com>
Wheatley, - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 4:18 PM CDT
Brian and Deb, You both have done a beautiful job with this website. I only wish I would have veiwed it sooner. You have all been in my thoughts and prayers.
M Blain <melnyca@yahoo.ca>
Comber, ON - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 2:49 PM CDT
Good afternoon! So I have got to tell someone.... I am not directly involved with the family, but to my amazement, my son , Robert (3) picked me some flowers from our yard! I'm sure you can guess that they are purple!
We only moved in August so I haven't planted a thing...so I just figured the people ahead of us had, so I asked him where he found them.....he brought me to the middle of the yard, where there is NO garden, and their was still 5-6 more purple flowers, like I said I didn't think much of it, till I started reading the updates and guestbook entries!
wow your little pricess is busy! Keep up the good work Katelyn!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 2:18 PM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian, Just thought we would drop you a line and say hello. You are in our thoughts daily and we hope you are OK. Please know that you are there in ANY way that you need us to be. Hope to see you soon. Lots of love,
Jerry, Joyce, Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
CHARING CROSS, ONT CANADA - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 2:11 PM CDT
Hey!
Just checking the updates! Keep 'em coming, they are part of my everyday life from here on...besides, I don't need to get in trouble! LOL
Imagine this: I have more purple crocuses than I have ever had?!?! hmmm...
Hope all is well with everyone. I'm loving windy days now, it puts a big smile on my face :-O
Kathie
Kathie <momma_dusty@hotmail.com>
Port Hope(less), ON - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 1:26 PM CDT
Just checking in to see what you've been up to.
Sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 12:53 AM CDT
Good morning. Just signing in.....
Nichole <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 10:08 AM CDT
We are so sorry for your loss. We will put you in are daily prayers.Jordy and her meme
www3.caringbridge.org/mo/memerobin
- Tuesday, April 12, 2005 9:07 AM CDT
Deb, Brian:
Checking it to say hi and let you know my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am sure Jacob and Katelyn are parting the clouds and giving us this beautiful weather. Take care for now.
Scott Mifflin <scottmifflin@hotmail.com>
Belleville, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 8:58 AM CDT
Hi Brian & Deb: I know I just emailed but I just spent over two hours reading the other emails and some of your journal entries. I cannot express in words just how touched I am by reading the enourmous ways in which Katelyn has made a difference in people's lives. The three of you are a family in every sense of the word; your love and support for one another and for your family and friends is a blessing that is worth more than everything else in the world. God has used your family to touch so many lives and it is inspiring to see how you faced this experience with grace, and love. You are an amazing couple and I hope our paths cross again one day. Brian, your words to your daughter were profound - I only wish that every little girl could be blessed with a dad and a mom like the two of you. God bless you and your family. I only found out about Katelyn today but I've spent all morning reading about all of of you and I know I just have to plant purple flowers out front this Spring - what a wonderful reminder they will be of a little girl who gave more to the world in a two short years than most will ever give in an entire lifetime.
Karen Amlin <youthminister@sympatico.ca>
Kingsville, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 8:22 AM CDT
Hi Brian and Debbie: My Aunt Darlene sent me the link to your site so that I would pray for you and have my youth group pray for all of you as well. I was absolutely shocked when I looked at the pictures and realized that I know who you are. I used to hang out with Marc and Phil a long time ago and I got to know Brian through them - the world is very small and this makes you realize how connected we all are. I want you to know how deeply sorry I am that your little girl has been taken to Heaven so early. She was very blessed to have parents like you and I know you were blessed to have her for even a short while. Please know that you are cared for and being held in prayer. God has changed my life a lot in the last few years and He will get you through this difficult and painful time. Your story will be an inspiration for others - your daughter was absolutely beautiful.
Karen Amlin (was Chase) <youthminister@sympatico.ca>
Kingsville, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 7:42 AM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb it's Tina just checking in to see how you guys are doing boy you have the most beautiful daughter she is so precious well i hope you have a good day.
Tina <tcoral@sympatico.ca>
windsor, ont - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 6:58 AM CDT
I found Katelyn's beautiful site tonite. I will be praying for you, my new special friends!! Love In Jesus,
Dorine McNary <dkmcnary@yahoo.com>
Williston, ND - Monday, April 11, 2005 11:34 PM CDT
Thank-you tree fairy.
pandj
Staples, on canada - Monday, April 11, 2005 8:40 PM CDT
Hello readers
I to have some little purple flowers(my spelling is terrible so i will stick to little flowers) where i never planted them .This is kinda cool all of us with new unsuspected little purple flowers growing.Katelyn must just love keeping us all guessing & the Squirt is doing a find job of it too .
I have to say...Isn't the first picture on the website just the BEST.
Hope everyone is having a nice night.
Luv Conn
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, - Monday, April 11, 2005 7:58 PM CDT
Deb and Brian, It would have been 30 balloons that were released Saturday for Katelyn but unfortunatly I popped one before it was tagged. 29 beautiful balloons went soaring through the sky I believe they were headed out west.I gave the family a small speech about why we were doing this and how we should be grateful for all of our blessings. They were so excited and went they all went soaring up tears were running down my face. I had Paul take some pictures and will sent them to your e-mail as soon as I can. Brian your eulogy was very well said. You definately have a way with words. You'll hear from me again soon. Keep smiling your angel's watching you.
Lisa, Paul Shawn and Jorden <paguiar@sympatico.ca>
- Monday, April 11, 2005 7:45 PM CDT
Hi guys I have lots of plants in my garden that I could contribute it you need any. Just let me know if you want any I don't have many purple ones but I'm sure yellow goes well with purple. Anyways just thought I would say hello & I'm scouting the yard out the see where the best place would be to plant those trees you gave us...what an awsome idea. You can count on me to be there for the benefit. Take care & see ya soon. Love Michele
Michele Wuerch <wuerch@gosfieldtel.com>
Essex, Ont - Monday, April 11, 2005 7:33 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian, just checking in. The website is beautiful..what a wonderful tribute to Katelyn. The three of you are truly inspirational! Take care. Love Robin
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Monday, April 11, 2005 7:00 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian the websight looks wonderful. Just thought I would stop in to see how you guys were doing.
Take care
Jen c <jchotmamma@hotmail.com>
- Monday, April 11, 2005 6:34 PM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian, had a great visit with your mom today, she is one proud Grandma, she showed me the pic of Katelyn chatting with her on the phone, she was so proud. What a great gift of the purple crocus (not sure if I spelt them right,lol) Brian you are giving Deb a run for her money on your tribute to your daughter, it was awesome, what a wonderful memory. The wind has kept the farmers out of the fields today from spraying, I wonder if your Dad had a hand in this with Katelyn. Thinking of you's today.
Deb <cmcdeb2003@yahoo.com>
- Monday, April 11, 2005 5:31 PM CDT
Just checking in, out of sight is definatley not out of mind...thinking of you guys alot...luv ya.
/Mur
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarb., ON Cdn - Monday, April 11, 2005 4:29 PM CDT
Brian & Debbie, I just wanted to share something with you. Your little angel touched my garden too. I've never planted any, but this morning, 1 single purple crocus. Hope all is well & you are taking each day as it comes. Good luck with the memory garden. I think Katelyn is making her own - everywhere!
Kim Harlow <kymberlee67@hotmail.com>
Georgetown, ON Canada - Monday, April 11, 2005 4:01 PM CDT
Hi Brian and Debbie We have another beautiful but WINDY day. I will always think of Katelyn everytime the wind blows. lol Dee.
Deanna Sayers <Dcsayers@aol.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Monday, April 11, 2005 3:33 PM CDT
You dont know me but I read about ur precious little girl and it really touched my heart in a special way.Im sorry for any hurt you and ur family are feeling and just think now you have a little angel watching over ur everymove. I think if she could have spoken to you she would have thank you for always being by her side and being such great parents! The journals you wrote are very beautiful. And Iam sure the purple flowers are a message from her saying dont worry and she loves you both much.. Neways I just wanted you to know that the both of you and ur lil katelyn are in my thoughts and prayers!!! GOD BLESS YOU! Have a graet day and just remember every brezz is her saying I Love You!!!!
Take care!
Nicole <nikkers340@hotmail.com>
McGregor , Canada - Monday, April 11, 2005 3:04 PM CDT
So excited to hear about your planned memory garden. The weather is holding up so far! Now every time I see a purple flower, I will be reminded of Katelyn!
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Monday, April 11, 2005 11:46 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian~
I keep coming back here and I keep getting inspired by your little Katelyn. Brian's tribute to Katelyn is beautiful. The flowers are amazing and so cool! I have a Kate and her favorite color is purple too. God Bless you today.
caringbridge.org/mn/kevinm
Deb Minkkinen <takvek@yahoo.com>
Coon Rapids, MN USA - Monday, April 11, 2005 11:39 AM CDT
Hi all:
Thought I'd share our little present from heaven! Can you find the purple one from Katelyn?
What a sneaky little monkey she is!
Love to all,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
G-town, On Cda - Monday, April 11, 2005 11:26 AM CDT
HI Brian and Deb,
Thinking about you guys all the time. Brian you wrote amazing words for your daughter. I hope the memory gardening goes well.
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Monday, April 11, 2005 10:19 AM CDT
Good Morning, The sun is so beautiful this morning! Brian what a wonderful tribute to Katelyn and to your family too! Have a good day and enjoy your gardening!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Monday, April 11, 2005 9:50 AM CDT
Morning Deb and Brian: Just read the guestbook and thought I'd say hi to both of you. It's a beautiful morning out with a little wind so we all know what Katelyn and her little friends are doing. It's amazing how a little girl like her can make us old people stop and feel the wind on our faces or stand outside in a rain and really enjoy it now where we haven't for a long time( alot longer for some of us lol). Well the bed is calling my name now since I worked midnights last night. Take care and all our love, Aunt Frankie and Wayne
Frankie Crawford <waygir@yahoo.ca>
Leamington, Ont Canada - Monday, April 11, 2005 8:11 AM CDT
Morning Deb & Brian,
Just signing in for the day. I have to tell you I
was in my garden yesterday and you won't beleive it...
I have two purple crocus coming up too??!!!?
I never planted them!???!?hmm
Love,
Shumaila (Zachary's mom CGD 1a)
Shumaila Desrochers <rayshum@rogers.com>
Brampton, - Monday, April 11, 2005 7:17 AM CDT
Dear Deb & Brian,
Love the new pictures, Looks like a great week ahead with the weather so hope you'll be outside working in it.
Love & God Bless, sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
Unionville, on - Monday, April 11, 2005 6:25 AM CDT
Just stopped in to say good morning. I can't beleive that you have flowers up already and purple ones to boot.....
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On - Monday, April 11, 2005 5:38 AM CDT
Sweet dreams Guys,
Looks like we're both up writing. Go to sleep.
But...being that you're awake...lol
I have one purple crocus in amongst a batch of yellow and white ones. It's a first for me too! Heaven's messages eh?
love always,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Sunday, April 10, 2005 11:55 PM CDT
As I was looking through the paper today I saw a little girl's picture and it broke my heart to know that her smiling face would not be able to learn how to 'tour' with nurse Katie. Her picture drew me to her when I realize WHO she was; Katie had mentioned her many times.
I felt as though I knew Katelyn, especially after looking through her pictures and reading your journal enteries today. There are no words to say which I am sure you haven't heard. It breaks my heart to know that your little bundle of love and joy had to go through more than most people ever do. My heart goes out to you and your family including everyone who Katelyn touched. All the best to you all. I admire your courage and strength for all you have endured. All my love to the both of you and Katelyn.. she will not be forgotten.
Sherry McKee <mckee@uwindsor.ca>
Windsor, ON Cdn - Sunday, April 10, 2005 10:04 PM CDT
Hi Guys,
Just thought I'd check in to see how things are going. A friend of mine from school saw Katelyn's obituary in the paper so she's going to save it for me. I absolutely love the picture of the sunset... she is definitely there with you's. I think about you quite often, and glad to know that you're taking it day by day. She is definitely missed, as well as you guys! Anyway, I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you. The funeral sounds like it was perfect, and she was a little doll as always. I wish I could have been there. Take care, and I will keep checking in for updates.
Katie <kstudnicka@hotmail.com>
Dresden/Toronto, - Sunday, April 10, 2005 7:46 PM CDT
Just stopped to say hello. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers everyday. (Yes, we are also one of the one's who check the website often but don't always sign in.) I sat and read all of your journal entries last evening and wow, I could not imagine the journey you both have been on. We have always said children are a gift from God. Katelyn was one of those gifts. Now she is a beautiful angel up above. She will be forever watching over you as you did for her. We can certainly see from the entries in the guestbook your family is very loved. Katelyn will always be with you both day and night. When you see the sun shine or the breeze blow, that could be her saying hello. Hold tight to those memories, you have many beautiful photos of your princess. Thank you again for allowing everyone to continue in your journey of celebrating Katelyn's life.
Mark, Tammy & Ricki Ann Drew <tammy@vehicleventure.com>
Tilbury, on Canada - Sunday, April 10, 2005 7:08 PM CDT
Hope you've been enjoying the beautiful weather this weekend...maybe working in Katelyn's garden. Hope today is going okay for you both. Take good care of yourselves. Hugs from Tracey
tracey johnson <traysea64@hotmail.com>
toronto, - Sunday, April 10, 2005 3:36 PM CDT
Hi Deb + Brian,
As I was reading your dedication to Kaitlyn, I could hear you reading it at the funeral and where exactly your family chuckled at inside 'jokes'. It meant alot for me to be there. I made some special deliveries of the trees and spoke to her peadiatrician(no names but you know who!) on Thursday. Your special girl and you two made a huge impact on him.
Enjoy the beautiful weather.
Tiff
Tiffany Wilson <nursetuffy@rogers.com>
- Sunday, April 10, 2005 2:43 PM CDT
Your website is an inspiration. You are both continually in my thoughts and prayers, as you work through each day. I believe you could have a ministry helping others to deal with the things you have been going through.
Aunt Gloria <glorianewman@elliottenergy.ca>
Leamington, ON Canada - Sunday, April 10, 2005 11:52 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian: Just a little request to ask you both. Since we live in an apartment Wayne and I would like to know if it would be all right for us to plant the tree on Erie Shores Golf and Country Club. It would be well taken care of there and would have a chance to grow forever in alot of peoples eyes. If this is okay let us know or email us . Hope to see you both soon. Love Aunt Frankie and Wayne
Frankie Crawford <waygir@yahoo.ca>
Leamington, Ont Can. - Sunday, April 10, 2005 10:57 AM CDT
hi Brian & Deb,
I am going to try and catch up on the
the entries you've made. I just wanted to let you
know I was here. Sounds like your wonderful family is keeping you hopping.
hope you guys are okay,
thingking of you,
Love, Shumaila (zachary's mom CDG 1a)
Shumaila Derochers <rayshum@rogers.com>
Brampton, - Sunday, April 10, 2005 9:57 AM CDT
Good mornng Brian & Deb
Gee looks like i don't have to write a thing about the Mason's,Bonnie did a wonderful job ,as always (easy way out for me haha) But i would like to thank the Mason"s for all their caring & support.
We got together last night for our mom's 70th birthday and we didn't have any surprises for them for a change. Oh i am wrong Bonnie got Debbie & Brian a beautiful wind chime and when it chimes they are to think of the stir that is up in heaven).It's something to see Debbie speechless though(sorry Deb had to say that)
Hope you two get outside today to work on your special place
Take Care & we all love you's ,
P.S.HELLO to everyone & have a beautiful day
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, - Sunday, April 10, 2005 9:00 AM CDT
Your euology and your nephew's poem was beautiful. It is that unconditional love that amazes me everytime. It doesn't matter how many blood draws, surgeries, etc. that we put Wyatt through he still has that huge smile for me.
Geri-Anne and Wyatt, Complex I (friends of Kirkland and Kelly)
caringbridge.org/mn/wyattc
Geri-Anne Zubich <gazecc@hotmail.com>
Golden Valley, MN - Sunday, April 10, 2005 8:20 AM CDT
Good Morning,
Sounds like everyone is keeping you busy!!! Enjoy the warm sun and have a good day.
Muriel & Brandon
xoxoxoxo
Muriel <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, ON Canada - Sunday, April 10, 2005 7:59 AM CDT
Just stopped in to say good morning and enjoy this beautiful sunny day!!!!
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, - Sunday, April 10, 2005 7:14 AM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian
I'm sure you are not up yet as you were updating late last night. I hope you's got some sleep.
This family can sure make you nervous when we all gather at your house.Every time everyone starts to gather in your livingroom, you two seem to get worried.
The Mason's are wonderful people and their support is amazing. Bill spoke for the group and they did this benefit to help your family and never asked for anything in return. I know you and Brian feel overwhelmed when people want to help you and it is not your style but you two have always went out of your way to help others .
As they say "what goes around, comes around". Well it is your turn.
I was so touched by the way these strangers that were helping you and giving their support to help a family through a difficult time. I am seeing now that there are alot of good people out there. Bill was just glowing to know that their group could make a difference. I even gave Bill a hug! Yes you heard it Brian!
I then told him the story how Katelyn has turned Brian and I into "huggers", that was not easy .
Thanks again to everyone that have helped Debbie and Brian in so many ways.
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Sunday, April 10, 2005 7:09 AM CDT
Good Night Brian and Deb. Maybe I should spell Brian's name wrong too. I remember when I was little, I used to spell it Brain. I can see other people think it should be spelled like that. Maybe Brain, you could have it legally changed. Have a good sleep and I'll call you both tomorrow. Maybe we can go for a walk! Love you Michelle
P.S. I'll email you pictures of the boys planting our trees! Oh yeh I saw the entry from Kentucky Bird I'm already on it!!!!
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico .ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Saturday, April 9, 2005 10:37 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian...sleep tight and sweet dreams. Love and hugs from Tracey
tracey johnson <traysea64@hotmail.com>
toronto, - Saturday, April 9, 2005 10:21 PM CDT
I want you to know that I can't get you and Katelyn out of my thoughts. I live in Kitchener but am from Leamington originally - I check the Windsor Star online to keep up with the local news etc. When I saw your daughter's obituary her picture made me smile - I am an Xray tech here and she reminds me of so many of the beautiful children we see here every day. I read a bit of your journals each time I come online - your family's story is amazing - your strength and the joy that Katelyn gave you for her whole life is so wonderful. Please know that I keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Christy Calhoun (Pilmer) <leamtomato@gto.net>
Kitchener, Ontario Canada - Saturday, April 9, 2005 9:51 PM CDT
Hi Deb and BRIAN
Thought I would give you a real treat and sign in. I enjoy reading all the entries in the guest book. But I never knew Brians name could be spelled so many ways. I figured when Deb started to do it in the journals, it was time for me to sign in lol.Lots of love to both of you.
Dad (Grandpa) <kitlarry@netrover.com>
Tilbury, - Saturday, April 9, 2005 9:08 PM CDT
Me again. Just an idea for those organizing the benefit. There are many who may not be able to attend due to distance etc. but may want to help. Can you post an address so we might buy tickets in name only?
Sharon (Jason's Mom) <mag5jas2@rogers.com; http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/jason>
Gormley, ON Canada - Saturday, April 9, 2005 9:02 PM CDT
When Tomorrow Starts Without Me
When tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me:
I wish you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn't get to say
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too:
But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand.
And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.
But when I walked through heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,
He said, "This is eternity.
And all I've promised you.
Today your life on earth is past,
But here life starts anew."
"I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day's the same way
There's no longing for the past."
So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.
Author Unknown
Praying for you :)
The Woods Family <pandaw23@hotmail.com>
Peterborough, ON Canada - Saturday, April 9, 2005 8:04 PM CDT
Hey Deb and Bian!! just checking in. Deb, beautiful eulogy, i wish i had been there to hear it. i'm sitting here typing with one hand holding jason woth tears streaming down my face, knowing how lucky i am to be holding him and trying to imagine the emptiness you must be feeling. try and find a 24h dq. i think of you guys every day, many times, and so wish i was closer so i could meet you. Love ang hugs
Sharon (Jason's Mom) <mag5jas2@rogers.com; http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/jason>
Gormley, ON Canada - Saturday, April 9, 2005 7:49 PM CDT
Hi Brian and Debbie: Just got home from Oshawa and started to read the guestbook. I thought I'd better sign it tonight lord knows what time I'll get up tomorrow. Wayne and I are too d--- old to be making these one day trips. He's sound asleep on the couch right now. I guess bowling 5 games and then driving home he has a right to sleep. I'll catch the devil for putting this in later when he wakes up but thats okay. I hope you guys are doing okay, we told Wayne bowling team about the fund raiser and they all told us to bring tickets to bowling on Sunday so we stopped at Kit and Larry's on the way home and picked up some tickets. Hopefully I can sell more on Sunday. I'll talk to you two later. All our love Aunt Frankie and Wayne
Frankie Crawford <waygir@yahoo.ca>
Leamington, Ont Canada - Saturday, April 9, 2005 7:32 PM CDT
Hey how are you and Brain doing. Not much happening hear in the tjown of belle river. Just went for a walk and deliver tim hortons coffee for my sister and her future husband. Trying to lose weight. Days are getting nicer and the warm weather is upon us. Let Katelyn shine down on all of us. And when it rains she will be helping God water all the flowers.
If some one can come by to the kfc store in Tilbury I would sure like to by a ticket. Perhaps Brains sister that works at home hardware. She came by before.
Thanks and take care.
You will find that each day that goes by will be like pilling and onion. Some days will be harder then others to get threw,but just keep asking Katelyn for strengh.
c.soulliere <csoulliere@5cogeco.ca>
- Saturday, April 9, 2005 6:48 PM CDT
Hello Deb and Brian,
Its me. Im back from Mexico. A much needed 'break' away from reality. Hope you and Brian can get some time to just get away from it all soon. It was really nice to just let everything go for a bit, you know. But I must admit coming home and walking into the house was so much harder yesterday. Reality set it big time.
Your in my thoughts and prayers. I loved what you wrote for your girly. It was just beautiful. And so was the other one the boy did.
Hope the pasta dinner goes well.
All my love and hugs,
If you need to talk-- to someone who is going through everything at the same time too. Im here just an email or phone call away, day or night.
Sometimes its just nice to talk to someone who will listen to you talk and talk about our kids till day breaks. And it feels so good talking about them all the time doesnt it.
Well keep in touch please.
Ange
Angela, Alyssa, and Angel ^i^ Jacob <angela.trick@gmail.com>
Peterborough, Ontario, Canada - Saturday, April 9, 2005 5:02 PM CDT
Deb and Brian;
It's very touching that the Masons have been supportive of you. My dad was in the Masonic Lodge and he always said they did a lot of good. Looks like he was true to his word. Hope you have a nice weekend and find that the arrival of Spring brings some sunny smiles, happy feelings and lots of fluffy, peeping baby birds.
Love you guys,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxoxo
Kelly <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Saturday, April 9, 2005 3:23 PM CDT
The eulogy and poem are beautiful. LOL about late night DQ treats. I hope you are finding some joy in the beautiful memories each day. God Bless...
caringbridge.org/mn/kevinm
Deb Minkkinen <takvek@yahoo.com>
Coon Rapids, MN USA - Saturday, April 9, 2005 2:26 PM CDT
Hi there, just stopped by the website and seen Ricky's poem, Deb he must take after you with that beautiful gift of writing, it was very nice.
You's are in my thoughts and prayers
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, April 9, 2005 12:16 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian, we hope your strength that Katelyn'd givin to you keeps you strong. Your amazing people. Your eulogy was beautiful very touching and the poem your nephew wrote was perfect. Paul, myself and the boys want to attend the benefit for Katelyn. We have yet to get the tickets yet but rest assure we'll be there!
Lisa, Paul, Shawn and Jorden Aguiar <paguiar@sympatico.ca>
Kingsville, - Saturday, April 9, 2005 11:49 AM CDT
Just setting a good example for others and signing in( even though it was 11:00 when we left your house and I'm sure you don't miss us yet)
As we are putting together this fundraiser, I am amazed at the requests to help and offers to buy tickets, So many people want to be a part of it There is so many wonderful caring people that want to make a difference.
Thanks to "The Boo" I am seeing the world in a whole new perspective. She sure has made this world a whole lot better since she has been in it.
Aunt Bonnie
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Saturday, April 9, 2005 10:29 AM CDT
Good morning. Thanks for changing the font. It is a hundred percent better. Your nephew has the same knack for words like you do, his poem makes me smile and cry at the same time. The girls are sure showing their sunny smiles today!!!!!
Nichole <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
- Saturday, April 9, 2005 8:08 AM CDT
Morning Deb&Brian,
Just got through all your updates Deb...takes me at least 10 times of signing in before I can actually read everything between a good old cry...I can only imagine what it is like for you and Brian but feel free to just send some of the sadness my way for a little while...I can hold it for you and Brian in my heart when the going gets tough. Sorry I can't make it for the pasta fundraiser!Love & hugs to everyone.
/M
Muriel <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, ON Canada - Saturday, April 9, 2005 7:14 AM CDT
Hello, you don't know me but I just went throught your Website and just cried. I have 3 girls and I don't know what I would do if something happened to them, but by the sounds of it you have alot of friends and families to help you through all this. It is a very beautiful site you did a great job of it, she is a little angel and will always be watching over you. My prayers and thoughts go out to you two.
Francine <frandies@yahoo.com>
LaSalle, On Canada - Saturday, April 9, 2005 6:06 AM CDT
DEAR BRIAN &DEB. i'M HAVING ANOTHER BAD NIGHT WITH MY
BACK SO THE FIRST PLACE I GO IS KATELYN'S WEBSITE. IT
WAS NICE TO READ YOUR EULOGY. I DIDN'T HEAR ALL OF IT
ON SAT. YOU SHOULD WRITE A BOOK. YOU ARE SO GOOD WITH WORDS. IT IS SO NICE TO HAVE THE TREES THAT WERE GIVEN TO US
I HAVE THEM IN POTS FOR NOW; TIL THEY GET A LITTLE BIGGER.
HUGS TO YOU & BRIAN. SEE YOU SOON.
LOVE AUNT ANITA.
ANITA DUPUIS <dupuisranch@aol.com>
TILBURY, ON. CANADA - Saturday, April 9, 2005 0:50 AM CDT
My darling Katelyn - I just saw your lovely, lovely picture in the Windsor Star Obituaries and broke into tears - you look EXACTLY like my daughter (who is now 25). But when I read this website, I realize I should be happy that you have been such a great gift to your parents and have left your mark on this world, even on strangers like me. Your bright light has shone on many people and I thank you for that. With all my love.
Johanna Seferovic-Gips
Windsor, ON - Friday, April 8, 2005 11:14 PM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb,
Sorry I haven't been on line in a few days. i'm just
signing in to let you know I was here and have been
thinking about you.
Love, Shumaila
Shumaila Desrochers <rayshum@rogers.com>
Brampton, - Friday, April 8, 2005 11:14 PM CDT
Wow, just when I thought this site couldn't make me cry anymore! Deb what a beautiful tribute to your daughter, you are truly inspirational, you too Brian! Thank you for keeping us updated and well for signing in! heehee
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Tilbury well technically Merlin , - Friday, April 8, 2005 10:32 PM CDT
Just checking in for the sixth time today. Thinking of you always. Lots and lots of love. Michelle
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Friday, April 8, 2005 10:07 PM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian, I read the site often it's wonderful. This poem was posted on the CDG website a few years ago, I have it on my refrigerator. God Sent to Me an Angel by Paul Dammon
God sent to me an angel, it had a broken wing I bent my head and wondered "How could God do such a thing?"
When I asked the Father why He sent this child to me, the answer was forthcoming, He said "Listen and you'll see"
"My children are all precious, and none is like the rest. Each one to me is special, and the least is as the best.
I send each one from Heaven and I place it in the care of those who know my mercy, those with love to spare.
Sometimes I take them back again. Sometimes I let them stay. No matter what may happen I am never far away.
So if you find an angel and you don't know what to do, rememeber I am with you, Love is all I ask of you."
Take care you are in our prayers daily . Donna Cullen (mom to Kelsie CDG type unknown)
Donna Cullen <dcullen007@hotmail.com>
Farmington HIlls, MI USA - Friday, April 8, 2005 10:06 PM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb,
I was just thinking about the two of you and thought I'd check the site to see how things are. Hope you are both doing well. I can't imagine how difficult a time this is for you. Take care.
Cheryl White <tcwhite@xplornet.com>
Amherstburg, On - Friday, April 8, 2005 8:36 PM CDT
Hi everyone,
Just want to let you know that I am signing in because I am reading the guestbook! LOL Kidding.
Seriously, I jsut figured out that some people can read this and some can't, it must be because of the way each computer is set up. All of my computers look different and honestly every time I sign in the font colors change, I thought I was the crazy one (NO COMMENTS PLEASE). Hope it is better now, thanks for letting me know you guys.........
Deb <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com >
- Friday, April 8, 2005 8:18 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian
It's your old buddy from high school, Kelli. Joe came home from his mom's tonight and handed me the obituary. I had no idea. I don't get the paper except for Saturdays and sometimes even then I don't read it all. My heart breaks for both of you. I was getting ready to go to work and I cried all the way here. I remember coming up when Katelyn was maybe an hour old. She was such a beautiful little baby girl and you were just glowing. You waited so long and it's hard to believe the happiness a child can bring. I know because I was there once too. I knew you would make wonderful parents. She would definitely have one of the funniest moms around. What I don't know and can never know is how terribly hard this must be for you. Please know that I would have been there had I known. Joe feels the same way. I have thought about you quite a few times over the last year or so and was wondering how you were getting along with the big changes in your life. I never knew how difficult the changes were as well as being filled with the same magical moments every new parent experiences. I wish when I had had those thoughts I would have picked up the phone. I don't know if I could have been of any help but I would have been an listening ear and a shoulder. We plan on going to the benefit but it's a bit hard to read on the website (which by the way is beautiful). Please e-mail me back at curtainsk@excite.com with details. Sometimes a different e-mail address will show up because it's from work and because it's a secured site, I can only send from here but not receive. I hope you receive all the strength God can give you. You deserve it after all you have been through. Katelyn and you and Brian will be in my thoughts and prayers every night. Love ya, Kelli
kelli verbeek <curtainsk@excite.com>
maidstone, on canada - Friday, April 8, 2005 7:54 PM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb... just Karen checking in on you two! Been away from the computer the past few days... hope you are doing as best as possible. I have to find the chance and right frame of mind to read through your latest updates... I know that my heart will break and the tears will flow... and then I will admire you both with all your strength and envy you both for having such a wonderful daughter who touched so many lives. Katelyn has given us all a wonderful gift, each unique to our own needs. My prayers go to you and my thanks to her.
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Friday, April 8, 2005 7:38 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian...that poem is so beautiful. And Deb, your eulogy was absolutely beautiful and so very special...just perfect! I'm sure Katelyn is so proud of you. Hope you had a good day today. Take care. Love and hugs from Tracey
tracey johnson <traysea64@hotmail.com>
toronto, - Friday, April 8, 2005 7:18 PM CDT
Me again.... Just the poem and about the Dinner is what I can't read.
You do write very beautifully!!!!
Makes me want to give you guys a great big hug...
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, Ont - Friday, April 8, 2005 7:10 PM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian
Checking in on you's again and like everytime had a good cry, your eulogy was just amazing, what a beautiful tribute to your daughter. Your garden sounds like it is going to be a wonderful tribute to Katelyn. Like always keeping you guys in my thoughts and prayers. See you at the benfit.
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 8, 2005 6:49 PM CDT
Thanks for adding the update, I don't know how you did it as I was crying just reading it.
Love sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
Unionville, on - Friday, April 8, 2005 4:59 PM CDT
Hi it's me again!!!!! You need to change the font that you are using. I am very interested to read it but it is to hard to see.
Nichole <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
- Friday, April 8, 2005 3:33 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian, just checking in to see that all is well sounds like you are doing OK but know how you must miss our Sweet Angel, keep the updates coming as everyone is still praying........SANDRA
SANDRA BEACOM <sandra,beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On Canada - Friday, April 8, 2005 2:42 PM CDT
Hi Everyone:
I'm on visit number 5 today and finally hit the jackpot lol!!! Thanks Deb for posting your eulogy (sp? it doesn't look right) I can still hear your voice reading it at Katelyn's funeral. It's very beautiful. Conn's right - you do have a way with words. Thanks for sharing it.
Love both of you lots,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Friday, April 8, 2005 2:17 PM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian
just checking to see how you are doing.
Sue & Brozy <susieq@netrover.com>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Friday, April 8, 2005 2:10 PM CDT
Hi Ruth,
I love what you wrote, "Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly". This is so true, I am going to add this somewhere on the website.
Thanks,Deb
you already know who I am <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
- Friday, April 8, 2005 1:35 PM CDT
Okay Connie I have to admit I am one of "those" people that have stopped by the web site to check it out. To see if Debbie has added anything new, and to read some of the guestbook and I haven't signed it. I'm guilty. I'm now taking the time to sign in and say Hi to everyone who is reading this. So I am asking everyone else to sign in to. It must truly be uplifting for Debbie and Brian to know so many people are thinking of them at this time. I am also thinking of you often and hope you are doing fine. Just remember, Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. Just by reading some of these entries we all know you have many friends. You have been truly blessed. take care
Ruth Wall <brzwall@gosfieldtel.com>
Cottam, - Friday, April 8, 2005 12:45 AM CDT
Hey Deb & Brian!
Guilty as charged too! LOL
Please know that my thoughts are with you EVERY moment of EVERY day...even though I don't sign in daily. I'm looking forward to planting the new garden!
Bonnie, you're too much :-) LOL
Take care everyone and have a great weekend.
Love to all,
Kathie
Kathie aka Butthead #2 & Caillin's Aunt Dusty <momma_dusty@hotmail.com>
Port Hope(less), ON - Friday, April 8, 2005 9:57 AM CDT
Guilty as charged. I'll admit I check the site often but don't always sign in. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love Sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, on - Friday, April 8, 2005 9:43 AM CDT
Just stopped in to say hello. Your daughter is sure a beautiful ray of sunshine. I'm sure she is sending it your way to help brighten your day.
Mark, Tammy & Ricki Ann Drew <tammy@vehicleventure.com>
Tilbury, on Canada - Friday, April 8, 2005 9:38 AM CDT
Morning everyone,
Deb, Brian we're all with you (as if you can't tell from the sign-ins)! Love to everyone, hope Katelyn, Grandpa & Caillin are keeping you strong!!! I have to tell you, when ever I think of our little Angels it makes me feel happy. I alway think there will be that selfish side of my heart that will always hurt just a little but when I think of the fun and yes, trouble too!, that they are getting into I can't help but plaster a smile on my face!!! Take care and Deb if you don't mind I'll give you a call over the weekend!
luv ya both!
Muriel <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, ON Canada - Friday, April 8, 2005 8:24 AM CDT
Just touching base as I wouldn't want to get on your sisters bad side. Thinking of you guys always.
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On - Friday, April 8, 2005 8:05 AM CDT
Good Morning all! *blushing* I like Kelly, qualify for about 10 or so visits in a day! LOL But I do sign in the once! Thanks for the Sunshine girls!
Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Tilbury, On - Friday, April 8, 2005 7:33 AM CDT
Brian & Deb
I hope you recieved the pictures, just want you both to know that you's will always be in our hearts. hope to hear from you soon. Please post about the dinner so we can spread the word.
Steve Z <szvaniga@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, - Friday, April 8, 2005 6:03 AM CDT
I guess I better sign in or I will have to carry the guilt around all day,
I see there is new people in the guestbook, Debbie and Brian will be so happy to hear from you.
Kathy , I see you finally signed in but I don't recall seeing Butthead#2 Kathy signing in.
Kelly it's ok if you don't sign 50 times a day because you write enough! Your words are beautiful and you have a special gift, you should have been a school teacher!
Debbie and Brian--- I hope everything is Ok with you's , my thoughts are with you every moment of the day.
Bonnie
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Friday, April 8, 2005 5:53 AM CDT
Good morning Brian and Deb
dewael family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
chatham, ont canada - Friday, April 8, 2005 5:26 AM CDT
Dear Debbie and Brian
Ok Ok I have to admit I am one who does check out this site often and read the updates and the entries without signing...Deb all the leamington staff at kfc send you both their thoughts and prayers they asked me to tell you.. and also ladies if you need any donations or help with the fundraiser just let us know or stop by work..I hope you and Brian are doing okay just remember at night when the sky is dark take a look at the sky and your sweet little angel will be the brightest star in the sky shinning down on you ..take care of each other
stacey(amy's sis) <stacey.gauvin@sympatico.ca>
LEAMINGTON, ON - Thursday, April 7, 2005 11:31 PM CDT
Hi it's tina i was just reading up again and wanted to say hi.
Tina <tcoral@sympatico.ca>
windsor, ont - Thursday, April 7, 2005 9:49 PM CDT
CONNIE!
YOU GO GIRL!!! YEEEEAAAHHHHH TEAM!
PHEWWW, GLAD I SIGNED IN! lol
luv Kelly xo
One question...If you check in fifty times a day like I do, does that mean you should leave fifty messages too? lol
Kelly Kilbride <Kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 9:43 PM CDT
HELLO EVERYONE !!! This means you and you
Today 100 people checked out the web site by 5 o'clock and only 4 signed in.I was one of those people who only read it & did not sign it and i got in trouble.BIG TROUBLE
SOOOO if you just even said HI, that would make Debbie & Brian alot happier.They love to know who is out there.
Hope everyone is enjoying this beautiful weather we are having!!and when it's windy think of the girls up there running & knowng that's where the breeze is coming from.Those wings sure are a flappen up there.
Luv conn
!
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, ONT - Thursday, April 7, 2005 9:31 PM CDT
Dear Brian and Debbie:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you
go through the difficult times ahead.
Katelyn touched and is still touching so many peoples lives
in more ways than many adults can even fathem doing in a lifetime.
I was so glad to hear the the April 27th fundraiser is a go. I'll be there, perhaps washing dishes, or cleaning
tables. I did say "I'll do anything needed, within
reason." "Didn't I Bonnie!!!
P.S. Bonnie I will be TALKING to you at work tomorrow.
Kathy <kingkathy56@hotmail.com>
Kingsville, Ont - Thursday, April 7, 2005 9:31 PM CDT
Hi deb and Brian just checking in to see how you guys are doing.
Jen c <jchotmamma@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 7, 2005 9:12 PM CDT
I was saddened to read in the Leamington Post about the loss of your beautiful daughter Katelyn. I too lost a daughter 5 years ago. I know what it feels like to lose an infant that you love so much. A day does not go by that you won't think of your wonderful angel. You will shed many tears. But you are not alone. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
C. Preston
Leamington, On Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 7:56 PM CDT
Hello Debbie and Brain
I am so sorry about Katelyn. You are so strong and got so much support I hope someday it will get easier for you. It seened that Katelyn had your bright spirt Debbie, In all the pitures she is always smiling just like you.
Stacey Counsell <staceycounsell@hotmail.com>
Leamington, On Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 7:10 PM CDT
Hey Deb & Brian, Just letting you both know that you are never far from my thoughts.
Muriel <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, ON Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 6:57 PM CDT
Hugs!! xoxo Robin
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 6:49 PM CDT
thinking of u guys, scot.
scot bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
tilbury, ont canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 6:45 PM CDT
If that memorial garden needs some good quality topsoil, I think I know somone who would be very happy to donate some of Mt. S to the cause.
PandJ
Staples, On Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 5:52 PM CDT
May the Road rise up to meet you. May the Wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face. And the rains fall soft upon your fields. And until you meet again. May God hold you in the palm of His Hand.
Praying for you...
The Woods Family <pandaw23@hotmail.com>
Peterborough, ON Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 5:26 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian...your spirit never seizes to amaze me...you truly are beautiful souls. I admire both of you so much! I pray you find much comfort and peace in God's never-ending love and in knowing that Katelyn is always there with you, watching over you and loving you so very much. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us. Take good care and God Bless you and your family. Lots of hugs from Tracey (Kirky's Aunt)
P.S.Thanks also for the tree to be planted in memory of Katelyn...that's a beautiful idea and very touching.
tracey johnson <traysea64@hotmail.com>
toronto, - Thursday, April 7, 2005 4:09 PM CDT
HI Deb and Brian it's Tina just checking in to see how your doing i got your email back and i will let you know that tonight.
Tina <tcoral@sympatico.ca>
windsor, ont - Thursday, April 7, 2005 4:05 PM CDT
My heart goes out to you and your family, nothing is worse then losing a child. Keep up your strength and courage. You are in my prayers.
Susan Vollans
Essex, ON Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 3:12 PM CDT
Hello Debbie and Brian...I was reading the Windsor Star Review and came across your BEAUTIFUL baby girl and just had to go to the website yous had there for her ...the rawness in my throat and the tears in my eyes couldn't stop me from going on and reading more and more about Katelyn...I just want to thank you both for sharing her with me ...I hope you's will be okay I know it is hard and I could never image the pain you and your families are going through but my prayers are with you.... and sorry for your loss .... she was indeed a BEAUTIFUL baby girl !!!
Paula & Yves Michaud <pthebreeze@aol.ca>
Staples, Ont Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 2:35 PM CDT
Good day Brian and Deb. Just wanted to let you know I was here. To all those Tilbury people I have tickets for the fundraiser. You all know my address, phone # and email so be sure to get your tickets!!! If I don't hear from you this week I'll be calling you. $10.00 adult $5.00 child Michelle
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 2:11 PM CDT
LOVE BRENDA
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Thursday, April 7, 2005 1:00 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian, My name is Lisa and Iam Kellys and Kirkies friend and just wanted to let you know how sorry Iam for your loss and I will be planting a tree that Kelly gave me in memory of your darling Katlyn. God bless and stay strong.
Lisa Mackay <lisa29mackay@yahoo.ca>
Georgetown, Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 12:44 AM CDT
I have tears in my eyes. A friend of mine, who also has a disabled child, told me about your website a few weeks ago. I have been thinking of you and praying for you all. I am so sorry. I admire your strength and love and the special things you are doing to preserve Katelyn's memory. Take care.
Trudy
Harcourt, ON - Thursday, April 7, 2005 10:42 AM CDT
Deb and Brian, Thanks so much for getting back to me so quickly. And thanks for letting my family release some ballons for Katelyn. I promise to take lots of pics and of course I'll send them to you. I'll be back and tell you how it all went.
Lisa , Paul, Shawn, and Jorden Aguiar <paguiar@sympatico.ca>
Kingsville, - Thursday, April 7, 2005 9:53 AM CDT
Good Morning Friends...So wish we were closer...would be there at the pasta dinner in a flash (Brandon's favorite food heehee). Hope everyone is pulling through. Brandon got a note from Toby and it just make his day!!! I am so proud of him! Thank you again Deb & Brian...funny I keep having to say that!!!
luv
Mur <muriel.gibson@sickkids.ca>
Scarborough, On Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 8:38 AM CDT
Hi guys! Just a small note to say hello and see how you are doing. Tell the family that if they need ANY help with the dinner to call on us and we will help in any way that we can. Hope that you are all holding up well, and we will call soon. Love,
Jerry, Joyce, Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
CHARING CROSS, ONT CANADA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 7:55 AM CDT
Good Morning, I hope you both got some rest last night! {{HUGS}} to you all
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Tilbury, On - Thursday, April 7, 2005 7:32 AM CDT
Just me again! Now that I have a little more time, I was able to really read through some of the wonderful things you've shared on this site. It is truly beautiful and your words have touched me...I recently became a Mom and you both have inspired my husband and I to never take one day for granted with our child. What a gift God has given.
*In case you don't remember me...I used to date Doug many moons ago! I was Celena Gardiner and now am Celena Zanuttini.
All our love and prayers.
Celena <cczanuttini@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, ON Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 6:35 AM CDT
I'm signing in!!! (I see you didn't sign in yet Kathy and I know you are reading this) Doesn't that just TICK you off Deb and Brian!!!!!!!!
I seen how Debbie has to add entries and it is a good thing Brian the Technician is there to help because you have to be a real computer whiz to update (which I am not)
Now that Debbie and Brian know about the pasta dinner!!!!
If anyone is interested : contact a family member near you. Our E-mail addresses are at the bottom when we sign in.
As we were talking about the benefit, I was totally amazed at the added expenses you have when there is so many trips to appointments, hospital stays etc., the worst part is your work week gets shorter with every appointment ( I know Brian---there was no option)
I will be the first to admit I never donated to families because I always thought there was outside, funding etc. and I never realized how much a little bit of help goes a long way. I don't think anybody in this family would think twice about helping families with sick children now.WOW guess what, I've learned alot!
Brian and I said "WHY HELP OTHER FAMILIES, IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN TO US!"
Bonnie
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 6:31 AM CDT
Good Morning,
Just touching base... Hope you guys are doing okay.
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On - Thursday, April 7, 2005 4:31 AM CDT
Hey Deb and Brian. I just wanted to express my condolences, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I wasn't able to attend the services but my heart was there. Katelyn was a very special child who touched all of our lives in many different ways. I will miss her but I know she is smiling down on us giving us rasberry kisses and singing the got milk song. Take care guys, you will always be in our hearts.
Andrea form sick kids <orooror@yahoo.com>
toronto, ont canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 1:13 AM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb
The two of you are seem like such incredable people. I am glad Kelly has had the opportunity to meet you. I am proud to call Kelly my cousin, she simply amazes me. As do all of you parents of special needs children. It is through all of you that I am gaining a deeper understanding as to what my sister in-law has been through. She too lost her little boy in Sept of 2002 at the age of 5. He was also a special needs Angel.
Thank you to all of you for sharing so much with all of us. God Bless You.
Kathy Graham <bgraham0013@rogers.com>
Bolton, On Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 9:59 PM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb just checking in to see how you guys are doing i hope everything is going well and i know how to put video clips up here so get back to me if you'd like and i can email it to you on how to do that if you still need to know
Tina <tcoral@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ont - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 9:08 PM CDT
This is for Toby
Thinking about you & hoping your doing alright.I wish we could have had more of a vist on last friday,i was hoping you & Kathy would have stopped by the house before you's left to go back home .Sounds like Kelly wants a girls weekend so don't be surprised if you get kidnapped. You have to admit it does sound like fun.TAKE CARE & say hello to Kathy
luv conn
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, on - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 9:04 PM CDT
Hi Just thinking of you and sending our love.
Hugs to both of you.
Love Aunt Anita & Uncle Allan.
Anita Dupuis <dupuisranch @ aol .com>
Tilbury, On Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 9:04 PM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian just checking to see how you are doing. The pictures are great. It is a wonderful idea of planting the trees. Take care. Donna Cullen (mom to Kelsie CDG type unknown)
Donna Cullen <dcullen007@hotmail.com>
Farmington Hills, MI USA - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 8:55 PM CDT
Hi there, just stopping by to see how you's are doing. Thinking about you.
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 6, 2005 8:49 PM CDT
Hi Guys,
Just lil ol' me stopping by to say hello. Thanks for the update cause I've been worried about ya. This seems to be the hardest time for a lot of the other families - when you're so used to your time being totally occupied by caring for Katelyn and now you don't know what you're supposed to do with yourselves.
Please know that I'm here to share the painful feelings with too if you need to talk. Don't you dare worry about upsetting me. If you don't want to flower things up and just want to tell the awful truth of what you're going through, then go for it. I know it's not your style and that you two have each other to tell all those feelings to, but I'm here to listen to it all if you need me. Believe it or not, sharing your experience, no matter how difficult it is, is very therapeutic to me.
Kirk's not been great. His sats are dipping frequently which is unusual. I've been spending most of my time trying to get him to cough. Tonight we went out for a 2 hour walk though which was nice. Got to chat with some neighbours and get some fresh air.
I'm beat though, my night nurse went home with the stomach flu at 10:30 last night, Kirk woke at 5 a.m. for the day, my day nurse was away with a sore throat today and my day nurse tomorrow has a bug now too. I'm not having much luck with nursing these days. I had so many mito march things to do tomorrow but I guess they'll have to be put on the back burner. Don't know if Friday's shift will happen either if she had a sore throat today.
Touch wood, Kirk seems better than last evening though so maybe he'll have a better sleep and me too.
Say hi to everyone for me - Michelle, Bonnie,Connie,your moms, and Brian's dad. They've been great by writing me this week and I haven't had a moment to spare. Lots of your friends and family have checked in and I so appreciate it. You know how much it means!
Tell them I'm comin down again though sometime soon so we can have a fun weekend. I'll have to get Muriel and Toby too and anyone else who's into it for that matter.
I've just realized that I can catch a ride with my friends next door, Dan and Pauline. They're down that way all the time cause her parents are in Windsor and Dan's are 20 minutes from Leamington. I could just get them to drop me off on the corner and thumb my way to your place LOL.
Your benefit would be the perfect time but it's a Wednesday night and unfortunately that falls on my nurse-free days. Who knows maybe I can swing something.
Anyway, I'll sign off now. For some reason I've got a wicked craving for popcorn??
Hang in there,
love you guys,
Kelly and Kirkie xoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 8:38 PM CDT
Just stopped by the site to read more of the wonderful stories about your daughter. I visit caring bridge for a couple other people we know, so now yours is on the routine tour. You both are such an inspiration to everyone, your strength is amazing. We can see how you have treasured every moment you had with Katelyn. She was such a blessed little girl to have such wonderful parents as you. You continue to be in our prayers and we look forward to more of your entries. Take care.
Mark, Tammy & Ricki Ann Drew <tammy@vehicleventure.com>
Tilbury, on Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 8:36 PM CDT
Debbie,
Last night I went over to my Mom's just because that's what we do now that Dad is gone. A phone call just doesn't cut it. I need to see her face to face to be sure she is o.k. I was lucky enough to run into your Mom. She had come down for a visit. I was so hoping that they could get together because they are going through the same thing and will be comfort for each other. Ya, you're trying to figure out who this is right!? It's Anita Hayes (Gagnier). I was able to hear a little about Katelyn's story from your Mom. She is such a proud Grandma. I was very interested in hearing, as I work with children with special needs at The Children's Rehabilitation Centre in Windsor. She told me about you website. It's a beautiful dedication to your daughter. I can barely see this print as my eyes are teary. You were given a very special gift in Katelyn. Your gratitude for your gift is endearing and because I have two gifts myself that are healthy and happy and full of life (Jacob and Amy)your story touches my heart deeply.
I find it interesting how we grew up on the same road, hadn't seen each other in many years, but our paths crossed again at your Dad's funeral. One day before my own Dad's funeral. It was there that I got to meet your beautiful girl. I didn't know anything about Katelyn that day, but really wanted to reach out and touch her, and hold her, but really didn't because I was a stranger to her. I wish I had, as I would have touched an angel. I don't know what it's like to loose a child that has been with you for such a short time. I do know what it feels like to loose a child to a miscarriage and those are my baby angels in Heaven. My heart goes out to you. I pray for you to find comfort and peace on your journey.
In thought and prayer,
Anita <tehayes@gosfieldtel.com>
Cottam, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 8:18 PM CDT
Nighty night friends.xoxoxo Try and make sure you get your rest....luv ya
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scar, On Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 7:52 PM CDT
hi guys, sharon and jason here, thinking of you and sending you hugs
Sharon (Jason's Mom) <mag5jas2@rogers.com; http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/jason>
Gormley, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 7:47 PM CDT
Hey Deb and Brian, Just wanted to say Hello, we are still thinking about you and you family..Your still in our prayers...
Brian and Elaine Breynaert <cuttiepie114@hotmail.com>
Chatham, ont Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 6:39 PM CDT
Brian & Deb, Just popping in to say hello and let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. A friend of the Kilbride family, Wendy.
Wendy <wendyparent@sympatico.ca>
Georgetown, On - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 5:32 PM CDT
Remember, God doesn't close a door without opening a window.
I'm deeply sorry for your loss.
Celena Zanuttini <cczanuttini@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 5:13 PM CDT
Deb and Brian, my thoughts are still with you and i hope you are doing ok bye
Justina Warren <justina_1010@hotmail.com>
Windsor, Ont Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 4:48 PM CDT
Deb & Brian,
Your quite welcome. I am glad you were happy with the picture.I know it means alot to you and ohthers to be able to see the releasing of the balloons and i was happy to be able to ajust the picture for you.If there is anything else you need please don't hesitate to ask us. You know we are both here for you guys.
Sue & Brozy <susieq@netrover.com>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 2:47 PM CDT
Brian & Deb, My thoughts and prayers are with you both, and with Katelyn. She WILL live forever in our hearts!! Mom, Wyatt and I are heading outside right now to plant Katelyn's trees. I pray you both find the strength to get through the rough times ahead. Never forget that beautiful angel of yours is watching over you both and sending her love.
Lots of Love. Dee, Colin and Wyatt
Deanna Sayers <Dcsayers@aol.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 1:03 PM CDT
Continuing to read about the beautiful Katelyn and her loving family...
caringbridge.org/mn/kevinm
Deb Minkkinen <takvek@yahoo.com>
Coon Rapids, MN USA - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 11:52 AM CDT
Deb and Brian, my thoughts are still with you. I hope you are coping okay. Kirkie's Auntie Robin
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 11:46 AM CDT
Debbie & Brian, my heart goes out to you both & my prayers are with you. God bless you & keep you strong.
Kim Harlow <kymberlee67@hotmail.com>
georgetown, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 11:04 AM CDT
Dear Brian & Deb
Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you both. Sorry we couldn't be there on Saturday. Our thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Cyndi (nee Tilson) & Steve Lucier <theluciers@sioux-online.com>
Sioux Lookout, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 10:54 AM CDT
We have been thinking about you and are so impressed with your strength. The updates are wonderful - "talking" helps, doesn't it?
Take care...
Kris & Ellie, 3 years old, Mito - Leigh's <mkovalci@columbus.rr.com>
Powell, OH - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 10:51 AM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian,
Just wanted to let you know I was here and checking
to see how you were doing. Deb you're doing an amazing job keeping everyone updated with the events of the last week. The new pics are priceless.
Thinking of you often,
Love
Shumaila ( Zachary's mom cdg 1a)
Shumaila Desrochers <rayshum@rogers.com>
Brampton, - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 9:19 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian, I really wish I could have attended Katelyn's special day. I prayed for Katelyn and I will continue to pray for you. I could never imagine better parents in the world that would deserve to have an angel in their lives, even if the time was short. I ponder over and over in my mind what I could write here to bring you comfort, somehow I believe that will be one of Katelyn's miracles to you. I have this web page in my favorites folder and I hope to hear more and be able to see the video that you were saying you'd like to do. That would be so awesome. My son Jorden wanted me to tell you that he prayed for Katelyn too and that he will pray for you two night. Shawn sends his regards as well. I would like to do something special for her even though I never met her. Her life story has touched me deeply and I was wondering if it would be ok if my family released balloons for Katelyn this weekend? My family Easter is being celebrated this weekend because my mom was too sick to have it on time(she's fine now)and I have about 18 nieces and nephews and I think we could really get these balloons to rise up. Could you let me know how you feel about this. You can e-mail me at the e-mail address below. If you want let me know what message I could put in the balloons. If you rather we didn't I would respect that. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Lisa (Guenther) Aguiar <paguiar@sympatico.ca>
Kingsville, Ont Kingsville - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 9:12 AM CDT
You are all in our thoughts and prayers, i always asked michelle how your little girl was doing, and we are very sad at your loss, but we wil always keep her in our prayers and help in any way that we can. please be strong and god bless.
janice & kevin myers <kmyers@cogeco.ca>
tilbury, ontario Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 9:08 AM CDT
hey brian and debbie,
just checking in! hope to talk to you soon.
love you guys
krista, shelby and alyssa
krista crawford <kristaandjim01@hotmail.com>
leamington, on, - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 9:05 AM CDT
Morning everyone,
Just a quick entry to let you know I'm still checking in with everyone. Connie, thank you so much for the picture and as far as Deb not liking pictures of herself, 1) Deb your beautiful and 2)....what woman DOES LIKE pictures of herself????????? And gee Brian, you're kind of cute yourself! Have a good day....wish I was closer, Deb, then I could get one of your hugs and return it as well. xoxo
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 7:59 AM CDT
Good Morning Deb and Brian! Katelyn, Thank you for the beautiful weather we are having, I know the sun warms my soul!
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Tilbury, On - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 7:24 AM CDT
good morning Brian and Deb, just letting you know I was here I'm not scared of elmo but Bonnie and Connie horrified (LOL) Thinking of you always.Kyle has something to tell you 00hyftyuuiju.gn dv dgn t./;';[hk;kjgjkjmuhynhm k DID YOU GET THAT, I THINK IT SAYS I LOVE YOU AND WANT A HUG. Talk to you soon Michelle and Kyle.
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 6:32 AM CDT
DEAR BRIAN & DEB
JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU HOW BEAUTIFUL KATELYNS SERVICE
WAS ON SATURDAY. SHE WAS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL LITTLE ANGEL
AND YOU DID A GREAT JOB. IT IS SO AMAZING THE LIVES SHE
TOUCHED AND CHANGED. THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS.
LOVE AUNT ANITA.
ANITA DUPUIS <dupuisranch @ aol.com.>
TILBURY, ON CANADA - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 11:58 PM CDT
Dear Brian & Debbie,
Our deepest sympathy. Thank you for sharing Katelyn's journey. You are a beautiful family!
Jennifer, Jason, Jillian & Jackson Cook
Jennifer Cook <cbfarms@kent.net>
Tilbury, Ont Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 11:15 PM CDT
Hi there, I just read your update on what has been happening to you over the last few days, my heart goes out to you's and what a beautiful tribute to your daughter with the dove's, the trees and the balloons. I'm sorry I was unable to attend on Saturday we had a commitment with our son in London already, but I was thinking about you as the wind was blowing and remembering what I had read before about Katelyn loving the wind.
Keeping you's in my thoughts and prayers.
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 5, 2005 9:29 PM CDT
Hi debbie
i just wanted to let you know my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. i wish you all the best....Sheri
Sheri .K <purplerose_84@hotmail.com>
windsor, Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 8:57 PM CDT
As I stand there on a mountaintop,
as the great bird approaches,
She is small in my sight
but grows larger on approach.
Until I am blessed with a full sight
of her graceful wings,
Proud countenance and good company.
All too quickly she grows small again
on the horizon and disappears from view.
And I call out, "There she goes!".
But there are other mountaintops beyond me.
And at the precise moment when I note
the great bird's departure from my view
I know there are new eyes taking up the sight of her,
And fresh voices calling out: "Here She Comes".
>>This site is a wonderful dedication to a well loved child. Thank you for sharing.
Amber, Terry and Evan (Williams) <araird@rogers.com>
Cambridge, On Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 8:51 PM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb. I have been away from the site for a few days, but I want you to know that I have been thinking of both of you very often. Katelyn sure has wonderful parents. I bet one of those balloons full of love made it all the way to her so she could play with it. The doves I am sure were a special touch. Wings of Love! I don't know how you do it... maybe it is with Katelyn's help, but I am sure that there is inner strength you each have that has helped you all along. May you know that we are all praying for you and thinking of you.
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 8:47 PM CDT
Dear Brian and Deb,
We have visited Katelyn's site many times throughout the week and have been moved to tears time and time again while reading the messages. We had wanted so much to be there on Friday and Saturday but it wasn't possible. Thank you, Deb, for describing so many details and your thoughts during those challenging days. We knew that the celebration of Katelyn's life would be a very special special event because it revolved around an incredible little girl who innocently touched the lives of all who met her. We continue to pray for Katelyn and for the two of you as well.
Love from Terry, Ruth, Jordan and Ryan
Ruth D'Silva <ruthd@tertec.com>
Unionville, Ont. Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 7:55 PM CDT
We are thinking of you all! Thank you so much for taking the time to share with everyone your inspirational family!
all our thoughts and love Christine
Christine and Rob Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Tilbury, On - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 5:51 PM CDT
Dear Brian and Debbie
It is me again. Cori-Anne I wrote last night after a good cry, and a through read of your website. I was really moved by your whole story. I couldn't resist checking in today and seeing what had been said since I dropped my entry in the guest book. I have been consumed with thoughts all day of you and your family. I can see what an impact AGAIN your daughter has made... there were 29 entries since my first one last night! I am amazed at how much of an impact in her short life she has made on the world. The apple must not have fallen far from the tree because all these people are stepping in now to support you. You have taught Katelyn to be an amazing person and that has sure come out. She has been a special person to so many and still continues to inspire. I hope that what you both have brought out in Katelyn you can muster up together to help yourselves through these tough times. We know you have it in you, you taught Katelyn. Take care and know that people you two or Katelyn have never met are consumed with thoughts of you all at a tough time like now. Hug each other and hold each other dear and tight tonight,
Cori-Anne
Cori-Anne <fudgie@hotmail.com>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 5:41 PM CDT
Hi Brien and Debbie - My thoughts have been of you today - Stay safe and well - my prayers and blessings along with many others are with you- Theresa Mayea
Theresa Mayea <tmayea@cogeco.ca>
Windsor, On Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 5:23 PM CDT
Dear Brian and Debbie, Just wanted you both to know that I check the webpage at least twice a day.I think of you so much and I hope you are doing well. You are an inspiration to all. Until another time take care. With love Pat.
Pat Minello <nursesdose@aol.com>
Tecumseh, Ontario - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 5:12 PM CDT
Dear Brian and Debbie,Just wanted you to know that I check the webpage at least twice a day.I think of you both so much and I continue to pray that you are doing well. You are an inspiration to all. Until another time . Take care .With love. Pat
Pat Minello <nursesdose@aol.com>
Tecumseh, Ontario - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 5:04 PM CDT
Hi just me thinking about you, see you soon...Love SANDRA
Sandra Beacom <sandra,beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 1:50 PM CDT
Hi,
I got your link through reading Kirkland's webpage. Just to let you know I dropped by and read Katelyn's journey. What a beautiful little angel, my thoughts are with you.
Dawn Giles <kdgiles@sympatico.ca>
Georgetown, on canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 1:00 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian we dont know you very much but my husband Bill heard the bad news on Saturday afternoon by your neighboor Llyod McKeen we were very chock and are very very sorry to hear the news I (Jean ) just look at her website now and I cried so much . Bill and I we said it could been us because 16 years ago our son was born premeature of two months and he was in the hospital from Jan 13 to April 3 1989 after his birth they told us that he will not last 36 hours but I dont want make your sad even mine but just want to let you know that we feeled for you guys.You will be in my prayers for the courage that you need.
Take care
Jean Gough
Bill and Jean Gough <williamgough@sym.ca>
Wheatley, Ont Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 12:19 AM CDT
Hi there,
Well...as hard as it seems life just seems to keep going. I can on imagine how hard the upcoming days, weeks, I could go on are for the two of you and your family. I am hoping that you feel our positive energy and know that Katelyn is always with all of us. I'm still trying to deal with the fact of how strong you both were for Brandon. To included him in everything made all the difference in how he has dealt with Katelyn's passing. I have watched him go through anger, sadness and I now watch the care and love he puts into taking care of the tree which he planted (what an amazing tribute!). The two of you have been told many times what amazing people you are so here I am trying to find the words to describe what an inspiration you are to me personnally. I struggle with the thoughts and words that just don't seem to do any justice to what overwhelming love, comfort, strenght you give me and I have no idea how to return it to to either you or your amazing family! Katelyn has brought so many people together and you Deb & Brian continue her legacy of love & giving. I have tried many many versions of written words but still come up short...so I write this from the bottom of my tender heart when I say...thank you for extending my family. Although our lives will never be quite the same without Katelyn her smile & inspiration lives on and will provide Brandon and I with the strenght and courage to face whatever life throws at us. When Brandon takes to the ice again I know that Katelyn will be there supporting him with every stride.
Kelly, thank you for who you are...what an amazing surprize that true hearted people do exist. I know that life is difficult for you but still you strive to provide comfort to everyone you encounter. I am honoured to be able to say you are a new found friend.
Ok...I will come to a close. Hugs & kisses to everyone.
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, On Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 10:02 AM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian, It sound as if the service was a beautiful tribute to you beautiful daughter. I read your website daily and my family prays for you all daily. We were in Southbend IN. this weekend & stopped at the University of Notre Dame we went to the Grotto there & lite a candle for you both and Katelyn. Take care, God Bless Donna, John, Makenzie & Kelsie (CDG unknown type) Cullen
Donna Cullen <dcullen007@hotmail.com>
Farmington HIlls, MI USA - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 9:51 AM CDT
I have to write fast caused of the long up date I'll be late for work.
It was nice to hear from you and Brain. I was talking to my sisters that work at cottom die cast, with your uncle Murry,and how power full words are. It is just amaizing to see the write ups in the guest book. I told her about the one "I'm all ready here take a look around" by Lonestar. Yes the song done by Martina Mcbride is another killer that is so powerfull and loving. Well I hope that you and Brain are doing well and keep up this web page. I will be there for the benifit on the 27 of April.
Take care.
collette <csoulliere@5cogeco.ca>
- Tuesday, April 5, 2005 8:48 AM CDT
Hi Brian and Debbie you have no idea who i am my name is Tina i have kept updated about your daughter and you both as well i was just checking in to say hi and hope you guys are doing well.
Tina <tcoral@sympatico.ca>
windsor, ont - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 8:42 AM CDT
Good morning Brian and Deb
Hope you have a good day
Shelly
dewael family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
chatham, ont canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 8:41 AM CDT
Praying for you.
The Woods Family <pandaw23@hotmail.com>
Peterborough, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 8:29 AM CDT
Your journal is a beatiful tribute to your daughter. God Bless Katelyn's family.
caringbridge.org/mn/kevinm
Deb Minkkinen <takvek@yahoo.com>
Coon Rapids, MN USA - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 7:37 AM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian,
Saturday sure sounded like a wonderful tribute to Katelyn. I am so sorry we weren't able to be there in person but our thoughts and prayers were.
Love Sherry, Alan, Jeffrey & Jessica
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
Unionville, on - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 7:30 AM CDT
Good Morning,
Hope you guys have been getting some sleep... Sorry it has been a couple days. Mark and I planted our tree on Sunday. Loved the idea of the trees. "Great minds think alike" Glad to see that you were able to release the balloons. How great is it that someone found one and wrote to you guys!! Hope this day sees you happy.
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 4:37 AM CDT
Hi, Deb and Brian.
Just letting you know we're thinking about you.
Tanya, Curtis and Joshua <ctchambers@sympatico.ca>
Elmira, On Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 1:23 AM CDT
Thinking of you guys always! Being a mom of a 3 1/2 year old and a 10 month old little boy my heart goes out to you. Katelyn has really touched me. And you as parents have and had done a wonderful job. Thinking of you guys ALWAYS!
Katie Rodriguez <katierodriguez1175@yahoo.com>
Vandenberg Air Force Base, Ca USA - Monday, April 4, 2005 11:57 PM CDT
Thinking of you tonight and hoping things are okay and you've been able to keep busy.
One thing I need to share. (I know everyone - don't I ever shut up?)but I have to tell you!
I just about fell over when you said that 'Saturday Night' by the Bay City Rollers had a special significance for you guys (And yes, everyone...I am that old!! I think I was in grade 7 wearing tartan pants!)
Anyway, last year my sister Tracey and I had a mixed CD put together of songs from our childhood because we were all turning 4*&^%! (or already had shhh!)
I absolutely love to sing my heart out in the car with the music full blast- so being that I'd be having 7-8 hours of driving time over the weekend, I loaded up with lots of CD's for the ride down to Leamington.
By the time I was driving into the town of Leamington, Gerry was calling my cell phone wondering where I was but I couldn't hear the ring because guess what was blasting on the stereo? Yup...'Saturday Night' by the Bay City Rollers. Obviously, just for Katelyn! I only heard the ring once it had finished!
Pretty wild eh? And you thought you were the only ones who'd heard it since the 70's...
Don't view this as a coincidence, you know as well as I now do, that it was Katelyn. People who have passed over will come through if they know you're open to it. I've had so many of these types of validations from loved ones!
Anyway...just a tidbit for ya.
I'll chat with you tomorrow. Kirk's finally settled down a bit and is tolerating the Bi-Pap for the moment. The O2 is still high as is his heart rate. I wish I could just get some big coughs out of him. Probably at 5 o'clock in the morning he'll start up and need suctioning for an hour lol- the little bugger!
Sleep tight. Don't let the bed bugs bite!
love Kelly and Kirkland xoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Monday, April 4, 2005 11:11 PM CDT
I HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT YOU SINCE I READ ABOUT KATELYN.IAM SO TOUCHED BY HER. I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW YOU HAVE TOUCHED MY LIFE IN SO MANY DIFFERANT WAYS.
JENNIFER C <jchotmamma@hotmail.com>
LEAMINGTON, - Monday, April 4, 2005 10:52 PM CDT
Thinking of you guys every day, and sending lots of love. I so wish we could have come up to meet you last week at sick kids, I so wanted to give you a big hug.
Sharon (Jason's Mom) <mag5jas2@rogers.com; http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/jason>
Gormley, ON Canada - Monday, April 4, 2005 8:49 PM CDT
Hi Deb & Brian, The kids & I just got back in town and wanted to touch base with you all. I have felt so very bad that we could not make it back for the funeral and to help with anything during this terrribly difficult time for you all. Jery said that the services were very nice and that Katelyn is still the beautiful princess that he remembered. I have been looking at all of her pictures and find it so hard to believe that she is gone, but I am sure that it must be even harder for you both. The biggest of hugs and love to you both til we can get together. All our love,
Jerry, Joyce, Nicole & Hunter <namham@sympatico.ca>
CHARING CROSS, ONT CANADA - Monday, April 4, 2005 8:42 PM CDT
Deb & Brian
Just wanted to let you know, I'm thinking about you and hoping you are doing okay.
deb
Deb <cmdeb2003@yahoo.com>
Ruthven, - Monday, April 4, 2005 8:26 PM CDT
Hi Debbie & Brian
I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you!!!
Love,
Shumaila xoxo
Shumaila Derochers <rayshum@rogers.com>
Brampton, - Monday, April 4, 2005 8:19 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian
I,ll not make Elmo mad either, Your in my thoughts and Prayers. She sure touched a lot of people.She,s a special angel.
Take care and be strong
Janette Chevalier <janechev@jet2.net>
Leamington, - Monday, April 4, 2005 7:46 PM CDT
Dear Deb and Brian
Sounds like a beautiful funeral! She is certainly smiling on you now! Funny about the doves! When my Dad died there were doves too! Bet even the Pope has her on his knee! Thank you for keeping us all in touch.
Hugs and oodles of prayers!
Love
Mary (Campagnaro) & Mike Slade and the Kids (Lucas Hammond's friends) <mar-e@rogers.com>
Guelph, Ontario, Canada - Monday, April 4, 2005 7:34 PM CDT
Praying for the two of you this week
Cindy Cruz <rella19@verizon.net>
- Monday, April 4, 2005 7:26 PM CDT
Dear Deb and Brian
Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you.
Kathy Graham <bgraham0013@rogers.com>
Bolton, ON Canada - Monday, April 4, 2005 7:23 PM CDT
Hey Deb & Brian,
I must say you two and your entire family are such wonderful people, I'm fortunate that we've met.
God Bless You All
Kathie
Kathie Smith (Caillin's Aunt Dusty) <momma_dusty@hotmail.com>
Port Hope(less), ON - Monday, April 4, 2005 7:18 PM CDT
Hi Guys,
Shannon here. Just checking for an update and thinking about you. Love you!!!
Shannon <sleveille@hotmail.com>
- Monday, April 4, 2005 7:10 PM CDT
Dear Brian and Deb
I can only imagine what it is that you have had to endure these past few days. I am 28 years old. I work with infants in Chatham at a daycare. I was compelled to read all about Katelyn's and her website after reading about it in the Windsor newspaper from Saturday. I cut the clipping out with intentions of reading all about Katelyn next time I was online. I was really sad to hear about all the troubles you had with you little one but it is not hard for a stranger to see just how much Katelyn gave back to not just you both but the whole world. Katelyn shows so much personality in her pictures. It is really evident that she brought sunshine into everyone's life she encountered. Through your documenting online you can see that she brought you up at times when you didn't expect... with things such as raspeberries. Through your after thoughts like her Saturday Night song you can see how little things Katelyn did will bring you comfort in the time to come. I know that even though I never met Katelyn she has touched my heart and my life and I will not forget her. Any parent's dream for their child in life is to make an impression on someone else's life, and that she has done to me. Take Care of yourself and each other. Thanks for touching my life and being so memorable. Cori-Anne
Cori-Anne <fudgie@hotmail.com>
Tilbury, On Canada - Monday, April 4, 2005 7:02 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian: Just saying hello and wondering if you two are okay. You are still now and always will be in our thoughts and prayers. Keep supporting each other and together you can get thru anything. All our love Aunt Frankie and Wayne
Frankie Crawford <waygir@yahoo.ca>
Leamington, Ont Canada - Monday, April 4, 2005 5:17 PM CDT
I just wanted to come by and let you guys know that we are thinking of you.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Monday, April 4, 2005 4:17 PM CDT
Dear deb and Brian,
I was so pleased that Toby and Kathie had a chance to go and visit with you and the family on Friday. They were so glad to have gone up, even if it was for such a short while. The whole family was so wonderful to them.
Toby told me that Katelyn looked so beautiful and peaceful, no more pain.
It was thoughtful of you to put pictures of Katelyn's boyfriends, Brandon and Kirk, and also one of Caillin, and of course the dogs with her.
I'm sure you will miss Katelyn a lot, as we miss dear little Caillin, but we have to take comfort in knowing they are in a much better place with no more pain,
and together enjoying things they never had a chance to enjoy in this life.
(I can just see them with all that ice cream in their hair)
Prayer's go out to all of you.
Winnie (Toby's Mom) (Caillin's Memere)
Winnie Fairservice <jfairs0527@rogers.com>
Oshawa, On - Monday, April 4, 2005 3:30 PM CDT
BRIAN & DEB,
BRIAN WAS RIGHT THE PICTURES ARE GREAT. I WILL TALK TO YOU GUYS LATER. YOU GUYS ARE SO AMAZING.... THE GIRLS PLANTED THE TREE'S FROM KATELYN. SHE WILL NEVER LEAVE OUR HEARTS.
STEVE Z
Steve, Melissa & The Girls Zvaniga <szvaniga@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, - Monday, April 4, 2005 3:07 PM CDT
Hi Debbie and Brian,
It amazes me that you were comforting me during your difficult time!! What kind of people do that?!! I know, great people that can be grateful for what they have and had. Now that Katelyn is in heaven with your Dad is even more reason to trust in God because then you WILL see them both again forever. You will have a new and even happier daughter. You can and will make it through this, don't give up because you know Katelyn wouldn't and wouldn't want you to. Just picture seeing her in your Dad's arms smiling and it should help you smile too. I'm still praying for you.
Love your cousin, Michelle <mmandmm@sympatico.ca>
Maidstone, ON CANADA - Monday, April 4, 2005 2:59 PM CDT
Just to let you know someone is reading about your little Katelyn. Praying that God will comfort you through all your tears. Praying for peace and love to surround you today and for the weeks to come.
caringbridge.org/mn/kevinm
Deb Minkkinen <takvek@yahoo.com>
Coon Rapids, MN USA - Monday, April 4, 2005 12:57 AM CDT
Just dropping by to wish you strength and peace and let you know that you in the thoughts of many, many people. Your beautiful Katelyn touched more people than you could ever imagine!
Sara and ~Emily~ <waffle13@sbcglobal.netr>
Southern California, - Monday, April 4, 2005 12:43 AM CDT
I am writing to let you know I found a yellow balloon on the roof of my porch on 04/4/05. I just wanted to say I am very sorry about Katelyn. I know there are no words to help at this time but I am sure there are many prayers going out for you and your family.
Kathie Crouse
Avella, PA USA - Monday, April 4, 2005 11:22 AM CDT
Just lil'ol me checking in. I was glad to read that you guys let the balloons go yesterday. I will never forget the peace it left me with when we let balloons go for baby Jacob. My three beautiful babes are playing and taking care of each other.
Tiff
Tiffany Wilson <nursetuffy@rogers.com>
- Monday, April 4, 2005 11:13 AM CDT
Still praying for your peace and comfort.
The Hardin's <hardinrt@bellsouth.net>
Covington, GA USA - Monday, April 4, 2005 10:57 AM CDT
Hi Brian and Deb,
I am glad I got to be there even if for just a short time. I needed to be there. I am sorry I was nto able to be at the funeral ceremony but I am sure it was so touching and many beautiful words were spoken. Hang on to each other and family. You have so many people who are praying still. If you ever need anything of if I can be there for you in any way then please do not hesitate. Make sure you lean on those around you. You are both amazing parents and it is amazing to know you both. Take care.
Shannon and Tayler <sleveille@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, - Monday, April 4, 2005 10:00 AM CDT
Mornin Folks..hope you have a good day,even tho your Hearts are breakin..SANDRA
Sandra Beacom <sandra.beacom@sympatico.ca>
Leamington , On. Canada - Monday, April 4, 2005 9:54 AM CDT
Our deepest sympathy to you for the loss of your precious daughter, Katelyn.
Betty & Clare Congdon, ( Luann's mom & dad)
Cottam, ON CAN - Monday, April 4, 2005 9:52 AM CDT
Wow, Brian and Deb, You are all so lucky to have such great friends! Kelly you seem like a wonderful friend and truly write from the heart!
I am kinda glad that it's not so windy though! ;0) Think the girls foumd another game to play?
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Tilbury, Ontario - Monday, April 4, 2005 7:44 AM CDT
Good morning Brian and Deb
Thanks again for letting us share in your special childs life. Katelyn is very lucky to have had you for her parents. Yesterday Jeff and Rebecca planted the tree from Katelyn. Rebecca was so proud of the little tree everyone we seen she told about the tree. It was a very nice service and letting the birds go at the cemetary was very touching. Well I talk to you later. Take care.
P.S. Tell Kelly to stop making me cry.
Shelly
dewael family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
chatham, ont canada - Monday, April 4, 2005 7:33 AM CDT
Good Morning....as usual this is the first place I go to in the morning. Hope you are taking care of each other and I will give you a call soon.
luv / M
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, ON Canada - Monday, April 4, 2005 7:16 AM CDT
Thinking of you and remembering. Take care, we won't forget beautiful Katelyn or her wonderful parents. Margaret
Margaret Lintott <lintott@rogers.com>
Whitby, ON Canada - Monday, April 4, 2005 5:09 AM CDT
Just wanted to say Hi.
Janet Carson <jcarson@psi-hci.com>
Fairfield, oh USA - Monday, April 4, 2005 4:42 AM CDT
Hi,
Just stopping in to see how you guys are doing. Praying for you!
~Joanne’s Corner~
Joanne <joanne173@gmail.com>
- Monday, April 4, 2005 4:04 AM CDT
Dear Deb and Brian,
To start off, I can’t tell you how much I needed to be with you, Katelyn, and your family this past weekend. Thank you for letting me into your lives. Thank you for sharing your strength, your faith, your love, and your friendship. There are people who are unable to experience this sort of bond in an entire lifetime let alone in five short months.
Without reservation, I feel the need to tell you how I feel about you, Katelyn, your extended family…all of you!
I remember when I met you and Katelyn, Deb. You were wandering the halls of 7C and had brought Katelyn down to the window outside Kirk’s room and Alain was tagging along chatting up a storm.
Both you and Katelyn were so bubbly. I didn’t yet know why you were in but you told me Katelyn had been in hospital most of her life. You kissed her and tickled her and pulled her soother out to tease her and you were so happy. She was needing to have surgery to insert (I think) or re-insert her PICC line?? You expressed worry about that, but otherwise you were just so happy to be out wandering with a happy child.
Day after day we chatted and it amazed me that you were still so happy. You had no complaints about the hospital, about being there so often, about being separated from your family. It was painted all over your face that you were just thrilled to be together and it didn’t matter where it was as long as you could all love each other.
It was so nice and refreshing- to always see you enjoying Katelyn, giving her baths, getting her all cozy in her jammies or sweet little outfits and snuggling up with her wherever you were.
I remember when you were re-admitted and we were still there. As much as I didn’t want you to have to be there, I was excited to see you and looked forward to the sunshine you brought with you. And then I met Brian too and he explained how it had been a bit of a struggle with 7D to convince them to let him set up a cot in the room.
It was so beautiful when you both explained that this was the only family life you knew and you really didn’t know anything else. If they didn’t let him stay in the room, then what would you have? You didn’t even begrudge the fact that you had lived in this tiny peach- coloured hospital room for most of Katelyn’s life. It was a pure example of,”It doesn’t matter where we are as long as we have each other!” You were always so happy to be with one another.
And as Katelyn’s disease progressed and daily circumstances became graver, you continued to surround yourselves with love, positive outlooks, fun, and an incredible enjoyment of the small things in life. Brian, you never left them during this last hospital stay! Man…(granted you don’t have other kids to complicate the picture) what a catch you are!
You are such a caring, loving, sensitive, and gentle man- father -husband. I admire your devotion to your family so much. You are both so lucky to have each other. You are true examples of partners in every sense. May your love continue to flourish as the years unfold.
In fact, I think I’d be distressed if I had to think of either of you having to deal with this on your own. It is so comforting to know that you have each other to lean on. It’s a relief for me not to have to envision either of you alone. I know what strength you draw from one another. It really helps me feel ‘okay’ about Katelyn’s passing.
So…many times I’ve pondered your situation and I’ve been so proud to know you and watch you grow as a family. People ask me, “So how are they…really?” And I say, “They’re good, I mean… they deal with all this trauma in such a healthy way…They’re gonna be okay.” And I sometimes sense a bit of doubt as if, “How can any parent who’s gone through that be okay? Get real!”
“Well of course, “I think to myself, “they’ll go through their rough times and their hearts are aching as much as any parents’ hearts do at such a time. They’ll cry and think they’ll never feel better again. But…there’s something about Deb & Brian that in my gut says, they’ll be okay.”
For you find a way to lighten up the situation, and prefer to view things more positively. Silly little comments and one-liners bring smiles, appreciation, and relief to our faces – not pity, sorrow, and gloom. I don’t even know if I can paint this picture accurately because until one meets the two (three) of you he/she can’t really understand -but I think all who know and love you understand exactly what I’m trying to say.
Your friendship along with Katelyn’s life, are gifts from God and I will always remember the lessons you’ve taught me.
I am overwhelmed that you remembered Kirkland the way you did. I cried when I read Katelyn’s obituary, and was also so moved that “all three of her boyfriend’s pictures were buried with her, along with the angel bear that Kirkie wanted her to have.
You are never so self-absorbed to neglect the feelings of others. Do you realize how momentous this occasion was for Brandon? Of course you did. Why else would you have validated his (and Muriel’s) love for Katelyn by involving him in the ceremony and having him release Caillin’s dove? That great kid thinks the world of you three, just like the rest of us.
Thank you for asking me to read for Katelyn. It was such an honour to be included in this way. I am so touched that I was able to participate in your special tribute to Katelyn and am so very proud to have known her.
You have a special way of making each of your friends feel like they’re the most important person in the world to you. I’ve only known one other person who could make people feel that way, my friend and mentor Liz, who passed away a few years ago.
And while I used to wonder where all these qualities you both possess came from, now I finally know! MY GOD WHAT AN INCREDIBLE FAMILY YOU HAVE! I love them already. You know the saying,
“The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree”, well, it couldn’t be more true. No wonder you have so much love to give – they’re pumping it into you so fast that you can’t keep it contained!!!
So my dear friends, know how much you’re loved by everyone! I pray for peace for you, your family, and Katelyn. I also thank God for the gift of friendship. The good Lord works in mysterious ways. Who would have thought when our babies were born that their lives would affect so many and bring so many of us together?
How blessed we are to be their parents!
Love you all,
Kelly and Kirkland , of course!
xoxo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 11:31 PM CDT
hi Deb & Brian,
What you guys said yesterday really sunk in with both of us. It was a really nice speach you both made.It sure did make us think different about things. I Went to visit my nieces today and the first thing i did was pick them up and say "I LOVE YOU".
Take Care and thinking of you both
Sue & Dave
Sue & Dave (Brozy) <susieq@netrover.com>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 9:30 PM CDT
Hello deb & brian OK I sure would'nt want my buddy Elmo mad at me. Do as Elmo ask everyone pls hahaha
It's a wonder debbie will be able to read this with her sore eyes.(sorry i had to get even with deb)
It sure was cool letting the balloons go with the family tonight.Wonder how many the girls caught?? luv conn
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, - Sunday, April 3, 2005 9:21 PM CDT
Brian & Deb, I have been sitting here trying to think of something to write...and all I can think of is how sorry I am for your great loss. I am so thankful for that oppourtunity last week when I saw you all across the hall....she is such a tough little dinosaur and I'll miss her so much. My prayers and thoughts are with you. XOXO Dorothy aka "DoDo"
Dorothy Jarkiewicz <nursedottie@hotmail.com>
Toronto, ON Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 9:16 PM CDT
HI Deb and Brian. I check in once a day on the site to see how you are doing. You were on my mind a lot yesterday. I wish i could of been there for you but had to work . My prayes are with both of you ... Take care and bye for now..
Elaine and Brian Breynaert and Family <cuttiepie114@hotmail.com>
Chatham, Ont Cananda - Sunday, April 3, 2005 8:57 PM CDT
Deb and Brian,
You continue to be in my heart and in my prayers...(yes...I pray). This might sound a little self-fish, but AI am glad I got a chance to see on that Easter Sunday even if it was from a distance. It gave me some peace of mind to see that you were holding up. I am, though, very disappointed that I was not able to see Katelyn, but at the same time when I think of her it is always with that wonderful smile on her face and the way she gives her hugs and kisses...boy, I am going to miss those. I am sorry that I was not able to make it to the funeral, but again, I wanted to let you know that I am here for you guys if ever you need me (maybe perhaps to clean your room..hee hee.) Love you guys.
Anna Rosati (PSA) <rosatianna@sympatico.ca>
Toronto, ON Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 8:53 PM CDT
Hello there you guys. I read you updates. Every morning when I get up or when I go to bed....I always check for updates. Even still. Thanks for keeping them going. I know that is one small thng that I did because of Katelyn and some mornings it brings tears to my eyes, knowing that I will not see her again. I cannot imagine the emptiness that you feel. I am so sorry that I was not able to make it to the funeral on Saturday....I had a four letter day WORK.......Talk to you later... beth
Beth Lambert <elambe133@rogers.com>
Lodndon, On Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 8:27 PM CDT
The Global Prayer Team is sending prayers of strength and well being for Katelyn.......also of enduring courage for her Mom and Dad..........
and in a fine memorial tribute to Dr Wm.Mustard of Sick
Kids;Toronto and the many nurses who make the hospital
world class.............these are indeed the very heart of Sick Kids
" Tristram'
Stratford, ON CA - Sunday, April 3, 2005 8:01 PM CDT
Hi Brian & Debbie
Well, I'm not sure where to start. There is so much going on in my head I can't verbalize it all.
You did such a wonderful job celebrating Katelyns life, it was really beautiful all the small touches, beautiful words and symbolic gestures.
I feel very honoured to have met your family. I can see where you both get your strength. Your families are so kind, welcoming and supportive. I can see why God brought Katelyn to your family. You all are as special as she is.
Thank you for allowing us to share in Katelyn's day with you.
I pray that God continues to give you strength and peace.
Love,
Shumaila (Zachary's Mom CDG 1a)
Shumaila Desrochers <rayshum@rogers.com>
Brampton, - Sunday, April 3, 2005 7:41 PM CDT
hoping that you are doing okay
my prayers are with you.Kirkies' Auntie Robin xo
Robin Ginocchi <rginocchi@rogers.com>
Brampton, On Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 7:33 PM CDT
I read your page regular basis, thought it was about time I started letting you know :).Praying for your family, as you go through the difficult days ahead. God Bless
The Woods Family <pandaw23@hotmail.com>
Peterborough, ON - Sunday, April 3, 2005 7:29 PM CDT
Hi Brian & Deb, I am a friend of Michelle B. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families during this time. Treasure those memories forever. From looking at the photos on the website we can certainly see she was a beautiful princess indeed. Take comfort in knowing there are many people out there who are praying for you at this time. Take care
Mark, Tammy & Ricki Ann Drew <tammy@vehicleventure.com>
Tilbury, on Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 7:13 PM CDT
hi, just saying hello. Just wanted to let you know you're in my thoughts and prayers.
love lisa
lisa newman <lisanewman78@hotmail.com>
london, on can - Sunday, April 3, 2005 7:04 PM CDT
As usual my thoughts are to the you and your family...don't ever want to lose touch. Please feel free to email me whenever anyone needs to talk or just to say connect. Either hotmail or at Sick Kids.
xooxo
Muriel <muriel.gibson@sickkids.ca>
Scarborough, ON Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 6:49 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian: just a note to let you know that I am also feeling your loss.She was such a little fighter and fought as long as she could. You two will not ever regret the time spent with her and I'm sure your Love and Devotion will make a lot of other people sit up and take notice as to what is going on in their own homes. Don't forget when you are ready we have a lunch date O.K.Love to you Both
SANDRA
SANDRA BEACOM <sandr.beacom@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, On Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 6:39 PM CDT
Ruth Wall sent me the link to your site. We are so sorry for your loss.I think she was a very special little girl........and she has very special parents. My thoughts and prayers are with you.Treasure your memories........you have a lot of them I am sure.
Mary Richardson <richm@nbnet.nb.ca>
Rollingdam, NB Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 6:18 PM CDT
No one wants to make Elmo mad. Hope everyone is doing well. Awesome service and burial.
pandj
Staples, on ca - Sunday, April 3, 2005 6:14 PM CDT
Hey Brian and Deb. I'm so glad I got to meet your family yesterday, although Bonnie and I will always have 'our'weekend. I'm sorry I could not have been there Friday night. I would have liked to have seen Toby and spend some time with you. Deb, your nephew is cute!!
I'm so proud of Brandon. I know the anger he was feeling at not being able to visit princess puffy cheeks. It was shared by many of us! I'm also proud with Muriel and her ability to understand and be connected so closely with her son and recognize that being there yesterday was something he needed to do.
Brian, great directions. I'm going to miss you. Although being in hospital as often as you were is not ideal, I will miss you both so much. We have a connection and I feel you two knew me so well. Deb, you could always read me like a book. I could never hide anything from you! LOL
The following days will be very hard now that things have settled down, but don't think for a minute that people are not still thinking of you everyday and sending their love.
It was an honour to be Princess Puffy Cheeks nurse.
Love to both of you.
Tiff
Tiffany Wilson <nursetuffy@rogers.com>
RICHMOND HILL, - Sunday, April 3, 2005 6:00 PM CDT
Brian and Deb,
Our hearts go out to the two of you. Hold on to the good memories they will carry you though many long days and nights. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the days to come.
Terry and Sally Benge <benge@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, ON Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 5:43 PM CDT
Thru Katelyn, Brian & Debbie our family has grown by leaps & bounds. Although we would have preferred to meet our new Toronto family under different circumstances, it was OUR pleasure and honour to have met you. We can't thank you enough for the support, understanding and love that you have given and continue to give to Deb & Brian. You've touched our hearts with feelings that are indescribable and that will last a life time. You will always be members of our family. We love you all. Take care till we meet again.
Granny & Grandpa <kitlarry@netrover.com>
Tilbury, On - Sunday, April 3, 2005 5:23 PM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian...just dropping by to say Hi and to send my best wishes to you and your family. I was thinking of you yesterday and I'm glad to hear that Katelyn's celebration went well...even better than you imagined, I'm sure. It sounds like it was absolutely beautiful...just like your sweet angel, Katelyn. Boy, what a smile!! It sounds like you're staying strong and feeling very peaceful and I pray that continues for you. I'm so happy Kelly was able to be there with you...you and your family are very special to her. Although I haven't spoken with her yet, I know how special it was for her to be there and how honoured she is to have read the poem for Katelyn. I'm sure the whole experience was difficult for her, but she, as well as the two of you, are incredibly awesome souls! I will check in again, as I always do, to see how you're doing. Take good care of yourselves and Gos Bless you all. Love Kelly's sister, Tracey. Lots of HUGS.
tracey johnson <traysea64@hotmail.com>
toronto, - Sunday, April 3, 2005 4:08 PM CDT
OK EVERYBODY. IF YOU ARE READING THIS WE KNOW THAT YOU ARE SEEING THIS MESSAGE!
MAKE SURE YOU SIGN THE GUESTBOOOK. YOU ARE REALLY MAKING ELMO MAD, AND NOBODY MAKES ELMO MAD.
DEBBIE AND BRIAN REALLY NEED TO HEAR FROM YOU EVEN IF IT IS JUST YOUR NAME , IT DOESN'T EVEN MATTER IF YOU KNOW THEM!
bonnie
Aunt Bonnie
- Sunday, April 3, 2005 3:51 PM CDT
From. Tiffany Iam 5years old .aspecial prayer .Little deeds of kindness. Little words of love .Help to make the world happy ,like the heaven above .Give us father everyday ,work to do and time to play . Help us to be kind and good,to act like a children should Amen. It was nice to meet you Debbie and Brian .My mommy and I liked seeing the Doves at the Burrial it was beautiful for Katelyn.Love you always Tiffany and Angie Beniuk
Angie Marentette Beniuk <dhbeniuk@3web.net.>
Leamington , Ont. Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 3:09 PM CDT
From. Tiffany Iam 5years old .aspecial prayer .Little deeds of kindness. Little words of love .Help to make the world happy ,like the heaven above .Give us father everyday ,work to do and time to play . Help us to be kind and good,to act like a children should Amen. It was nice to meet you Debbie and Brian .My mommy and I liked seeing the Doves at the Burrial it was beautiful for Katelyn.Love you always Tiffany and Angie Beniuk
Angie Marentette Beniuk <dhbeniuk@3web.net.>
Leamington , Ont. Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 3:07 PM CDT
Hi Brien and Deb - I've read the guestbook and revisted Katelyn,s Journey - What a precious treasure she was and what a fabulous Mom and Dad that child had- I think that the purpose of Katelyn might have been to teach all of us the values of taking care of the great gifts (or loans) we have been given. Time is really a passing flash of seconds to preserve - Blessings and prayers are being sent to you for your courage, sensitivity and sharing and unselfishness for all we learned and came together. Theresa Mayea
Theresa Mayea <tmayea@cogeco.ca>
Windsor, On Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 1:26 PM CDT
Hi Brain and Deb,
How are you? I've been checking the site but had not sign the guest book till now. Just wanted to say hi and god bless.
dh
windsor, on canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 11:43 AM CDT
Good morning Deb & Brian and family,
Where do I start?
My brain’s still so foggy from everything. I tuned in last night and this morning and everyone’s already been on and said a lot of what I want to express. That’s okay though! I wanted to at least write a bit of an update last night on Kirk’s page for my friends and family who are anxious to hear about my trip to Leamington but I conked out at 8 p.m. only to wake up to a 2:30 a.m. power outage. That’s always scary now ever since the big one in 2003. The sat monitor only has 2 hrs of battery life and there’s only so much portable O2.
Something told me to drive home yesterday despite the winter storm threats. I’m glad I did though ‘cause poor Gerry would have been in ‘fine’ shape had I shown up today instead. The power was out for several hours and Kirk needed constant monitoring while the sat monitor was off.
It’s quite blustery and windy in Georgetown today. I think we brought Katelyn’s Leamington wind home with us!
Thanks Brian for the great directions to the 401- Tiff and I had no problems.
I need to let you know how awful I felt leaving you ALL yesterday! I don’t think I’ve ever connected so closely with a group of people in such a short period of time. What a wonderful, caring family you are. Everybody made me feel so much like part of the family as with Muriel, Brandon, Shumilia, and all the other ‘Sick Kidders’.
I have so much to write but there’s too much chaos around here right now. At this time I’ll keep it to “Hi, I hope you’re okay.” I know that these next few days might be the hardest. I pray that the strength Katelyn has given you, remains with you and that you’re able to cope as positively and miraculously as you have throughout this whole experience.
While your nephew was describing his view of a miracle during yesterday’s service, I was thinking of your strength as being the miracle! I realize though that there have been many. My God, you three have given me such a gift. Thank you for helping me to realize that I CAN DO THIS – IT WILL BE OKAY AND I'LL GET THROUGH ALL THIS. I’ve been so scared to imagine what the future holds for us.
How many times have I prayed to God to please help me and give me the strength to cope? Then a mere four months ago, he sent your family into my life. And hence, I have witnessed the miracle of God’s love. He’s demonstrated it through ALL OF YOU! Thank you. I feel like I have a whole new family now. You’re an incredible source of inspiration to me and I look forward to continued friendship with all of you. Kirkland couldn’t have brought better in-laws into our family! lol xo
I’ll write lots more. There’s a whole process I have to go through before I can put words down on a page. There’s a lot of composing that goes on while I’m doing dishes, cleaning up –lol and only then can I start to write. I haven’t had that chance yet but I’ll be back later on to pour my heart out.
I love you all,
Kelly xo
Kelly Kilbride <kilbridek@yahoo.com>
Georgetown, On Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 10:40 AM CDT
thinking of you!!!your strength is incredible!
Katie Rodriguez <katierodriguez1175@yahoo.com>
Vandenberg Air Force Base, Ca USA - Sunday, April 3, 2005 10:36 AM CDT
Wow, I checked in even before my morning coffee! hee hee! So I better make it short so there aren't too many mistakes! We are thinking of you all!
Christine and Rob Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Tilbury, - Sunday, April 3, 2005 9:18 AM CDT
Good Morning Brian and Debbie: I was thinking of you and wanted to send my love to you both. I was truly amazed and touched at Katelyn's memorial service yesterday. I give you both all the thanks that I possibly can for showing me the courage and strength that you both have. I am very proud to say I am you aunt.Katelyn was and still is a very lucky little girl to have had you two for parents as you are to have had Katelyn for your daughter. All our love and prayers to you . Love Aunt Frankie and Wayne
Frankie Crawford <waygir@yahoo.ca>
Leamington, Ont Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 8:45 AM CDT
Dear Deb & Brian,
It seems like a morning ritual that I have to check Katelyn's site. Please keep it up to so we can remain in contact.
Sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, on - Sunday, April 3, 2005 8:41 AM CDT
Morning guys...just couldn't start my day without letting you know I was thinking of you all. Stay stong & positive. But..gee what are those little angels getting up to in heaven..wheather is very suspicious.LOL.
Love ya!
Mur <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, ON Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 8:16 AM CDT
Hi Deb and Brian
I see that I am not the only person making spelling mistakes on the guestbook, through the tears, the spelling always looks good. I am glad to know Katelyn is still doing her job well.
I know that you both wanted to give Katelyn a perfect memorial and you did. Once again you two set your pain aside and made sure you did everything you could for your little girl. The little touches you's made were sensational, I know that Katelyn was looking down and knew that you didn't leave out anything and your expression of your love for her showed through all of the little details you added.
I am just amazed with the strength you recieved from Katelyn to be able to say your final tributes at the service. That took so much courage and your love for her was felt by everyone as you shared your stories with us.
You gave your daughter a wonderful memorial, like you have said "She Deserves The Best" and she got it.
It was so nice to meet our Toronto family. Taking the time to be there for you showed us why they were such an important part of your life. All of them are so special.
Brandon especially will leave a mark on our hearts forever.(I knew Katelyn has good taste in men)
I know there was so many people that would of made the trip if circumstances were different but I know they were all thinking of you in thier hearts.
Bonnie
aunt bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont can - Sunday, April 3, 2005 7:56 AM CDT
GOOD MORNING BRIAN AND DEB just wanted to let you know I was here. I'm at a loss for words. You both really touched us yesterday and Scot even came home and was like a different person with the boys it was amazing. You know how much we love you and wow Kyle sure loved aunt Debbie's hug on Thursday. It was much needed. Give us a call anytime for anything. Muriel, Brandon, kelly and all the other Toronto family again it was just incredible to meet you all. YOU REALLY ARE THE BEST PEOPLE. Take care and we will talk to you soon. lots of love Michelle
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 7:35 AM CDT
Good morning Brian and Deb... I can't wake up with out thinking of you two and your family. Let us know if there is anything we can do.
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Sunday, April 3, 2005 7:10 AM CDT
LOVE BRENDA
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Sunday, April 3, 2005 0:00 AM CST
We were thinking about you today. Listening to the wind and the rain. We are sorry about your loss. It reminds us not to take our own children for granted and to take more time to spend with them and that other things that need to be done can certainly wait. Taking one day at a time. Love Darlene, Mike, David and Emma
Darlene Bell-Lafleur <darmike@kelcom.igs.net>
Stoney Point, ON Canada - Saturday, April 2, 2005 10:42 PM CST
Deb,Brian Hey Brandon's already beat me to the keyboard I see, he's a good boy who loves you very very much. Never a bad thing to have 2 sets of parents. I have so very much to say but don't know where to start...it would also help if I could see the keyboard through my tears. Don't know how to express the events of the last 2 days. Katelyn's glow will always be with me....the pain of losing her although overwhelming at times, subsides when I think of her with her Grandpa & Caillin,bet you she's taking care of the two of them with the same strenght & love that the two of you have so freely given to not only your family but to Brandon & I as well. To both your families, this is the hard part for me...I have NEVER felt so completely accepted and loved as I have these past 2 days. You are all amazing and it is easy to see where Deb and Brian get their love and generosity. Although it was a long drive home with many tears, happy stories, everything rolled into one, it gave Brandon the opportunity to let me know his expectation of visiting you all this summer. As usual he has Mom wrapped around his little finger (gee I wonder who taught him that skill, Katelyn!!) and we will be in touch with plans to visit our new found family. Seems I haven't even said half of what I'm feeling. We love you all very much, take care of each other and Deb & Brian we are always just a phone call away.
xoxoxooxoxox
Muriel Gibson <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, On Canada - Saturday, April 2, 2005 7:42 PM CST
hey it,s me Brandon thanx for all the love your family is so sweet katelyn was a very special girl you were given a gift but tgis gift was not your ordinary gift you wer blessed with a very charming loving little girl its to bad that she had to leave us so soon but she is in no pain she shakin her booty to the wiggles and doing everything she cuoldent do on earth so i wish you all the best and il talk to you later....
Brandon <BG_V1@hotmail.com>
Toronto, Ontario Canada - Saturday, April 2, 2005 7:01 PM CST
I just met Katelyn last week through your website and was drawn to such a sweet little dumplin'. I'm glad you could find some peace in such a sad time.
All my very best!
Lisa <loumicsmom@comcast.net>
Dallas, TX USA - Saturday, April 2, 2005 6:12 PM CST
Debbie & Brian.You's had such strength these past 3 days. I,like so many others felt that strength and wonder how come its you's who made us feel better,it should have been the other way around YOU KNOW (family joke)It sure was great meeting the people who shared so much with you's the past 18 months in toronto.We can now put faces with the names. The thing's you 2 shared with us last night helped more than words can say.Thank you for being so kind and caring.Only you 2 would worry about how much everyone else was hurting. You & Brian where our strength and the best parents i have ever met.But how could you not be, with the SQUIRT as a daughter.She was the best for the best. By the way if Brandon reads this Im sorry you left before I had a chance to say good bye,it was nice meeting you since i heard so much about you. TAKE CARE
Connie <connie.beacom@sympatico.ca>
leamington, ONT - Saturday, April 2, 2005 6:02 PM CST
I hope all is well. Everyone that has heard your story is very touched by it. Know that your daughter has touched my life
May God comfort you in this time
Lisa Wickham
Leamington Salvation Army
Lisa Wickham <lisajohn9 @sympatico.ca>
Leamingtgon, - Saturday, April 2, 2005 4:16 PM CST
My heartfelt prays are with you both as you go through this time of loss
Laura Wallingford <orange_laura19@hotmail.com>
Leamington, Ontario Canada - Saturday, April 2, 2005 3:34 PM CST
I know we just talked but I just wanted to say thank you for letting us share in Katelyns (aka...Princess Puffy Cheeks) special day.
"She sure knows how to make it a day to remember"!!!!
You guys are unbelievable parents and may your love keep you strong in the hard times.
Love Nichole, Mark, Sara, 2-4 and Flash <nvanderveer@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, On - Saturday, April 2, 2005 3:15 PM CST
To Deb,Brian and families: Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. Love the Baker and Hanson families.
Donna Baker <donbak63@hotmail.com>
Woodslee, ON Canada - Saturday, April 2, 2005 3:03 PM CST
hello again, i hope everthing is going well for yourselves and your family, i signed your guestbook last night and mentioned my son Carson was also in the hospital, i continued this afternoon looking at pics of your beautiful daughter and reading your journal, how wonderful! When i first heard Katelyn's name it sounded so familier then i read that she saw santa and got the monkey named "coco" it rang a bell, Carson was at sick kids and also saw santa and talks to his friend coco as well we were on floor 6 and on 7th floor in london i'm sure we probably crossed paths at one time or maybe even a hello, everything just sounds so familiar, take care, your strength and courage is unforgetable!
Stacie St. Pierre <mikstace@mnsi.net>
Amherstburg, Ontario, Canada - Saturday, April 2, 2005 2:15 PM CST
Tubby, if you don't remember me, I'm Kayla, Terry's daughter. In the past, we've spent so much time together and you are by far one of the greatest and most memorable people I've met. Katelyn is blessed to have a person like you for her father. I am amazed by yours and Deb's strength, and I'm very sorry for your loss. I want you to know that my family and I will be here for you both every step of the way.
Kayla Walker <chikk_flikk24@hotmail.com>
Charing Cross, Ont Canada - Saturday, April 2, 2005 1:02 PM CST
Dear Deb & Brian,
I couldn't make it today but am thinking a lot about the wonderful celebration of Katelyn. Can hardle wait till my mom can fill me in.
Love Sherry
sherry <sherryd@tertec.com>
unionville, on - Saturday, April 2, 2005 12:16 AM CST
It's amazing, all that time you spend trying to figure out what to say, and all of it just dissapears, but you know that's okay, because you really don't need to say anything.... and geez, I couldn't have gotten anything out last night anyway! LOL!
I am so glad that Rob and I went to see you last night! We both felt almost like we were intruding, with Rob not having seen Brian in so long, but with seeing Michelle so often, we felt better, well I did! Scary isn't it for just a couple minutes I was worried about how I felt.
It is so amazing how one little girl can touch so many lives, I know the first thing I wanted and still want to do in the morning is check Katelyn's special place on the web to see how everything is! I love looking at all her beautiful smiles!
Brian and Deb, I know we said it last night, but you have amazing strength and Love! Katelyn was blessed to have such wonderful parents as were you to have such a wonderful little girl! It is unreal how you comforted US, should it not have been the other way around?!
Katelyn is a beauty, so soft, looking like a doll! Fly sweet girl and enjoy your time! Play till you are laughing so hard your can't play anymore! And you know everytime it's windy, I will think of you too, I know I did with the wicked wind last night and today!
Brian and Deb, don't change! I really hope I get the chance to get to know the both of you better! And I am so glad I got to meet Katelyn last night! I'm thinking of you and your families!
Thank you for reminding us of how precious our children are! Thank you Katelyn for being such a wonderful Teacher.
Christine and Rob Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Tilbury, On Canada - Saturday, April 2, 2005 11:25 AM CST
Dear Brian and Deb,
I will miss all the night's katelyn and I stayed up keeping each other awake. I am glad I got to see her one more time. But she is in a better place now. She will be in our memories forever.Take care.
Love Shawnette
Shawnette <Shawnette11@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, April 2, 2005 10:48 AM CST
Dear Deb and Brian,
Thinking of you and praying God gives you the strength you need today and in the day's to come.
You're in my prayers always.
Love Winnie
Winnie Fairservice <jfairs0527@rogers.com>
Oshawa, On - Saturday, April 2, 2005 10:34 AM CST
Dear Deb and Brian...You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you a beautiful celebration of Katelyn today, that's filled with much love, strength and peace. God Bless all of you. Love Tracey
tracey johnson <traysea64@hotmail.com>
toronto, - Saturday, April 2, 2005 9:47 AM CST
Hi my name is Tina i have been reading all about your wonderfull daughter she was most certanily a fighter till the very end i am so sorry for your loss i couldn't even imagine you have an angel now you don't know me but i just wanted to come by and say how sorry i am for the loss of your beautiful baby girl
Tina <tcoral@hotmail.com>
windsor, ont - Saturday, April 2, 2005 8:55 AM CST
i've been sitting here for 20 minutes trying to write something but every time i think of something i remember that we are out of kleenex! i'll just say HI and we are all proud and honoured to have you both as friends. anything-anytime!!
whale and family <jeffdewael@yahoo.ca>
- Saturday, April 2, 2005 6:50 AM CST
Hey Aunt Michelle
Enjoy the moment.
Your mom and I have a loss for words.
Aunt Bonnie
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Saturday, April 2, 2005 6:09 AM CST
I woke today with tears... may you find the strength to go through this day... my thoughts are with you and your family. May you feel Katelyn's little hands in your hands as she stands between you and Brian and Deb may you feel your Dad's had in your other, as they both comfort and reassure you... and on your shoulder may you feel the loving hand of God being there for you in His ever present way.
Karen McPherson <idociam@hotmail.com>
Bowmanville, ON - Saturday, April 2, 2005 5:13 AM CST
Good Morning Brian and Deb. Yesterday was so wonderful to finally meet your Toronto family they are all INCREDIBLE and Toby do you here the fun those girls are having right now. They must be running in circles up there the wind is just howling. Do you think Grandpa Doug is getting his exercise chasing them? Brandon you are an absolutely wonderful boy and I am sooooo glad we got to meet, it is know wonder Katelyn loved you, she sure has great taste.
So mom and Bonnie where are your entries for today I know darn well neither one of you is still sleeping!!! Your listening to that wind and thinking of all the fun they are having too(LOL) Love you all and will see you soon. Michelle
Michelle Bunney <smbunney@sympatico.ca>
Tilbury, ON Canada - Saturday, April 2, 2005 4:58 AM CST
Dear Brian & Debbie: Thanks for sharing your pictures etc.of your beautiful daughter Katelyn.....I "really" enjoyed looking at them (not finished yet though). What a little dolly!!! My daughter Krista, died in an accident almost 9 years ago...she was 11 years old.....and I bet you that she is up there taking care of Katelyn for you. I just want you to know that my thoughts will be with you today, the day of her funeral....and I'll write again sometime.....feel free to do the same. Love Simonne
Simonne McNorton <smcnorton@cogeco.ca>
- Saturday, April 2, 2005 0:32 AM CST
Dear Deb and Brian, I will always remember Katelyn's angelic smile that would light up the room and warm our souls. I was one of the pediatric residents from London and it was a privilege to help take care of your beautiful daughter. You were incredible parents who were inspiring to us all. This website is an amazing tribute to Katelyn. My prayers are with you as well as Katelyn in heaven.
Ryan Hung <rhungca@yahoo.com>
London, ON CANADA - Saturday, April 2, 2005 0:24 AM CST
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers although I didn't have a chance to meet your wonderful daughter.
Christina Wilson
Windsor, Ontario Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 10:45 PM CST
Deb, Brian, Bonnie and Family,
I am sorry to here the loss of you beautiful daughter Katelyn!
I have had the joy of meeting this angle, from her Aunt Bonnie showing her around at Colasantis. I worked with Bonnie and always asked every moring how was Katelyn!!
I stopped working there and I always wondered every day how Katelyn was doing!
I missed my every moring update!!
I am truely sorry that Katelyn is not with you in person but remember that she will always be looking down on you through the eyes of heaven.
God Bless everyone in the family and peace be with you!!!
Lots of luv,
Melanie, Paul and Jenna Fish
Melanie Fish <paulfish@mnsi.com>
Wallaceburg, ON CANADA - Friday, April 1, 2005 10:32 PM CST
My sincere condolences on your loss of baby Katelyn, we don't know eachother, but i just wanted to say how beautiful your daughter is, my son carson as well spent some time in the hospital, 10 days last Sept in Windsor, from there we went to London for 2 1/2 months and then a transfer to Toronto for another 1 1/2 months, he started w/ chronic diarreah which led to 11 lbs weight loss and the protein in his blood was very low and needed 3 transfusions, it was a struggle everyday but when it came down to it he was my strength, he couldn't tolerate any food for six months and not a doctor that saw him knew what was wrong with him, he as well had to get a CVL(hickman-in his chest to main artery in neck)as was on tpn and a special formula through a nasal tube, he now is at home but is a struggle everday not to have answers, he has started to eat some foods again but only time will tell i guess whether his stomach can handle it or not,and he as well had the 2 little puffy cheeks, but isn't that the cutest though, the two of you are such strong people, and i truly cannot imagine how hard this is for you i admire your strengh,it's hard to hold back the tears,the pics are wonderful and the memories are going to last a lifetime, god bless you and your family
Stacie St. Pierre <mikstace@mnsi.net>
Amherstburg, Ontario,Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 9:07 PM CST
Hi Debbie and Brian! We were just visiting Katelyn's website and we are so sorry to hear about your loss. Even though we did not know her, she seemed like the most adorable little girl. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tammy and Dave Buchanan <dwdbfarmer@hotmail.com>
Comber, ON Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 8:59 PM CST
Dear Deb, Brian and family...thinking of you a lot today. Love Kelly's sister, Tracey. Tons of HUGS.
tracey johnson <traysea64@hotmail.com>
toronto, - Friday, April 1, 2005 8:25 PM CST
To Deb and Brian
We will always remember Deb jumping for joy when Katelyn's lab results were OK and Katelyn's smiling face despite what she was going through. She was so fortunate to have you as parents.
Rose Costa - for the Lab staff at Leamington Hospital <rcosta@ldmh.org>
Leamington, On Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 6:23 PM CST
Debbie and Brien - Today I was looking at the photos - my favourite is Katelyn sitting amongst the flowers -so I stood with you today in thought and prayers-and tomorrow I will be with you in spirit and my prayers will be with you - because I can't forget the look and smile of your beautiful little angel Katelyn's face in that picture. The guestbook is without a doubt the most precious treasure you can possess - just think of all those people and how you brought them all together by your unselfishness to share and teach us about strength and courage in the face of such an extreme difficult journey - Bless you both and prayers continue for you - Theresa Mayea
Theresa Mayea <tmayea@cogeco.ca>
Windsor, On Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 6:18 PM CST
I feel I know Katelyn from all the stories I have heard from Bonnie at work. Your precious little angel waited for her Grampa Doug to get there first. She is in good hands. God Bless you all.
Cyndie and Chantelle Burton <lrunstedler@cogeco.ca>
Kingsville, Ont - Friday, April 1, 2005 6:18 PM CST
I am a friend of Gloria Newman's. May God bless you and be with you.
Sue Hymus <gshymus@rogers.com>
St. Thomas, ON Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 5:24 PM CST
To Deb and Brian
I am here from a guestbook entry on Chance's page.
Through tears at the love being shown to you and your precious, beautiful Katelyn, I send love and prayers. May you feel the love of God at this sad time.
Mrs. Pam <preschoolpenpals@yahoo.com>
St Louis, mo - Friday, April 1, 2005 5:19 PM CST
Dear Brian and Deb : so sorry to hear of Katelyn's passing.and yes I'm sure she using those new wings now. What a beautiful little girl.I was so surprised to find a web page on the windsor star site just for her,it is truly wonderful to look at and understand everything she has been through. Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers.
Rick and Mary Reeb <reeb3@sympatico.ca>
Essex,Ontario, Can. - Friday, April 1, 2005 5:04 PM CST
You don't know me but my heart goes out to you and your family. Katelyn is such a beautiful child and heaven will be so honoured to have her as an angel.
Jen <deeserlynn@sympatico.ca>
Peterborough, On Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 4:49 PM CST
Deb and Brian: I am so sorry about the loss of your little angel. Please know that my thoughts are with you and be assured that even though she is gone she is now in good hands. I am sure that her and her grandpa are playing together and watching over both of you. Wayne Girardin
Wayne Girardin <waygir@yahoo.ca>
Leamington, Ont Can - Friday, April 1, 2005 3:35 PM CST
what a beatiful little girl. I am so sorry for your loss and words cannot express enough at this time. I have two little girls that have two different rare syndromes. I know how hard it is to cope. It sounds like you guys have done an amazing job.
Paula Saunders <paula@2fish.org>
windsor, Ont. Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 2:54 PM CST
I came upon your beautiful Katelyn's announcement today & my heart goes out to you & your family. I have a daughter the same age & could not even begin to imagine what you have been going through. May the memories you have of your amazing little girl keep you strong.
Melanie Teskey <melanieteskey@hotmail.com>
Maidstone, On Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 2:04 PM CST
hi deb and brian,i know that you have no idea who i am but i just wanted to send my deepest sympathy and say i am truly sorry for the passing of your baby.. she truly is a beautiful baby girl and even though she was only with you a short while you were and always will be truly blessed.. my prayers are with you and your family in your time of sorrow...
stephanie wilson <stephy772@hotmail.com>
windsor, ont canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 1:10 PM CST
We are praying for your continued peace with Katelyns passing. She was such a beautiful little girl and I'm sure she is an even more beautiful Angel.
The Hardin's <hardinrt@bellsouth.net>
Covington, GA USA - Friday, April 1, 2005 12:47 AM CST
Hi Debbie Brian I notice the e-mail did not go on the guestbook yesterday IT IS because I only hit Preview Guestbook Entry .What i said yesterday was i felt you both are walking in Gods foot steps because of all the trials you have maded together .With Katelyn your baby Angel .You have straightened my faith every day to always to put God first in our life and ask him to be with us in every step we take .Debbie with the Grace of GOD You have made a Bessing in your Family and will straighten your life with Brian forever with the love of GOD IN YOUR HEART ALWAYS .Angie Dennis Willem and Tiffany Beniuk
Angie Marentette Beniuk <dhbeniuk@3web.net.>
Leamington , Ont Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 12:26 AM CST
Hi Debbie and Brian I have been reading about Katelyn guestbook there is so many people out there who love you both so very much .To take there time to say a special prayer for your daughter who was in need off a healing .I thank GOD for people like us to share the word of GOD for Katelyn.This has straighten all of our faith in our Father God .With out him our lives will become tested each day of our lives. I love you both .Lastnight was very special Katelyn look so at peace.You both looked very strong Debbie did you get Katelyn Baptized I read one of your e-mails and it said you wanted Katelyn to be Baptized .please e-mail me back .your friend Angie Marentette Beniuk .
Angie Marentette Beniuk <dhbeniuk@3web.net>
Leanington , Ont Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 12:06 AM CST
I finally read my e-mail and saw your posts on the CDG Listserv...I was so saddened to hear of Katelyn's passing. All our children have a special purpose in this life. We must always try to find the good in why these things happen. I'm sure you will too.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you and Katelyn.
Debbie Hahn (Mom to Ashley E. Leary - CDG type 1j) <springvalliacres@yahoo.com>
Shannon, IL USA - Friday, April 1, 2005 9:21 AM CST
You don't know me nor I you, but I was so touched by your beautiful tribute to your lovely daughter. As a Grandmother I can only imagine how heartbreaking this experience has been for you and your family. I admire the strength and courage you have shown in the face of such a sad tragedy. God bless and keep you.
Rose Thomson
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 9:19 AM CST
Dear Deb and Brian,
It has been so many years...I hate that it takes something like this for us to make contact. I am so sorry for what you have been through. Katelyn was a beautiful, beautiful little girl. My prayers are with you and that adorable face will be in my heart and thoughts. When I first read the obituary I hoped that it wasn't really you..as I read on I realized that it was your little girl. My heart is aching for you...I remembered all the funny times we shared in high school and I can't believe you are still using that "What's your dog's name...Askem" joke that you always thought was so funny!! We never know what life will bring us...from those carefree days to motherhood.....Take care Deb, I will be thinking of you.
Melissa Hughes(Stitt) <melissajovi@sympatico.ca>
Lasalle, - Friday, April 1, 2005 9:00 AM CST
I came across your daughter's obituary this morning. It brought tears to my eyes, such a beautiful young child. Your little "Angel" is at peace now.
A verse from Celine Dion's Fly:
Fly, fly precious one
Your endless journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace forevermore
But hold this mem'ry bittersweet
Until we meet
May God Bless you and your family.
Suzanne Amaral <suzanne63@hotmail.com>
Leamington, On Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 8:51 AM CST
I know how hard it is
to lose the one you love
But look up in the sky
the cloud up near the dove
And you will see her face
just smiling proud at you
And you will know she cares
that you miss her so, too
And she will always be
in your heart and in your head
For she's a Lily White
And you're a Rose so Red
For she'd have liked the things
You do and keep on doing
And she'll be there just when
Your troubles are ensuing
And solve those troubles then
For you, Though a surprise
She sees through things you can't
With soft caressing eyes.
So miss her not TOO much
But CRY your tears 'til dry
For she is in your heart
She's right up there on high!
Sorry to hear of your loss. What a beautiful website you have done for your daughter. May God comfort you's during this difficult time.
Diana Neels (Cichon)
Cottam, Ont. Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 8:02 AM CST
Dear Brian & Deb
I am so sorry about the lost of Katelyn.
I have read all that has been put on the web and will continue to read all the updates.
My thought's and prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow.God bless you all.
P.S. Katelyn have fun in heaven with your wonderful grandpa.
you have so much to share with him for you only had a short time with him,you can tell grandpa all the wonderful stories he missed.
p.s. Deb where were a wonderful babysitter too.
with all my love and prayers.
Lu-Ann Piper McKeegan And Renee And Bobby Piper.xoxox
Lu-Ann Piper McKeegan <lujohnmckeegan@aol.com>
Belle River, Ont Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 7:48 AM CST
You don't know me but we lost a son almost two years ago to cancer. We spent many days and night in CHWO and Toronto Sick Kids as well as Ronald MacDonald House in London.
When I saw your daughter't obituary, I just wanted to write and pass along our condolences and prayers.
Heaven has now received another special angel.
Sharon Simpson <sharon.simpson@international.gc.ca>
Windsor, ON - Friday, April 1, 2005 7:41 AM CST
I read Katelyn's graduation announcement in the paper, and checked her website posted at the bottom. I am so glad I did, as I learned about a beautiful young baby girl and her very strong parents. Thank you for giving us a window-view of Katelyn's life journey, and inviting us all to share in her graduation, even if only through prayer and loving thoughts. Although she is the "graduate", it seems as if she was more the teacher, leaving those left behind with a wealth of life experiences and lessons they only had the privilege of learning by having been influenced by Katelyn. What a legacy for Katelyn, and equally wonderful, what an honour for Debbie and Brian to be able to claim "That's OUR girl".
Karen Jones <karenj@mnsi.net>
Amherstburg, Ontario Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 7:39 AM CST
This is for Toby
Thank you for being there for Debbie and Brian. You have been such a comfort to them, more than you know. I know your heart is breaking, just like Debbie and Brians was when you were going through the same thing such a short time ago. I am so happy that Debbie and Brian have you in thier life, we can be there for them but it is people like you that can truly understand to help them
Katelyn and Caillin had to do everything together. Please take comfort knowing that they are together right now and having a blast. I see that the wind has finally calmed down so maybe they are finally taking a rest. But if it not windy those two are probably causing trouble, Look out God!
Debbie's sister Bonnie
bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 7:08 AM CST
My prayers are with you all at this sad time but a joyful time for Our Lord and all the saints and angels in Heaven, He seems to be calling many of his faithful back to Him this past week.....may He and His Blessed Mother Mary give your little one peace and grant you many blessings.
p pattenden
halifax, nova scotia canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 6:59 AM CST
Deb,Brian, Just a quick hello and give you my love. Funny I usually have something to say (ok stop laughing) but it's just not there. Glad to know that Katelyn is taking care of you both. Brandon & I are there for you!
love /Mur & Brandon
Muriel/Brandon Gibson <mur28@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, on Canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 6:53 AM CST
First things first---Kit and Larry what were you doing signing in at 4:56am this morning, if you fall asleep today I will be the first to jab you with my elbow!
Yesterday was probably one of the hardest days we have had to endure seeing our little angel laying there. It was a good thing Debbie and Brian were there to get us through this. The strength that Katelyn is giving Debbie and Brian to get through this is remarkable.
As I look at Debbie and Brian I just have to shake my head,I can see who in the family got the strength genes.
They are such an inspiration to so many people and Katelyn has made them to be the people they are today.
Alot of people are sad that Debbie and Brian have been given a child that was sick and she should have been born NORMAL. I don't know what normal means but Katelyn was far from being normal.
Normal children can not touch so many people in such a short time and have the effect she does on people so if people say she was not normal, No she was not! She was exceptional!
Other people have felt sorry for Debbie and Brian having to stay with Katelyn in the hospital so much but they have had a chance to focus on just their child while other parents are so involved in outside activities and busy with thier own lives. Don't think of these hospital stays as being sad, think of the parents that are busy with thier own lives and not enjoying thier children as being sad. Debbie and Brian have had more quality time with thier daughter than most people have in 20 years.
If you are scared of not knowing what to say, be rest assured that Debbie and Brian are very strong and they know that when Katelyn was born they recieved the most remarkable child they could get.
Just being there gives Deb and Brian the strength they need and knowing how thier wonderful daughter has changed
just one more person in this world gives them comfort.
I am so proud to be her aunt- she has changed my life, I hope she changed yours.
Bonnie
Bonnie <craft_freak101@hotmail.com>
cottam, ont canada - Friday, April 1, 2005 6:20 AM CST
Good Morning my Loves: Just checking to see how you are doing. Love you both with all our hearts. And in case I didn't tell you yesterday, our Katelyn looked absolutely radiant and completely at peace. But, wow!!!!!! Those high winds that Katelyn and Caillin were kicking up together by running around up in heaven yesterday were a bit much, (LOL) but then they do have a lot of playtime and fun to make up for. See you later. Hugs and kisses
Mom <kitlarry@netrover.com>
Tilbury, On - Friday, April 1, 2005 4:56 AM CST
Katelyn is such a beauty. I will truly miss her. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your beautiful daughter with us all.
Melinda~FOA/RA~
West Carrollton, OH USA - Friday, April 1, 2005 0:12 AM CST
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